is heather butler really perfect?

is heather butler really perfect?

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FED UP

United States

#1 Nov 10, 2009
She is claiming to be!! I gathered all this information from her many postings and comments. I did not assume any of this, she & her followers wrote it on here themselves.You decide!!
YOU are the biggest Sh*t disturber we know on TOPIX.
You sat there on your computer ALL the time STARTING discussions about others and trashing people, then do the ďpoor meĒ act and say YOU DIDNíT start this? Yes you did.. If you would have handled your problems in person and not come on here to do it, then no one would have argued with you.
WHO Cares what you have or do with your life, who cares if your house is clean? You may be the perfect companion, mother, Christian or person. But you have/had your faults too, we all do. You say in the beginning and even brag about , clean house, great man, children, car, money, work a job, go to school.. That is your business.. But donít trash people for saying different and then post saying you didnít say this or that, say you have everything then say donít have much and talk about the Economy but sounds to me like you are financially set.. You talk like you have it made, if what you have been saying is true.. You have said that ďyou work ( a low paying one at that), go to school, 2 kids (I am sure YOU PAY medical insurance for them), a man that is a stay at home MOM (that you are living in Sin with), two cars, food, homeĒ YET, you say you receive NO assistance from the Government? Then I agree, you are better off than most of the people in the world, not just Pocahontas.
If ANYONE can do all the above that you say you do, Work ONE Low paying job, go to school, pay for your own schooling, a house, utilities, food, clothing, gas for two vehicles, smokes, child support for his other kid/kids and whatever other luxuries you all have without asking for ANY assistance, then all I can and will say is ďHoney, my hats off to youĒ. I do NOT know another person in this world can do it.
FED UP

United States

#2 Nov 10, 2009
A lot of people would be happy to live like you do!! BUT, Money and material things does not make a person. If you are in school to become a Social Worker, then why trash women that are like Starla, Holly, Michelle and others for giving up their kids because they either donít want, or canít take care of them for whatever reason? Personally, If they keep having them without means to support them, then they should be fixed so that MY tax dollars wouldnít have to support them. But why is it always the WOMAN'S fault, Where are the men that get these women pregnant and donít want the kids either? You put all the blame on one person in this type of situation, It takes TWO to make a baby, why are you defending the men that mess around? Are you saying that NO ONE in you or Tads family has EVER given up a child for any reason, slept with more than one person, have had to use Welfare or other assistance, used drugs, alcohol, been in trouble with the law? Hmm think about that question before you answer.. Isnít that what you are paying so much out pocket expenses to go to school for? To help control this problem? Why get on here and start a thread that contradicts what you believe in & are working so hard to have a Career in? Surely you canít have an ANGER and Hatred problem towards others ( like you have proven on here to have) to be in this field.
You have named at least 5 other people in your comments that cause/ have caused you problems. I have seen only one of those 5 get on here and say anything negative towards you, and that is supposedly a relative! That one person is probably the only one that knows you and Tads family better than anyone , maybe not you personally, but the family as a whole.. These people that you keep mentioning may be the scum of the earth, but what gives YOU the right to start crap on here about them and make yourself seem holier than thou. You know where all these people live, see them around.. Take it up in person!!
If you are as perfect as you and all your followers (especially the one that threatened sugar in someoneís gas tank) on here that take up for you say you are, then why donít you take your issues up with others in person, or heck involve the LAW, thatís what they are there for.. Last I heard, Harassment is a crime..
I hope I NEVER see you using food stamps, getting food from Brad, picking up the Holiday food boxes or the Free toys for kids @ Christmas. You donít need it ( You have proven that on here also). Save it for others that do need it.. If I see you or your man using any of these organizations/ benefits, I will bust you out right then and there, I will take pictures and post them on here, AND I hope others that know you and read how you talk on here do the same thing.
I have known Tad and some of his family a long time and even though he has had problems and issues in his life, I have never said a bad word about him. He has always been nice to me and I have him. You seem to be the one with all the issues.
Everyone that knows these women that you keep bashing, knows what they are like.. Get over it, you have your man, thatís what this all started about.. If he doesnít want other women like you say he doesnít, then be the better person and stay out of other peoples lives with your trashing. Run your own life, you seem to be doing it WELL..
I know you will have a smart reply to this, when you do, please tell us more about how perfect you are.. You have me so very interested in your life, since I have NEVER know anyone like you, PERFECT!!
Good Luck with your life and career!!
Hold on

Hardy, AR

#3 Nov 10, 2009
Is this Heather person, one on one's kid?
Heather

Jonesboro, AR

#4 Nov 10, 2009
if you have such a problem and you dont trash anybody, then why dont you give me a call and say what you have to say about me in person. You are no better than me, we were letting that post go and you had to start more shit. If you are so much better than me and all the other white trash on here, then why did you start a post about me?...
FED UP

