Husband leaves family for Plant City Woman

[Abandoned Family]

After 20 years of marriage, Eugene Bolduc has left his wife and children for Kristii Hendricks of Plant City. It has been a month now, and I am having a hard time dealing with the anger of being abandoned and left with all the responsibilities. I would like to hear any comments or advice you may have. Maybe some of you have been in this situation, and have some insight on how to deal with it. Thanks for your comments

[MICHELLE]

take it all in prayer and leave it there. the devil is out to break up marriages and he is working overtime. you keep the faith and dont give up help is on th way. ask God to supply your every needs and He will.and for that lady i feel sorry for her cause she was so wrong to break up a happy family , but what goes around comes back around and it hurts worser that what they have done to you and your children so you be bless while you wait.

[Abandoned Family]

MICHELLE wrote:

take it all in prayer and leave it there. the devil is out to break up marriages and he is working overtime. you keep the faith and dont give up help is on th way. ask God to supply your every needs and He will.and for that lady i feel sorry for her cause she was so wrong to break up a happy family , but what goes around comes back around and it hurts worser that what they have done to you and your children so you be bless while you wait.

Thank you for your response. It has really been hard, emotionally, and financially. I have put it in God's hands. He will take care of that, I am sure.

[Famous]

Take him for child support, alimony and whatever else u can think of. Hit him where it hurts. Anything that is only in his name like bills, do not pay them, let them go into collections to ruin the bastards credit... do anything possible to make his life a living hell!

[soul]

take him for child support and anything u can think of , don't be afrair you will make it true ,he will regret one day , but you will be ok???

[soul]

please don't take him back never

[Abandoned Family]

soul wrote:

take him for child support and anything u can think of , don't be afrair you will make it true ,he will regret one day , but you will be ok???

I hope so. It is really hard.

[hahakristi]

Don't worry about revenge, he will get what is coming to him if he is with a trash bag like Kristi Hendricks!!!

[Abandoned Family]

hahakristi wrote:

Don't worry about revenge, he will get what is coming to him if he is with a trash bag like Kristi Hendricks!!!

Do you know her? I fiqured she was a trash bag just from things I have heard

[wow]

just dont take him back

[Abandoned Family]

Don't worry. That is not an option. My kids and I are doing just fine. The house is so much more peaceful, and more like a home with him and his craziness out of here. If The lawyers could just get him to pay child support I'd be happy. It seems to be such a rigamaro (?) He and his trashbag have made their decision, and I have made mine. He is history.
Thanks for the input

[tampabayallstar]

As an atheist, I tend to believe you make your own luck. Prayer is just learned helplessness. First off you must be emotionally strong for your children. Maybe doing volunteer work or going to the gym, whatever. Keep a positive frame of mind at all time. That is the first key . Smile alot and instead of being down[ I know its hard] , look at this as a learning experience on how to perhaps find a good guy again. That should not be on your list right now. I am sure it will all work out for you

[Abandoned Family]

Thanks for the information. I am doing much better. Trying my best to keep a smile on my face and being positive. Somehow, when we lose something or someone, we only remember the good things. I am focusing on the bad parts, and it is easier to feel I am much better off. I am happier, the children are much happier. I will be fine. I am a tough Italian girl from Jersey!

[chuck69]

perhaps if you had put out more...he wouldn't have needed to get a "trash bag" to keep him happy in the bedroom...just an opinion...don't really know what happened..just thought i would "light a fire"...then run

[Abandoned Family]

chuck69 wrote:

perhaps if you had put out more...he wouldn't have needed to get a "trash bag" to keep him happy in the bedroom...just an opinion...don't really know what happened..just thought i would "light a fire"...then run

That remark doesn't even deserve a response.

[chuck69]

Abandoned Family wrote:

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That remark doesn't even deserve a response.

yet a response came from you none the less

[troll]

You are an idiot. The more you post, the more you prove it.

[chuck69]

troll wrote:

You are an idiot. The more you post, the more you prove it.

HA HA HA HA HA...your a joke

[Abandoned Family]

Who are you calling and idiot?

[Happy]

chuck69 wrote:

perhaps if you had put out more...he wouldn't have needed to get a "trash bag" to keep him happy in the bedroom...just an opinion...don't really know what happened..just thought i would "light a fire"...then run

You must be the trash bag he left his wife for.