Single mothers multiple dads

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Feb 18, 2013
 
way to go Tricia

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#22
Feb 18, 2013
 
you go tricia i am a single mother and my kids are going to be fine and so will yours the mother is always the one that raises the children anyway, excluding the few men out there that have had to step up because the mother left or whatever.
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Feb 18, 2013
 

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Completely agree with you. Im so sick of people putting my children down because of the mistakes i have made. People call me all kinds of names because of my past but what they don't understand is that i have grown up compared to a lot of girls my age that have kids. My children always come first and have the best when i can afford it. So people saying im a cry baby and all that bull all i can say is obviously they don't know me very well if they are gonna talk about my kids and think they are gonna get away with it.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
Tricia wrote:
Its not obvious!! Im trying to raise my kids to be better than me and their sperm donors! Its obvious that whoever started this thread and continues to bash us and our children have NEVER been a single parent!! Be one and then tell me my child will be no better than me. Because they both will!! And thank you rick i try but when people put my children down its hard.
Actually I started this thread a while back I'm glad someone finally paid attention. You are the one I am trying to reach. I actually have been a single parent. I had my son and when the marriage fizzled out I stayed close to my ex-husband and remarried years later but never had anymore kids. I won't ever even though ive happily married for the last 9 years. My child is grown now but I made him a priority and he's going to medical school now. I could have kept wasting my energy on looking for man and having babies but I chose to raise a man instead. Focus on your current children. You owe them this goes for men and women.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
I do agree with you. I have always made my kids my priorities and its people like that idiot telling me that my kids will never amount to anything and that im a loser single mom that p*ss me off. Although i have two kids, they are almost three years apart and my son was a complete accident. But my children will ALWAYS get all of me. Men don't understand that and i don't need some man coming in and ruining my relationship with my children. They are and always will be my everything. Wanna know the one thing that p*issed me off the most? My son has disabilities and that "loser" was saying how my children will never make anything out of themselves. Well ya know what? At least they have a mother who LOVES them unconditionally!!
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Feb 22, 2013
 
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Don't you EVER talk about my children like that you sorry peice of crap! They have a wonderful home with ME and no one else!! And no one else can raise my kids. F*ck you and your condescending bull sh*t.
you tell them girl i know a mon that raised her kids and there doing just fine god bless you
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Feb 22, 2013
 
dont put much in store these blohards put on her say
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Feb 22, 2013
 

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Tricia, whoever wrote that was an idiot who didn't think twice about what he was saying. He just thought it would be cute to get on here and cause a big stir. Don't be upset because that's exactly what he was going for. Your children have just as good of a chance as those with a male figure present...A better chance even, in many cases.
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Feb 22, 2013
 

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personal opinion wrote:
I think they need to live right and stop making poor choices. Makes them look like a sluut gut ho to some people.
If you are not the father why do you care?
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Feb 22, 2013
 
Thank you be happy i agree with you.
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Every time I come back to this thread I'm surprised at how much the point I was trying to make is missed. It's not about can a woman raise a child alone and do it successfully sure they can sometimes. Although it's unlikely given the statistics. The point is don't have children with men that have characteristics that may prove them to be a bad father or unstable ie drugs, can't hold a job, has children with several other women, doesn't treat you with respect or display reliability. There are soooo many options for contraception that a "accident" is just another way of saying careless. If you can't handle the responsibility of watching out for the best interest of yourself and your children born or unborn, then you need the IUD ask your doctor about it or the health clinic. It's not 100% but it's pretty reliable better than the" baby daddy"
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My mother was a single mother most of my life and nearly all of my brother's life because our so-called 'father' bailed on us when my mother divorced him. She struggled and she fought, but she raised us all by herself. She had zero help from anyone including the government and public assistance. She never remarried and did not even date until we were teenagers. My brother grew up to be very successful, but never had children because of an illness he suffered as a child. I graduated from college and have a family of my own. I was married, had one child, and became a widow by my mid-twenties. I found myself a single parent, and found myself making my child my only priority. I too, just like my mother, was doing it on my own. A close friend and I began to date and we married. He took my child as his own and we had a child together. We have been married 18 years now. Anyway, to the point, not all single parents raise children that grow up to make poor choices and not all of us suffer from being children of single parents. We can find great guys and have families even if we have children as long as we are good people who have our acts together. I have lost my brother and my mother, but the way she raised me will never be forgotten. Her teachings will forever stick with me. As long as parents put aside their selfish needs and act as parents everything else will fall in place. If they open their legs to any man who comes along no man will ever respect them. Just remember not all single mothers are single parents by choice and not all of them are easy. All of them, should however, take it upon themselves to prevent pregnancy until they are married and regardless of whether or not a man is sterile you girls need to use condoms. You are all your children have, do you want to risk dying from AIDS?
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Jamie cyprets name needs to be on here, hell she has two kids she dont take care of as it is and now she's having another one and dont know who the daddy to it is but she's playing it off as josh's when they wasnt even together then!
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Mar 14, 2013
 