United States

#5 Nov 10, 2009
She could be. I do know whomever they are, they have to be VERY proud parents.. Not too many of us parents in today's times can honestly say that our kids live like Royalty, eat with a Silver Spoon & live perfect lives like this family does. Must be nice!! I should print all her comments and success stories and make my kids read them just so they know it can be done on today's wages without asking for any help from anyone.. Then when my kids complain about how hard it is to make it with their income, cost of living, gas prices etc: I will make them re-read her success stories.. She should get the "Key to the City".. I feel soo Blessed to know such a family...
curious

Farmington, MO

#6 Nov 10, 2009
I'm curious who is the Holly being mentioned?
Heather

Jonesboro, AR

#7 Nov 10, 2009
I would never say that i am perfect! I if you have a problem with me then YOU can deal with it in person. Just for standing up for myself you get upset. Well, that is just ridiculous. It looks like your the one with such a BIG problem with me. There are alot of things you said in those 2 posts that are completely untrue... i never said our family doesnt get assistance of some kind. Almost 90% of the things you said that I SAID are not true. I was defending what they were saying about us! Not bragging. You expect me not to clarify or stand up for ourselves? Send me an e-mail and i will e-mail you my phone number and you can say everything you want to say to me right there. You dont know me, and i doubt you know Tad. As for 'taking pics of me using my assistance' i hope you can get to your camera fast enough before my hand gets to your face....good luck with that!
Heather

Jonesboro, AR

#8 Nov 10, 2009
Holly Green from poplar bluff, tad's cousin who doesnt even know us...
FED UP

United States

#9 Nov 10, 2009
Heather wrote:
if you have such a problem and you dont trash anybody, then why dont you give me a call and say what you have to say about me in person. You are no better than me, we were letting that post go and you had to start more shit. If you are so much better than me and all the other white trash on here, then why did you start a post about me?...
My Dear!! I am nor have I ever pretended to be better than you or anyone else.. I am me, I also work for a living. I in no way stick my nose in the air or consider myself any better than others. You were letting the first Post go, but then you start others . In the past week you started ( Starla Fisher, Starla F. and her friends, Holly Green) that's just to name a few. I just thought it would be nice, if you wanna be so popular on this Topix.. Why not have a discussion about you!!
Tad

Jonesboro, AR

#10 Nov 10, 2009
FED UP wrote:
She is claiming to be!! I gathered all this information from her many postings and comments. I did not assume any of this, she & her followers wrote it on here themselves.You decide!!
YOU are the biggest Sh*t disturber we know on TOPIX.
You sat there on your computer ALL the time STARTING discussions about others and trashing people, then do the ďpoor meĒ act and say YOU DIDNíT start this? Yes you did.. If you would have handled your problems in person and not come on here to do it, then no one would have argued with you.
WHO Cares what you have or do with your life, who cares if your house is clean? You may be the perfect companion, mother, Christian or person. But you have/had your faults too, we all do. You say in the beginning and even brag about , clean house, great man, children, car, money, work a job, go to school.. That is your business.. But donít trash people for saying different and then post saying you didnít say this or that, say you have everything then say donít have much and talk about the Economy but sounds to me like you are financially set.. You talk like you have it made, if what you have been saying is true.. You have said that ďyou work ( a low paying one at that), go to school, 2 kids (I am sure YOU PAY medical insurance for them), a man that is a stay at home MOM (that you are living in Sin with), two cars, food, homeĒ YET, you say you receive NO assistance from the Government? Then I agree, you are better off than most of the people in the world, not just Pocahontas.
If ANYONE can do all the above that you say you do, Work ONE Low paying job, go to school, pay for your own schooling, a house, utilities, food, clothing, gas for two vehicles, smokes, child support for his other kid/kids and whatever other luxuries you all have without asking for ANY assistance, then all I can and will say is ďHoney, my hats off to youĒ. I do NOT know another person in this world can do it.
You dont know heather or me so you should keep your mouth closed and the only reason the post was started is Starla was running her mouth behind our backs and wont say anything to our faces so go to Hell if you dont like it im sure you are trash like Holly and Starla dont like what we say on here come by our house and do something about it that goes for any1
Tad

Jonesboro, AR

#11 Nov 10, 2009
FED UP wrote:
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My Dear!! I am nor have I ever pretended to be better than you or anyone else.. I am me, I also work for a living. I in no way stick my nose in the air or consider myself any better than others. You were letting the first Post go, but then you start others . In the past week you started ( Starla Fisher, Starla F. and her friends, Holly Green) that's just to name a few. I just thought it would be nice, if you wanna be so popular on this Topix.. Why not have a discussion about you!!
why dont you use your real name on here bitch
Heather

