JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#21 Sep 7, 2012
I have. Thanks for the suggestion. I've already started changing the people I run around with. That's one of the many reasons why I don't go to Thayer anymore. That city got me into trouble a lot. No more of that.
i know him

Bexar, AR

#22 Sep 7, 2012
as for Kim Avery, if you had nothing to do with her then why was she at your house all the time? And don't say she wasn't because everyone who knows her, knows she was. and you seem to think that it's all about YOU. it's not. I know Nikki. I know her well. And if you're really making changes in your life then that's great. we're happy for you. but that's not what this is about necessarily. Its not about you persay. its about protecting her baby and if you can't prove to her that you are better now, then nothing is going to change. That baby comes first. Not you and what you want. not Nikki and what she wants. but that baby. And Nikki knows this and has made sacrifices that I know you would never make in order to do whats right for Stormi. However, she has a good source that says you've not changed at all. I'm not saying you haven't, however. But if you have, you have to PROVE it to her. Getting on the internet, whether it be facebook, or topix and slandering her and lying isn't going to do that. You want her to believe you, start telling the truth, because she knows what really happened. She was there. Stop twisting things and lying to make her look bad. She never claimed to be perfect. She never claimed she's completely innocent. But she knows what you're saying about her and the situation and the fact that you can't tell the truth just shows her that you've not changed. So maybe when you learn to tell the truth, she'll learn to listen.
i know him

Bexar, AR

#23 Sep 7, 2012
and she's not on her talking badly about you. shes not harassing your friends or going around throwing a pity party to get people to feel sorry for her. did you ever think about the effect your lies and slanders might be having on her? did you ever once during your marriage or now stop to consider how your actions might effect her? like i said, its not all about you. stop and think before speaking, because you're not the only one who's got it rough here. shes not doing anything to you. stop making it worse for her.
omg

Jonesboro, AR

#24 Sep 7, 2012
Dang
omg

Jonesboro, AR

#25 Sep 7, 2012
Guess the other forum is being reviewed for removal. Can't get in it. Oh well.
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#26 Sep 7, 2012
She did come over a lot. She was even at Nikki's bachelorette party. She did try to get with me. I didn't allow it to happen and now, I won't allow her around me. Why would I wanna get with someone who was with Shane Ferrell anyway? That's nasty in every way there is. As for Nikki, I never slandered her and for you to even think so is unrealistic. I'm sure that she is a good mother to Stormi and I admit, I messed up majorly. I do HAVE THE RIGHT to ask how my daughter is doing. She is the one who led me on to believe that this marriage would work. I have the proof of her saying that to my mother via text. I've made the changes needed. So, please tell me. What truth am I supposedly not saying? What is she taking responsibility for? She hasn't. Everyone is putting ALL the blame on me. 100% me. I have almost given up on numerous occasions. I deserve to see my daughter and she won't let me. Stormi deserves a life that neither of us had. A life with a father in it. It's not about the past anymore. It's about now and doing the right thing. That is what I'm trying to do. The right thing. I know I messed up and nothing would be better than trying to work out the marriage. However, I know that is not gonna happen. Yes, I cheated ONCE. But she's DATING Jonny Scott while still married to me. I haven't even been able to think of another woman since she left. When I told her a while back that she was going to be the last relationship I was going to be a part of, I meant it. With the exception of my children, I will never be able to love again. I do love her but she needs to know how this all affected me as well. If she was that hurt, she wouldn't have already started dating again. All I ask is to be able to hold my daughter.(Tears coming from my eyes) I'm a damn good father to my nine-year-old and I wanna be the same to Stormi. It's not about the past anymore. THE PAST IS OVER. I have to focus on now and as of now, I deserve to see my daughter.
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#27 Sep 7, 2012
As for the internet thing, it's not about the internet at all. It's about people like you who get on here and do nothing but whine and complain about anything and everything. You weren't there for it all so you NOR THAT GOOD SOURCE would really know a damn thing. Only what is being told to you. All she had to do was come home. I could've saved the apartment but I was forced from my home one hour before my meeting with the landlord. I can show evidence of that if need be. My lawyer has the eviction notice as well. So I had a bad past that dates back to when I was 13 years old. I have to focus on the future and not the past. What is so wrong with not wanting to go back to the past and stop living my life backwards? Be positive for me, please. So that I can be positive. I'm tired of being depressed. Again, I know I messed up but that didn't mean I have to lose my daughter forever.:..(
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#28 Sep 7, 2012
And it's not sympathy I'm looking for either. It's support and hope.
i know him

