Alyce LaViolette is a Professional Victim

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Brandon

Bangor, ME

#1 Mar 26, 2013
This woman has obviously been hurt sometime in her past and instead of getting proper treatment she has gone the way of many Liberal Extremists. She will defend a woman's right to be mouthy, hurtful, and mean towards her husband or spouse yet turn around and say that a man has no right to get upset nor retaliate verbally if his wife or girlfriend has been antagonizing and abusing him. Now personally I don't like to see anyone verbally fight or call names however my main point is that women like Alyce lives in a world of what true Psychologists call "Cognitive Dissonance". It's a mental state in which mentally ill people like Alyce LaViolette live in which she is dealing with conflicting belief systems. She will falsely acknowledge that a woman antagonizing a man does upset him however she will talk very articulately about how it's wrong for a man to do that to a woman. However she does not acknowledge her hypocrisy and double standards. Now all that said Scientifically & Psychologically speaking humans both male and female have feelings and often times when people are arguing/fighting both sexes can be verbally abusive. It's just human nature. I am not saying that people should not bite their tongues and I'm sure a lot of people reading this will flasly last out at me saying that I don't like a strong independent woman. When in fact at the beginning of this I also stated that I don't like to see people argue be them male or female. However I am no fool, I also need to acknowledge that people are human and will do so. I'm not saying it's write for anyone to physically hurt someone nor verbally abuse them to the point of mental disruption. HOWEVER my main point is that via Cognitive Dissonance a lot of women as well as men are unrealistic in that they contradict their own beliefs by a sort of reverse discrimination against men. A lot of obviously disturbed women like LaViolette are in fact "Professional Victims". They seem like they are preaching tolerance, understanding, and change but in fact they have a sort of Psychological Warfare for men. We are not going to change as a society nor mature if we listen to the reverse bias and reverse discrimination of leftist extremists like her. Now that said I would also like to point out that I consider myself an Independent politically and not a die hard Conservative with old fashioned views. So please don't put the usual words in my mouth like "this guy obviously wants women to stay in the kitchen." Which is typically an argument a liberal extremist would bring up in a feeble attempt to win an argument over something someone never actually said. Also I do admit that I'm upset over people like her spreading her subliminal hate. Only in that I don't believe that women like her are bringing real change to our society but rather she is serving to further the rift between men and women in the household. I feel that also that bringing someone into the recent courtroom controversy is only servicing to help a murderous sociopath get off the hook with her obvious bias against men. She seems to think that it's OK for a woman to verbally bash and abuse a husband long after he's already both complied & apologized to his wife or girl friend bringing him great mental anguish yet if a male does that to a woman its suddenly wrong when in all reality it is wrong either direction. Not only that she then goes on to say that it's because of a males low self esteem that he lashes out however it's because of the females low self esteem that it's ok for her to feel victimized. Again this is a twisted contradiction. The fact of the matter is that after a while any man or woman would feel low in self esteem if his or her spouse was constantly verbally bashing him or her. Alyce LaViolette has trendy opinions these days because over the last 40 years we are taught that men have no rights to any feelings and that women are entitled to lash out as much as they want. Women are taught to be Professional Victims.

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Jim Schlichting

San Diego, CA

#2 Apr 1, 2013
I agree! Itis strange you can not find any writings concerning her youth or
Marriage history!
It's sad any professional would sell her soul for 350.00 an hour.
I hope the prosecutor is firm but very respectful and holds back on his anger!!

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Cock A Doodle

Spring, TX

#3 Apr 1, 2013
She will be back tomorrow for more fun and games, Ms. Alyce LaViolette.
I agree that she probably was hurt in her past and got educated so she could become an expert witness. The pay isn't bad even though I can't imagine spending 44 hours with Jodi Arias.
Kiki

Toms River, NJ

#4 Apr 2, 2013
Somewhere on the computer I saw a document chastising this woman and being told to stop practicing psychology. But I don't recall where.
ouisie

Cordova, TN

#5 Apr 2, 2013
The longer she prattles on, the more she creeps me out.
Anna Lee

West Hollywood, CA

#6 Apr 2, 2013
In her practice, 99% of the time the men are court ordered- meaning there is some legal substantiation that said man did something wrong. in this case there is NONE of that! As a survivor of TRUE DV, I am revolted that this whole "just because she said so" is used as the basis for A.L's testimony. I agree 100% with Brandon. She is on some autopilot mode when she hears a woman say "im being/been abused" she just buys it hook-line&sinker. JA is crazy- she has a history of violence, she has a history of traits that remind me of borderline personality disorder (+++ god knows what else) but this is NOT DV. UGH I just want to puke. I wonder how Ms. LaViolettes private practice here in LA will fair after this nonsense. People fight, couples dont get along 100% of the time. Guys and Girls can be jerks and string people along etc...IM NOT SAYING THAT TA DID THAT...but even IF, thats LIFE people! You dont go stab, slit throat to the SPINE and then shoot a guy-justifiably (well I cant see that much carnage as justifiable homicide ever really...) because he hurt your feelings. UNBELIEVABLE.
Jay Jay