Jonesboro, AR

#12 Nov 10, 2009
FED UP wrote:
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My Dear!! I am nor have I ever pretended to be better than you or anyone else.. I am me, I also work for a living. I in no way stick my nose in the air or consider myself any better than others. You were letting the first Post go, but then you start others . In the past week you started ( Starla Fisher, Starla F. and her friends, Holly Green) that's just to name a few. I just thought it would be nice, if you wanna be so popular on this Topix.. Why not have a discussion about you!!
[email protected] e-mail me and i will give you my number. I am not upset that you started this post, i already know that im not a perfect person. I never act like that. This just shows you know nothing about me. I love and care about my friends and family dearly. Why, doesnt this make you just like me? I guess it does...
FED UP

United States

#13 Nov 10, 2009
Heather wrote:
I would never say that i am perfect! I if you have a problem with me then YOU can deal with it in person. Just for standing up for myself you get upset. Well, that is just ridiculous. It looks like your the one with such a BIG problem with me. There are alot of things you said in those 2 posts that are completely untrue... i never said our family doesnt get assistance of some kind. Almost 90% of the things you said that I SAID are not true. I was defending what they were saying about us! Not bragging. You expect me not to clarify or stand up for ourselves? Send me an e-mail and i will e-mail you my phone number and you can say everything you want to say to me right there. You dont know me, and i doubt you know Tad. As for 'taking pics of me using my assistance' i hope you can get to your camera fast enough before my hand gets to your face....good luck with that!
There is not one thing in either post a lie.. You,Tad or one of your friends/family have said it, I was just refreshing everyone's memory into one comment.. Go back up and answer each question and comment one by one and let's see what you have to say. Oh and by the way, the discussion/comment you made to Joe Lundry? I think the PPD is still investigating this case, so if you can prove what you wrote, maybe they need to talk to you?
Hold on

Hardy, AR

#14 Nov 10, 2009
Heather wrote:
I would never say that i am perfect! I if you have a problem with me then YOU can deal with it in person. Just for standing up for myself you get upset. Well, that is just ridiculous. It looks like your the one with such a BIG problem with me. There are alot of things you said in those 2 posts that are completely untrue... i never said our family doesnt get assistance of some kind. Almost 90% of the things you said that I SAID are not true. I was defending what they were saying about us! Not bragging. You expect me not to clarify or stand up for ourselves? Send me an e-mail and i will e-mail you my phone number and you can say everything you want to say to me right there. You dont know me, and i doubt you know Tad. As for 'taking pics of me using my assistance' i hope you can get to your camera fast enough before my hand gets to your face....good luck with that!
Now I'm convinced this is one one one's kid. She's into hitting in the face too. Oh, well. I guess her Mother taught her well.
Heather

Jonesboro, AR

#15 Nov 10, 2009
FED UP wrote:
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There is not one thing in either post a lie.. You,Tad or one of your friends/family have said it, I was just refreshing everyone's memory into one comment.. Go back up and answer each question and comment one by one and let's see what you have to say. Oh and by the way, the discussion/comment you made to Joe Lundry? I think the PPD is still investigating this case, so if you can prove what you wrote, maybe they need to talk to you?
The only posts i have wrote have been the ones with my name on them. And the comment to Joe Lundry was from somebody insinuating that since he was with Starla now, she might drown him next. Tad put that, he dont really care if you like it or not. I think he thinks starla drowned her old man.(the one that drowned) I have no comment on that subject one way or the other, since its not my business. You didnt accomplish anything on your posts. You get on here and start a post about someone but dont put your real name on here because a) you dont want your friends to know you are on Topix b)You are worried people have terrible things to say about you.c)you are too scared to say what you think to anyone that may know you. You pick one, they are all cowardly approaches.
Heather

Jonesboro, AR

#16 Nov 10, 2009
FED UP wrote:
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There is not one thing in either post a lie.. You,Tad or one of your friends/family have said it, I was just refreshing everyone's memory into one comment.. Go back up and answer each question and comment one by one and let's see what you have to say. Oh and by the way, the discussion/comment you made to Joe Lundry? I think the PPD is still investigating this case, so if you can prove what you wrote, maybe they need to talk to you?
Yes, there are alot of things in your posts a lie. You said that me or tad or one of our 'followers' wrote things. But i am saying that i didnt right half of the things you said i wrote. I am defending myself, and you dont like it. If someone says my house is dirty, i say its clean. If someone calls tad a deadbeat dad, i clarify that he isnt. How is that bragging? I have stood up for my family, not posted things to make others love me. LOL! You need to learn how to read, or at least how to prove your point.
FED UP

