Aggravated

Jonesboro, AR

#1 Apr 6, 2013
My child's father won't listen!

He gets standard visitation.
Whenever I get her back she's filthy (oily hair, dirty teeth, and smells like cigarette smoke) she's had nothing but fast food and sweets, and the only thing shell ask to drink when I get her back is tea and soda. I've told him over and over I did not want her to drink that stuff specially as much as he gives it to her. But yet her sippy still comes back stained with it. Not to mention he won't buckle her up correctly in a car seat.
I really do fear for her safety when he has her. I have no idea what she's around. But I've been told theres nothing I can really do.
Does anyone have any suggestions or advice?!
Guest

United States

#2 Apr 6, 2013
Wish I did but I go thru the same thing :/ Interested to see what others have to say about this.
sad

Grand Prairie, TX

#4 Apr 6, 2013
Note all of these details as soon as you get her back from visitation then report them to DHS so you can get him back in court to end his standard visitation rights. Have his visitation changed to supervised. No child should be kept filthy and neglected. Just be sure you go through the legal system as denying his visitation otherwise can lead to you being charged and losing your custody.
sassy

Ash Flat, AR

#5 Apr 11, 2013
I somewhat understand. My child is older, but he walks in the door with a Mt Dew or energy drink. He says he only gets it right before he comes home. His so called father doesn't care it hurts our son. He does it just to upset me. I agree with "sad" you need to go thru legal system or you will lose a lot more!
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#6 Apr 12, 2013
You should have chose a better man to produce children with. You are just as at fault as he is. If you loved your child, you'd have decided to wait until you and your partner were both competent enough and ready for kids. Why do you think my generation s mostly just a bunch of lunatic, disrespectful idiots with more learning disabilities than we have names for. It makes me cringe at what the next generation could possibly bring, what with 13 year olds having multiple kids and multiple baby daddies who are too young for a job to support the family they believed they were so ready for. Pathetic.
Aggravated

Jonesboro, AR

#7 Apr 12, 2013
Well, I'm not some 13 year old that got pregnant in high school. Or some low life that receives welfare. If it were up to me I'd rasie my child up without her disrespectful father. My husband and I do everything to make sure my daughter is brought up right and to respect others.
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#8 Apr 12, 2013
Then I obviously was not talking to you. Guilty? Everything everyone posts on here does not pertain to every person that posts on Topix. Anyway, what you said brings me back to my original thought that you should chosen better when you decided to get pregnant. Or been a lot more responsible about your birth control methods. In addition, the fact that you got offended at something some random, anonymous person said on Topix speaks volumes about your maturity.
Aggravated

Jonesboro, AR

#9 Apr 12, 2013
Obviously your parents didn't do a very good job with you.
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#10 Apr 12, 2013
At least I'm not divorced with a kid and I'm sure you don't have a college degree. My mama raised me correctly, whooped my ass when I needed it and taught me to give respect to get it and a sense of responsibility. You're the one to talk. I'm acting my age, are you?
guest

Oklahoma City, OK

#11 Apr 12, 2013
Eh hmmm wrote:
At least I'm not divorced with a kid and I'm sure you don't have a college degree. My mama raised me correctly, whooped my ass when I needed it and taught me to give respect to get it and a sense of responsibility. You're the one to talk. I'm acting my age, are you?
So, you're 15? Because what you're doing is stirring crap like a teenage girl.
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#12 Apr 12, 2013
At least I'm not blowing off my kids to check out what some bitch said on Topix. The beauty of it is, is that I can act this way. As long as I maintain my responsibilities, I can act like a kid all I want because when I was a kid, I didn't start having my own.
guest

United States

#13 Apr 13, 2013
Eh hmmm wrote:
At least I'm not blowing off my kids to check out what some bitch said on Topix. The beauty of it is, is that I can act this way. As long as I maintain my responsibilities, I can act like a kid all I want because when I was a kid, I didn't start having my own.
Change the focus off of you. You said you were acting your age. Most consider 20 an adult. You're not acting that way. Disgruntled, disgruntled, disgruntled.
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#14 Apr 13, 2013
I am an adult. I have a job and I am a full-time college student. I treat people with respect and earn it back. I stand up for my beliefs and have strong morals because my mother raised me as a mother should. I act like an adult when I need to. Tell me I'm acting like a child all you want, I won't deny it. I'm aware of it. I have the privilege of acting however I please because I didn't and don't slut it out for anyone who shows an interest or decide to marry the first guy who says 'I love you'. Instead of dealing with issues as a parent should, people like 'Aggravated' bring them to Topix. In my eyes, and anyone who has a brain, that is immature and unacceptable for a parent to do. What did she think would be said on here? Both of you are and example of what parenting has been reduced to. You obviously take it lightly, as if caring for a pet. Posting and commenting on Topix, or anywhere on the Internet for that matter, is not at all what a good parent would be concerned about. If one isn't ready to be a parent, they should make sure they use all the precautions available. If they do end up with a child, use your 'get out of jail free' card or be done with being a teenager. No child deserves a mother or father who isn't in it for the long haul. And that doesn't just mean providing food, clothing and shelter.
Aggravated

Jonesboro, AR

#15 Apr 13, 2013
I'm not going to waste my time defending myself from some bastard kid or "adult" that's probably never going to be anything that they'd hope. Have a great lonely life Eh hmmm.
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#16 Apr 14, 2013
I'm still not a dumb slut who can't take proper care of her children. (:
Arrow smith

Oklahoma City, OK

#17 Apr 14, 2013
Eh hmmm wrote:
I'm still not a dumb slut who can't take proper care of her children.(:
I went up to this girl, she said,“Hi, my name is Sheena”
I thought she'd be good to go with a little Funky Cold Medina
She said, I'd like a drink, I said,“Ehm, ok, I'll go get it”
Then a couple sips, she cold licked her lips
And I knew that she was with it

So, I took her to my crib and everything went well as planned
But when she got undressed, it was a big old mess, Sheena was a man
So, I threw him out, I don't fool around with no Oscar Meyer wiener
You must be sure that the girl is pure for the Funky Cold Medina
Eh hmmm

Mountain Home, AR

#18 Apr 14, 2013
Arrow smith wrote:
<quoted text>
I went up to this girl, she said,“Hi, my name is Sheena”
I thought she'd be good to go with a little Funky Cold Medina
She said, I'd like a drink, I said,“Ehm, ok, I'll go get it”
Then a couple sips, she cold licked her lips
And I knew that she was with it
So, I took her to my crib and everything went well as planned
But when she got undressed, it was a big old mess, Sheena was a man
So, I threw him out, I don't fool around with no Oscar Meyer wiener
You must be sure that the girl is pure for the Funky Cold Medina
Why? Why did you just post the lyrics of this song in reply to my comment? If this is a joke, I don't understand its meaning.

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