Mount Pleasant, AR

#29 Sep 8, 2012
About her and Jonny...you're a bit behind. They're not seeing each other anymore. She's not seeing anyone. She doesn't want to. and if she did, she wouldn't have time. And about Kim Avery...Nikki has part of your conversation with her memorized. Kim came over on a Wednesday while Nikki was at school and you had sex with her. You tried to get her to shower with you, but she wanted to leave. After that she didn't want to do it anymore because she thought it would complicate the friendship. You tried to convince her it wouldn't. Then she got a boyfriend and you still tried to convince her that having sex with you would be okay. And this is exactly the lying that I'm talking about. and the longer it continues, the less she's going to believe you've changed.
i know him

Mount Pleasant, AR

#30 Sep 8, 2012
And as for Nikki taking responsibility. She admits that she's not perfect. She shouldn't have slapped you at graduation. She shouldn't have argued with you as much. And she should've left you long before she did. to name a few things.
omg

Jonesboro, AR

#31 Sep 8, 2012
yEt again .....dang
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#32 Sep 8, 2012
Then why did she put me through all of that? Whatever conversation I supposedly had with Kim must be some sort of mirage cause I had NOTHING to do with her. Delaney, yes. Kim, no. And again, the past is OVER. I can't live backwards. I have to focus on now and the future. So I had a bad past. Who doesn't. It's called mistakes and people make them and learn from them. I haven't been able to think of another woman since she left. When I told her that she was the last person I was going to be with, I meant it. Other than my kids, I'll never be able to love again. I still don't have your REAL name on here so you're still fake to me. And as for Jonny and her, they still dated and I have the proof of that.
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#33 Sep 8, 2012
Answer this for me. Do I still have any chance of being able to hold my daughter? Only in your opinion. Let's put the whole balance in your hands for a minute. Be in my shoes. Live the life that I had lived.
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#34 Sep 8, 2012
Again, I didn't have to lose my daughter forever over this. Yes, I did Nikki wrong. She did the same to me. It doesn't mean that I would do the same to my daughter. Thank you. You got me crying yet again.
I spoke to Nikki

Mount Pleasant, AR

#35 Sep 9, 2012
I spoke to Nikki and she said that you all need to shut up. She said, "this situation is between me, jr, and the judge. it should NOT be discussed by anyone else. It's no one's business but ours." She also mentioned that she has no idea who 'i know him' is but they need to stop. she said, "i appreciate what they're trying to do for me, but they're doing it wrong."
JR Briggs

Jonesboro, AR

#36 Sep 9, 2012
Thank you. Actually, it's solely between me and Nikki. Not the judge.
omg

Jonesboro, AR

#37 Sep 9, 2012
JR Briggs wrote:
Again, I didn't have to lose my daughter forever over this. Yes, I did Nikki wrong. She did the same to me. It doesn't mean that I would do the same to my daughter. Thank you. You got me crying yet again.
Need a tissue?
I spoke to Nikki

Mount Pleasant, AR

#38 Sep 10, 2012
JR Briggs wrote:
Thank you. Actually, it's solely between me and Nikki. Not the judge.
You have to have a judge to get a divorce and have assigned custody. That was her reasoning there.
guest

Haslet, TX

#39 Sep 10, 2012
Tears coming from my eyes? Oh grow the hell up!!
I spoke to Nikki

Mount Pleasant, AR

#40 Sep 10, 2012
She granted supervised visitation which just shows some of you don't know what the heck you're talking about.

Best of luck to you, J.R. Believe it or not, despite what you've said to others, there are no sides and we don't all hate you. I'm sincere when I say that I hope you are able to turn your life around and get up on your feet. If you can't do it for you, do it for that precious baby girl. Again, good luck.

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