Los Angeles, CA

#7 Apr 2, 2013
My bi-sexual friend Carie says she picks up strong lesbian vibes from LaViolette and anti-male attitudes. One of the female commentators on Dr Drew's show this evening also described her as 'a man hater.'

Also on the show were video clips from police interviews wit JA's parents when she was first arrested. Both parents indicated she was mentally unstable - JA's friends were telephoning them to take her in for medical evaluation. She apparently has a long history of erratic bi-polar like behavior. And when the police told them she was a suspect, they didn't seem that surprised.
Cock a Doodle

Spring, TX

#8 Apr 3, 2013
Anna Lee wrote:
In her practice, 99% of the time the men are court ordered- meaning there is some legal substantiation that said man did something wrong. in this case there is NONE of that! As a survivor of TRUE DV, I am revolted that this whole "just because she said so" is used as the basis for A.L's testimony. I agree 100% with Brandon. She is on some autopilot mode when she hears a woman say "im being/been abused" she just buys it hook-line&sinker. JA is crazy- she has a history of violence, she has a history of traits that remind me of borderline personality disorder (+++ god knows what else) but this is NOT DV. UGH I just want to puke. I wonder how Ms. LaViolettes private practice here in LA will fair after this nonsense. People fight, couples dont get along 100% of the time. Guys and Girls can be jerks and string people along etc...IM NOT SAYING THAT TA DID THAT...but even IF, thats LIFE people! You dont go stab, slit throat to the SPINE and then shoot a guy-justifiably (well I cant see that much carnage as justifiable homicide ever really...) because he hurt your feelings. UNBELIEVABLE.
What i heard that was interesting was that Ms. LaViolette was asked if she performed any testing on Jodi and she replied that she was either not credentialed to do that or didn't do it as that isn't her area of expertise. She sent Jodi a subscription for some magazine as well as giving her books. She could be stringing Jodi along to get information which she admitted she does with clients. The more they like you and think you like them, the more they SPILL. I wonder if Ms. LV had access to the e-mail TA allegedly sent to JA saying he was on to her, that she was a sociopath and that she was the worst thing that ever happened to him.

I also read that his phone was used/accessed in the time frame after he was supposed to be deceased, so either she used it or the time stamps on the pics were wrong/faked.

She acts like Rainwoman around electronic devices. Jodi saw some recorders in the interrogation room and started fiddling with them and trying to get them to work instead of focusing on being in cuffs for questioning.
NC28105x

Charlotte, NC

#9 Apr 3, 2013
Agreed. The longer she drones on the more you see that she dislikes men and never had a relationship. Travis was like a million other men. Jody was the whacko for encouraging him. I suspect Jodi thought he was rich. And yes, my GayDar alert is flashing (not that she specializing in treating Lesbians)
NC28105x

Charlotte, NC

#10 Apr 3, 2013
Hasn't it been rumored that Jodi is having a gay relationship in jail?
nursie

Canton, OH

#11 Apr 3, 2013
The first day I saw/heard her, I thought she was a lesbian. I saw the ring on her third finger left hand---but felt it was for appearances of being married/or has lesbian "marriage." I wonder if the prosecutor will be able to approach the subject of her marital status, etc. She surely does not like men----probably why female defender questioning her.....
no a

Isleton, CA

#12 Apr 3, 2013
Jay Jay wrote:
My bi-sexual friend Carie says she picks up strong lesbian vibes from LaViolette and anti-male attitudes. One of the female commentators on Dr Drew's show this evening also described her as 'a man hater.'
Also on the show were video clips from police interviews wit JA's parents when she was first arrested. Both parents indicated she was mentally unstable - JA's friends were telephoning them to take her in for medical evaluation. She apparently has a long history of erratic bi-polar like behavior. And when the police told them she was a suspect, they didn't seem that surprised.
I am an old straight lady with a gay son and my instincts are usually spot on. I have thought from the very beginning that this lady has never had a healthy relationship with a man. How could anyone take her biased opiinion seriously?
Lois

