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williford student

United States

#41 Oct 20, 2009
Mes wrote:
she is 12 and it was at williford and she was dating a guy but he was only 12 no 19...get you facts straight....
i for one no that she was 12 the guy she was with was 19(zac chapman) and the other guy was (zac deculter) also 19 and new she was 12 cus the guy was friends with a kid whos brother was one of her best friends so u get ur facts straight or shut up
Hardy post

Ashland, VA

#42 Oct 20, 2009
You can read the Hardy post about her being a virgin.
williford student

United States

#43 Oct 20, 2009
i didn't say she wasn't a virgin
One on One

Bexar, AR

#44 Oct 20, 2009
move on wrote:
number one:why is everyone focusing on pointing fingers at who should be blamed for this girls suicide? say a prayer for the family and move on.
number two: who cares about the details? she was a 12 year old who committed suicide. that is detail enough right there. again say a prayer for the family and move on!
I'm sorry, I don't think THAT is enough. Everyone needs to know what was going on with this girl and in her life that caused her to feel this was the only way out, so that just perhaps, something this horrible can be avoided in the future.
local resident

United States

#45 Oct 23, 2009
She was 12 years old. She hung herself on her back porch with a scarf. She lived on hwy 175. About 5 miles from motor center. You can look up on the cherokee villager newspaper, and read what happened.
mommy

Ville Platte, LA

#46 Oct 23, 2009
I loved my sweet sarah more than my own life,my whole world revolved around her and now my world is gone . she rejected these boys just like she was taught and they began harassing her to no end. sarah said in her suicde note that she could'nt handle them anymore.now my beautiful baby girl is gone and sharp county is letting them walk free with no consequences for their actions.my heart has been ripped from chest please leave me alone and stop judging me !
local resident

United States

#47 Oct 23, 2009
mommy wrote:
I loved my sweet sarah more than my own life,my whole world revolved around her and now my world is gone . she rejected these boys just like she was taught and they began harassing her to no end. sarah said in her suicde note that she could'nt handle them anymore.now my beautiful baby girl is gone and sharp county is letting them walk free with no consequences for their actions.my heart has been ripped from chest please leave me alone and stop judging me !
I wasn't judging you. I think the boys should have to be held accountable. It's not right for them to go around like nothing happened. Some day they might grow up and realize how many people suffered because of them.
just lost a child myself

Charleston, WV

#48 Oct 24, 2009
mommy wrote:
I loved my sweet sarah more than my own life,my whole world revolved around her and now my world is gone . she rejected these boys just like she was taught and they began harassing her to no end. sarah said in her suicde note that she could'nt handle them anymore.now my beautiful baby girl is gone and sharp county is letting them walk free with no consequences for their actions.my heart has been ripped from chest please leave me alone and stop judging me !
starr, is that right? i am soo sorry for your loss. i just wanted to get on here and say that i know how you are feeling. we lost my beautiful 5 year old step daughter sept 27 in a car wreck and the pain is unbearable. i want you to know this WAS NOT your fault. i have read this forum and the hardy post. this is parden me BULLSHIT for someone to get on a computer and bash a mother that has just lost her child. i am not and would never judge you sweetie. i can only imagine the grief and guilt you are already putting yourself through. i am so sorry again this happened to you and your family. may god be with you and lift you up when you need him most. i will continue to pray for you. i hope all of this kind of crap stops that way MAYBE you can accept and deal with your baby being gone better.
heatbreaking

Lake Charles, LA

#49 Oct 24, 2009
This has got to be one of the most heartbreaking things a Mother can go thru! My heart goes out to this young girl's parents, family, and friends...God bless and hopefully thru his Grace you will have peace.
Sarahs Aunt

Enterprise, AL

#50 Oct 24, 2009
Sarah was a beautiful girl who was VERY loved by her family and real friends. She was out with her family laughing and having a good time the day we lost her. She was being verbally bullied by these men. They were spreading lies about her around her school and she had to deal with being called names there. Her mother loved her more then life its-self. Sarah was her mothers whole world and now her world is shattered. I have had to watch Starr(Sarahs mom) cry while looking at her pictures and going through her room. I have never heard the cry of a mother who has lost her child until Starr lost Sarah and it the most heartbreaking thing I have ever heard. Thank you to the ones who have been supportive and to the ones who havent been give Starr the respect this poor woman deserves and NEEDS. Think about who she has lost. Sarah would never want anyone to attack her mother.

