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Young single mothers having children with multiple men is an epidemic with catastrophic consequences. Young men dating single mothers I applaud your willingness to consider caring for these women and children because they need support but be responsible. Make sure you are taking precautionary measures and they are on birth control. Don't add to what is already an uphill battle, where children pay the consequences. Unless you are ready to love and care for them both FOREVER! Single Moms take birth control and don't sleep with a man unless he's willing to use a condom. Think about your unborn child and the ones you have already. Don't they deserve a man in their life that will love and care for them and you? Children need financial stability from people they can rely on not just mr. Right now. Parents talk to your children research the statistics of children of single mothers. It's abysmal and sad. We have to face the facts.
buck wheat

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Aug 12, 2012
 

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Praise the lord & pass out them condom.
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I think they need to live right and stop making poor choices. Makes them look like a sluut gut ho to some people.
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It dosent matter how it makes them look. It's the odds stacked against them:

72% of juvenile murders from single mother home

70% of teen pregnancy are children raised by single mothers

80% of all inmates in prison now were raised by single mothers

The statistics of poverty, suicide and overall quality of life are enough to make you sick. This is not all children of single parents but obviously some. Young single Moms need to focus on getting good jobs with insurance and raising their children to beat the odds. Not finding another man to keep her company. But at the very least don't bring another child into the world to share the struggle. It's the man and woman's responsibilty to not burden society but a single parent owes their current child the most.
seriously two

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Aug 12, 2012
 

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i think serious needs to get laid...
tricia

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Aug 24, 2012
 
I have two children with two dads and youre very right about all these women out there not takin care of their kids and then having more. I have had a job since i was 18. Since i found out i was pregnant with my daughter. And this is hard goin thru it alone. A lot of men dont wanna be with a woman with two kids. But i agree about birth control. I have been on it since my daughter was born but had to be off of it for a month and thats when my son was conceived. And thats because a man convinced me he was fixed.
Bob Onmee

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Aug 26, 2012
 
Seriously wrote:
Young single mothers having children with multiple men is an epidemic with catastrophic consequences. Young men dating single mothers I applaud your willingness to consider caring for these women and children because they need support but be responsible. Make sure you are taking precautionary measures and they are on birth control. Don't add to what is already an uphill battle, where children pay the consequences. Unless you are ready to love and care for them both FOREVER! Single Moms take birth control and don't sleep with a man unless he's willing to use a condom. Think about your unborn child and the ones you have already. Don't they deserve a man in their life that will love and care for them and you? Children need financial stability from people they can rely on not just mr. Right now. Parents talk to your children research the statistics of children of single mothers. It's abysmal and sad. We have to face the facts.
I agree. Y'all need to start swallowing instead.
Bowchicawowow

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Bob Onmee wrote:
<quoted text>I agree. Y'all need to start swallowing instead.
I think y'all need to start swallowing ur own shit instead! Men stop with excuses about condoms it's not all the females my ex had my whole family convinced he was fixed and had scars up until I was 6 months preggers the drs said there was a chance there was a lil swimmer in the chamber left and that's how I ended up with my son when I found out he lied I found out he did it on purpose so I wouldn't ever leave him and if I did he would always hold the strings guess what he don't but he also don't like to see his son either! Men "boys" I mean really stop blaming everything on the girls just cuz we carry the baby for 9 months doesn't make it all on us!

“Dont drink the kool-aid”

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In my single days I would seek out single mothers with multiple fathers as you knew they were the ones that put out. (Let the hate begin).
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Feb 10, 2013
 
Guys need to stop wanting the young girls pregnant. They look up to you.
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Feb 13, 2013
 
Seriously wrote:
It dosent matter how it makes them look. It's the odds stacked against them:
72% of juvenile murders from single mother home
70% of teen pregnancy are children raised by single mothers
80% of all inmates in prison now were raised by single mothers
The statistics of poverty, suicide and overall quality of life are enough to make you sick. This is not all children of single parents but obviously some. Young single Moms need to focus on getting good jobs with insurance and raising their children to beat the odds. Not finding another man to keep her company. But at the very least don't bring another child into the world to share the struggle. It's the man and woman's responsibilty to not burden society but a single parent owes their current child the most.
Statistics can be shady but I agree with this. I do believe children prosper so much more when coming from a good sturdy family (that includes mommy and daddy). Sadly there are instances where even a mother and father cannot help that child "grow" together. So it's just safer to wrap it up and get on bc. Maybe even not have sex until marriage, although in this day in age I think that's way too much to ask for.
Tricia

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I do not agree with you. Does that mean because Im a single mother my children won't prosper? Its not my choice to be a single mother. Its my children's dads choices. They made the decision to not be fathers. I am the one who made the choice to be a mother. I have done everything to be the best mother i can be. If that makes me a bad mother Im sorry you feel that way. If having to raise two children by myself makes you think Im a bad mother maybe you should check out their fathers first. Krislynnes dad knocked up a 16 year old three years ago and now he is not even with her. Brycens dad decided he liked my best friend better and knocked her up. Neither of them have anything to do with their children. So its their choice not mine!!
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Feb 14, 2013
 

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Dont let people get to you.Live the best life you can for your kids & yourself.I do not know you but I know how Pocahontas people are.
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You are all wasting your breath. This sort of situation is a vicious cycle that is only going to get worse. The majority of children in this type of upbringing will not raise above the circumstances and make a better way. Most will likely fall into the same rut they were raised in. It is a sad but obvious truth.
Tricia

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Its not obvious!! Im trying to raise my kids to be better than me and their sperm donors! Its obvious that whoever started this thread and continues to bash us and our children have NEVER been a single parent!! Be one and then tell me my child will be no better than me. Because they both will!! And thank you rick i try but when people put my children down its hard.
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I didn't specifically point out anyone by name. I meant in general. Your kids Tricia may be some of the few that do rise above but the odds are greatly against you. To say that it isn't obvious though is strange. Have you been around Pocahontas much?
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Feb 14, 2013
 
You give the names of the sperm donors that aren't taking care of their children and Deland Pusser (Buford's boy), Willy and Stagger Lee will keep track of them.
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Bub Sorrell wrote:
You give the names of the sperm donors that aren't taking care of their children and Deland Pusser (Buford's boy), Willy and Stagger Lee will keep track of them.
Do you hear voices in your head.
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Tricia wrote:
Its not obvious!! Im trying to raise my kids to be better than me and their sperm donors! Its obvious that whoever started this thread and continues to bash us and our children have NEVER been a single parent!! Be one and then tell me my child will be no better than me. Because they both will!! And thank you rick i try but when people put my children down its hard.
what a cry baby. you are a loser single mother. get over it.
your kids ain't got a chance. next time you get knocked up, just
put your kids up for adoption so they will have a chance.
cry baby.
Tricia

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Don't you EVER talk about my children like that you sorry peice of crap! They have a wonderful home with ME and no one else!! And no one else can raise my kids. F*ck you and your condescending bull sh*t.

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