United States

#13 Apr 3, 2013
Im looking for background information on the personal life of Alyce Laviolette. Where is it???? We need to know what has formed her opinions. Did Alyce have a negative confrontation with a man?
How can she possibly decifer who Travis is without ever meeting him? She gets all her information from Jodi? What a sham! She is crucifying and degrading Travis. I want Martinez to challenge her bias.
As an abuse victim myself, I feel she is actually representing the horrble dynamics of the unequal nature of an domestic abusive relationship quite well.
My problem is that an abuse victim is FULL of fear, before during and after a violent incident. She is too afraid to strike back, let alone viciously murder someone in an excessive way. Jodi in no way demonstrates fear. She is a master manipulator. But the jig is up!!!!
Alyce comes along as the rescuer. "Ill help you honey because men are so mean." She finds fulfillment in offering empathy.
Juan, go to the core of this woman!!!! It matters.
My story is on the net, "Surviving Domestic Abuse with the Help of God." Amazon or Barnes and Noble.
Cock a Doodle

Spring, TX

#14 Apr 3, 2013
Jodi acts like LaViolette is her newest heroine. How long before she appears in court with glasses that match ALyce's and a matching haircut?

It's kind of ironic that at the same time Alyce is droning on about frogs being boiled in water and the way she is rambling makes you wonder if she missed her senile meds today, the footage of Jodi's parents is being played in between segments.

Anyone want to compare and contrast what Alyce or I should say "Malyce" is saying and what Jodi's parents are saying about their own daughter?
paul reynolds

North Royalton, OH

#15 Apr 3, 2013
Go Ask Alyce..!?
Waiting for the Prosecution to ask her simply "Have you ever been in a Good relationship with a Man, or any Sexual or intimate relationship with any Man, Alyce"..!??
Travis could have sent Jodi "a dozen Roses per Day" and Alyce the Man-Hater would translate that to certainly mean "He was being possessive and Abuse, trying to control her"
paul reynolds

North Royalton, OH

#16 Apr 3, 2013
Would Alyce ever admit that sometimes Men DO get legitimately Aggressive when they are unable to shake a scary Sociopath Stalker..!??

Does her Love of Women prevent her to believe Men have any Rights at all..!?
JodiLIESnLIES

Pevely, MO

#17 Apr 3, 2013
I do believe that this woman is a professional victim and never dealt with her issues. She thinks this qualifies her to treat and counsel those who are DV victims. It DOES NOT, especially since she never dealt with her own problems, but has carried them over to her man-hating treatment plans for others.

This "expert" has erased any credibility she ever had, by believing the fabrications Arias has worked on for years and years. She is a LIAR and this witness has believed everything she has told her as gospel. These stories being told about Arias' experiences with Travis are contrived and false. She made them all fit with journal entries. Ms Laviolette never talked to Travis, nor did she research and talk with those who knew Travis, to come to the conclusions she has come to. She tells the story as if she was THERE. This is such BS and does not explain SELF-DEFENSE and butchering a beautiful young man.

Arias DOES remember each and every stab of Travis. There is no fog.
Cock a Doodle

Spring, TX

#18 Apr 3, 2013
The stupid finger story again. She could have gone to the ER or minor emergency clinic and have gotten the finger examined/x-rayed without implicating anyone. She claims she did not have the money. She finds money to make a 2,800 mile trip, buy hair dye, face cleanser x 2, what looks like Nexxus products x 2, etc. etc. She's great at borrowing money from anyone who gets within two feet of her.

She also has the expert witness say that Travis asked to borrow money from her.

Maybe the prosecution is just sitting back in a lawn chair, trying to see how far they are going to take this charade.

Jodi's mom says that Travis is the best thing that every happened to her daughter. She claims her daughter is mentally ill, fabricates stories, has major mood swings (perhaps unmedicated bipolar) and needs help.
Cock a Doodle

Spring, TX

#19 Apr 3, 2013
p.s. This "crooked" finger doesn't keep her from doing handstands, tending bar, writing, shooting, stabbing, driving 2,800 miles round trip or anything else. There is no proof Travis caused this except her word and everyone knows how much that is worth.

How many days are they going to spend total on her slightly crooked ring finger?
paul reynolds

North Royalton, OH

#20 Apr 3, 2013
So Alyce "believes" that Jodi got kicked in the Finger and did not go to a Hospital because Jodi, the serial pathological LIAR, would not be able to "LIE about the cause of the Injury" (implicating Travis)..!?

Seriously..!??

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