LLH

Since: Sep 09

Ozark, AL

#51 Oct 25, 2009
To both mothers with recent loss, You need not walk alone we are here for you with no judgements only understanding and experience. I myself am 19 mos into this new life and want you to know there are people and places who understand lossing a child, I will not say I understand your feelings for they are your own, but I do understand some of the whys, woulda coulda shoulda's, and the dark places we go to now. Compasionate Friends in Hoxie and Dailey Strenth online under for moms only and for mommys only have helped. [email protected] if you wish to contact me. walking with you-Lauri
julia

United States

#52 Nov 2, 2009
ok you ppl need to shut up!!!!! she was my best friend and need got help i was always there for her and she wasnt datin the 19 year old ok!!!!! it was a one night stand and she fell in love with him, and he was a complet jerk and treated her like crap. she was only 12. and her parents didnt no about it. but they cared dearly about her they would do anythin for her so you ppl need to leave the parents alon they are one of the best parents i have ever met if you dont no the true fact kept the SHIT to yourself
julia

United States

#53 Nov 2, 2009
ummmm no the guy she was with was zzyzyx he was 19 and she wasnt with him stuff happend between them and he stabed her in the back she fell in love withhim. you ppl dont no what your talkin about i was one of her best friends uhhhhhhhhhhhh
julia

United States

#54 Nov 2, 2009
Link wrote:
http://www.myspace.com/monkey1 2345678910monkey
It looks as if the 19 year old boy's name is Zac Chapman.
uhh no zac isnt the one that she killed herself over it was zzyzyx and it wasnt just him other ppl where bein really mean to her i think i no becuse i was one of her best friends
whatever

Lake Charles, LA

#55 Feb 21, 2010
Clueless wrote:
Yeah, you can see that the kid needed help. Too bad her family was clueless to that fact, but then they probably taught her everything she knew about how to act that way.
Look NO they didnt teach her any of that stuff and I really dont appreciate you talking that way about my family or my little cousin. Cant you see we have had enough pain? We dont need you people over the internet telling us what was done wrong.

“Like me or Love me.i.dont.care”

Since: Feb 10

Pocahontas Arkansas

#56 Feb 21, 2010
WHY cant you all mind your own buisness? cant you see what your all doing to this poor family whose just lost a daughter,cousin, neice. WOULD YOU want people discussing this about your family or wouldnt you like it left alone so the wounds could begin to heal...i havent lost a child i have a 9 month old who means the world to me and i am 16 andraising him but i have lost both my parents and theres been thread beyond thread on what happend and i wished it would stop so do the family a favor and let this thread disapear.

I am truely sorry for your loss. i couldnt even imagine what itd be like if i lost my little boy. I hope you can find good ways to deal with your loss and once again i amn truely sorry.
I just moved South

Bexar, AR

#57 Feb 24, 2010
sad wrote:
You can clearly see from her myspace, that she was clearly crying out for attention or needed help or something, my goodness, the stuff she had on her myspace is NOT suitable for a 12 year old. This is just sad!!!
I would not be to critical of the parents , they are sometimes the last to know about the mental state of their children .
Kids say and do mean things to each other .
It is such a waste that this young girl died.
hdf

United States

#58 Feb 12, 2013
I just wanted to tell all you nosy people that star have it her all. She was an amazing parent and Sarah did know lots about Jesus. But if you wanna go there than let me say this, Jesus doesn't believe in GUDGING so maybe you should become a better Christian and learn your facts. I love you sissy and I have missed you every day and I always will. rest in peace now babe cuz you are safe in gods hands.
Just a Thought

Jonesboro, AR

#59 Feb 13, 2013
No one here knows the torture this child's family is or has endured. I'm sure their situation all the way around has and is difficult.
And you can all take solace. These people have a life time of relentless grief and regret to get through. They will blame themselves until their insides bleed. Your critisim can't inflict near the pain they are experiencing at this very moment; sleep is not going to offer a reprieve either.
Suicide is a result of serious clinical depression. Sometimes it is very hard to see because the idea seems so impossible.

Those enjoying throwing stones at the parents of this dear child have no ability to really understand or care about the family or the child. You have no heart. Perhaps if people found it easier to be kind, those with problems might find it easier to reach out.

I am reading the cruel statements and feeling as if this world has lost compassion. I doubt this child wants you hurting her parents. God can comfort her, I pray. And I pray just as hard the parents find comfort in God's love as well.

I don't think it is available here, with the wolves already feasting on their pain. I pray you might put yourselves in their reality right now and consider praying for them too.
Just a Thought

Jonesboro, AR

#60 Feb 13, 2013
Thank you. I just saw the lates posts. There is hope.

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