Seriously wrote:
Every time I come back to this thread I'm surprised at how much the point I was trying to make is missed. It's not about can a woman raise a child alone and do it successfully sure they can sometimes. Although it's unlikely given the statistics. The point is don't have children with men that have characteristics that may prove them to be a bad father or unstable ie drugs, can't hold a job, has children with several other women, doesn't treat you with respect or display reliability. There are soooo many options for contraception that a "accident" is just another way of saying careless. If you can't handle the responsibility of watching out for the best interest of yourself and your children born or unborn, then you need the IUD ask your doctor about it or the health clinic. It's not 100% but it's pretty reliable better than the" baby daddy"
I call BULLSHIT! A my first bf treated me great and there was no drugs or alcohol or other woman it wasn't till his dad died he lost it and ten his mom died I took my kid away from that state he was in no right mind am I ha to do best by my daughter as for the accidents being careless I call bullshit again I was told for years if never be able to have kids I was on birth control everyday same time and we used a condom but the dr in trying to help put me on hormones which canceled out birth control which nearly killed me and I got pregnant! 2nd sperm donor also took care of me no drugs drank some with my step dad he had my whole family and friends along with myself and roommate plus BFF understand he was fixed had a scar after what I been through birth control would kill me and yes I tried again he flushed them I was sick bad couldn't move weak and won't go on however he did lie he wasn't fixed but he was a good man to me and my daughter also my family didn't think it would end up like this so if u don't know then don't speak ultra there are woman out there who should pay attention but u look at statistics like its all of them that are that way bullshit statistics say now adays 80% of black ppl compared to white have kids and are on state assistance I don't buy it because I know alot of black woman who are holding strong jobs and insurance being a single mom with no help from anyone statistics is crap they feed u sorry but its true like I said if ur clueless don't speak or type!
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Exactly all of you think you can be the exception to the rule. We can't all be the exception to the rule. If your life is such fairytale of beating the odds how did you get pregnant by a deadbeat the first or second time. Don't just keep having kids and expecting them to beat the odds, because mathematics says you'll watch them pay the consequences. Truth hurts and excuses never change what's already done, the future still belongs to you
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My daughters dad was my highschool sweetheart who hasn't figured out how not to cheat. My sons dad i got with him because he was older and i thought that meant he was more mature. I was so very wrong. They were both cheaters and still are. At least i learned from my mistakes.
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All it would take is for these women to bare a child with no pain meds and I guarantee you that they will think twice before not using birth control again. Our medical professionals do not want to hear the women scream in pain so they knock them out during labor. Of course they are getting their money for all these deliveries through Medicaid. They don't care about the crises in all of this. Medicaid needs to quit paying for epidurels and I bet birth rates go down quite a bit for the unmarried and young.
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#38
Mar 24, 2013
 
I tried to have my daughter naturally but couldn't. She was stuck. So i still would have children if i had them naturally. I love my kids and wouldn't change anything.
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Mar 24, 2013
 
Pain wrote:
All it would take is for these women to bare a child with no pain meds and I guarantee you that they will think twice before not using birth control again. Our medical professionals do not want to hear the women scream in pain so they knock them out during labor. Of course they are getting their money for all these deliveries through Medicaid. They don't care about the crises in all of this. Medicaid needs to quit paying for epidurels and I bet birth rates go down quite a bit for the unmarried and young.
Yeah, because we all know it is entirely the girl's fault. What do you suggest we do the sperm donors? You must be a man.*eye roll*
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Mar 28, 2013
 

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Sorry idiot.. I am a woman. And all a girl has to do is say no. Girls have no respect for themselves anymore. Most of the pregnancy that is going on today is for them to get attention. Most men have never had any respect when it comes to sex. All they care about is getting what they want and bragging about it. My heart goes out to all these babies being born because someone wants attention. And the really horrible thing for these babies is they get no attention from the parents who had them.

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