United States

#17 Nov 10, 2009
Heather wrote:
<quoted text>Yes, there are alot of things in your posts a lie. You said that me or tad or one of our 'followers' wrote things. But i am saying that i didnt right half of the things you said i wrote. I am defending myself, and you dont like it. If someone says my house is dirty, i say its clean. If someone calls tad a deadbeat dad, i clarify that he isnt. How is that bragging? I have stood up for my family, not posted things to make others love me. LOL! You need to learn how to read, or at least how to prove your point.
Well I know that my comments are only based on what I have read or know to be facts. It doesn't matter to me one way or the other. None of you mean anything to me or my family. But if you can't be nice to others, then you need to stay off here. Probably the ONLY thing that griped my butt in your comments is that you have all the Material things you mentioned and made it sound like YOU are supporting you and your family all by yourself and everyone that knows you, knows better & when they say something about it, you get all defensive. Just like anyone else in your situation could not have all the finer things in life that you claim to have unless the Tax payers help. Oh BTW don't make threats to harm me, I have never threatened to harm you. That is an illegal act. But now that you have made the threat public, better hope it doesn't happen!! Understand?
information

United States

#18 Nov 10, 2009
FED UP wrote:
A lot of people would be happy to live like you do!! BUT, Money and material things does not make a person. If you are in school to become a Social Worker, then why trash women that are like Starla, Holly, Michelle and others for giving up their kids because they either donít want, or canít take care of them for whatever reason? Personally, If they keep having them without means to support them, then they should be fixed so that MY tax dollars wouldnít have to support them. But why is it always the WOMAN'S fault, Where are the men that get these women pregnant and donít want the kids either? You put all the blame on one person in this type of situation, It takes TWO to make a baby, why are you defending the men that mess around? Are you saying that NO ONE in you or Tads family has EVER given up a child for any reason, slept with more than one person, have had to use Welfare or other assistance, used drugs, alcohol, been in trouble with the law? Hmm think about that question before you answer.. Isnít that what you are paying so much out pocket expenses to go to school for? To help control this problem? Why get on here and start a thread that contradicts what you believe in & are working so hard to have a Career in? Surely you canít have an ANGER and Hatred problem towards others ( like you have proven on here to have) to be in this field.
You have named at least 5 other people in your comments that cause/ have caused you problems. I have seen only one of those 5 get on here and say anything negative towards you, and that is supposedly a relative! That one person is probably the only one that knows you and Tads family better than anyone , maybe not you personally, but the family as a whole.. These people that you keep mentioning may be the scum of the earth, but what gives YOU the right to start crap on here about them and make yourself seem holier than thou. You know where all these people live, see them around.. Take it up in person!!
If you are as perfect as you and all your followers (especially the one that threatened sugar in someoneís gas tank) on here that take up for you say you are, then why donít you take your issues up with others in person, or heck involve the LAW, thatís what they are there for.. Last I heard, Harassment is a crime..
I hope I NEVER see you using food stamps, getting food from Brad, picking up the Holiday food boxes or the Free toys for kids @ Christmas. You donít need it ( You have proven that on here also). Save it for others that do need it.. If I see you or your man using any of these organizations/ benefits, I will bust you out right then and there, I will take pictures and post them on here, AND I hope others that know you and read how you talk on here do the same thing.
I have known Tad and some of his family a long time and even though he has had problems and issues in his life, I have never said a bad word about him. He has always been nice to me and I have him. You seem to be the one with all the issues.
Everyone that knows these women that you keep bashing, knows what they are like.. Get over it, you have your man, thatís what this all started about.. If he doesnít want other women like you say he doesnít, then be the better person and stay out of other peoples lives with your trashing. Run your own life, you seem to be doing it WELL..
I know you will have a smart reply to this, when you do, please tell us more about how perfect you are.. You have me so very interested in your life, since I have NEVER know anyone like you, PERFECT!!
Good Luck with your life and career!!
. Sorry fed up, michelle has her children, always has. And she does work and take care of them. She is a great mother! So please don't put her name in with holly or starla, she don't talk bad about noone. She doesn't even get on here, she has more important things in her life. Thank you
FED UP

United States

#19 Nov 10, 2009
I did not mean any disrespect towards her. Someone had mentioned a Michelle in this war against Mothers and I was just saying that People did not need to be talking about any of these names that someone out there have posted comments about. I don't know this Michelle, so I have nothing to say about her. I was actually defending her name. I am certainly glad that she is not in the same class with these others. Good for her!!:-)
no one is

Leesville, LA

#20 Nov 10, 2009
hey dumb asses!! I have news no one is perfect. There is only one person in this world who ever was perfect and that was Jesus.

So let all the air out of your heads and take a deep breath and thank God your even here still living.

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