The deceased: Chris Partin

The deceased: Chris Partin

Posted in the Pineville Forum

hurting

Winchester, KY

#1 Aug 27, 2009
I hate to bring back the sad memories of a life which was saddenly taken by himself. I just want to note that I personnally knew Chris as a great friend, and was just soully a confidant of his, its just the reason behind the action he took upon question, has really put me in depression since the incident. I had talked to him the day before the it happened and asked could he come next week to the house, and he just looked at me in a duh-sorta way and said he wouldn't be able to. Never would I have thought that he would have been speaking as in he physically couldnt be there due to the action. Now, if anyone else out there, knows what and who I'm talking about, please talk to me about this, it's haunted me since-wondering the shoulda'-coulda's, what if I could have helped and he would still be here today! His wife and 3 children were his world. I just can't see why he wanted to leave them!
Sincerely,
Hurting 2 know
Katie

Richmond, KY

#2 Aug 27, 2009
the only person that could answer your questions is Chris himself. i know it's hard, but you've got to go on. try to remember all the good times and do not dwell on how he left this world. i am so sorry for your loss.
God Bless the Family

Ripley, TN

#3 Aug 27, 2009
hurting wrote:
I hate to bring back the sad memories of a life which was saddenly taken by himself. I just want to note that I personnally knew Chris as a great friend, and was just soully a confidant of his, its just the reason behind the action he took upon question, has really put me in depression since the incident. I had talked to him the day before the it happened and asked could he come next week to the house, and he just looked at me in a duh-sorta way and said he wouldn't be able to. Never would I have thought that he would have been speaking as in he physically couldnt be there due to the action. Now, if anyone else out there, knows what and who I'm talking about, please talk to me about this, it's haunted me since-wondering the shoulda'-coulda's, what if I could have helped and he would still be here today! His wife and 3 children were his world. I just can't see why he wanted to leave them!
Sincerely,
Hurting 2 know
I understand your questions. I too was his friend and I just wonder if their was anything I could do as well. I think of that song by Blaine Larson "How Do You Get That Lonely". Please dont blame yourself, you will have questions though. Just pray for Chris' family and children. I agree to remember the good times. He was amazing! I'm honored to be able to call him a friend. I hope he felt the same way about me.
estate

Deer Park, TX

#4 Aug 28, 2009
i think his wife was leaving him and he couldn't take it
hurting

Winchester, KY

#5 Aug 29, 2009
Thankyou all for responding to my questions. Chris was a great friend of mine, and I loved that crazy boy like a brother! He was always telling me how much he wished that he had known me all his life, cause we are both pure out country-rebels that are most of the time "mis-understood"! He wasn't a fling or anything of that nature. He had spoke to me about the situation that was going on with his wife, he said that he had been seeing other people, and so had she. Now he told me this the day before they found him. He was late for work that day, and it was I believe thursday or friday. He had complained of having to buy her an exspensive cell phone cause he had had to buy himself one because his old one with the rebel flag had torn up. He had also explained the guy he had found on her phone that had been texting her,(saying he couldnt wait til her husband left for work, so he could come over, and mess around-which was the clean version, the way he had told me, it was very graphic!) Now, if this is true or not, it's what he told me, but things tend to get altered or changed, because noone knows really what happens behind closed doors. He just complained about their relationship all the time, and worried about the kids. That was the main concern when he had spoken to me that day before he decided enuf was enuf. But, something altered him so bad, I just can't understand why-why-why!!! I have had some really bad nightmares of the whole cha-Bang, it's just so surreal. I've talked to him in my sleep!!!! No, I'm not having phsych problems or episodes, I just cant imagine what pushed him to the limit. His will was strong, and his only goal in life was to work, and take care of his family. He was proud he got his old truck to runnin'! I get these crazy thoughts of how it actually happened, that it made me think that he was helped, because of the way that it was explained to me at the funeral home, of how he did it, it just doesn't seem possible for someone to have done this alone, single handed. Does anyone else feel this way, or do I sound c-r-a-z-y !!!!

Sincerely,
Need Questions Answered-Go'n Loco
catch

Deer Park, TX

#6 Aug 31, 2009
it doesn't sound crazy at all.
Hurting 2

United States

#7 Sep 6, 2009
Chris was a great person. I know that he loved his kids very much. Where are they living now? Someone else is living in the trailer in Frakes.
why me

Mayfield, KY

#8 Mar 13, 2010
Chris was my cousin, it was a shock to me as well. everytime i seen him he was having problems, but he seemed to be handleing them. ive heard all kinds of stories...that his wife got someone to do it, that she wasn't going to let him see the kids anymore, she locked him out. i don't know. all i know is that he didn't seem to me like he needed help like that. he was a good person and honestly the only cousin i talked to on that side of my family. i don't know where the kids are living now but i heard that that girl was getting married again. i do know that the kids get to stay with his parents sometimes though. i thought too about how i couldn't of seen some kind of signs but he didn't show any to me. sometimes things are easy to hide. God Bless
Observant

Mayfield, KY

#9 Mar 13, 2010
I sure miss him. About two weeks ago I was in Wal-Mart and saw someone who had a striking resemblence to him. I had one of those moment's like "Wow, I've not saw him in forever", then it dawned on me that he was gone. Chris was an awesome guy. He always had that personality that you couldn't help but love. Even when he was being a pure smart butt, you still had to laugh at him. He was a wonderful person. I feel so blessed to have known him. I'm glad his parent's still get to maintain a relationship with his children. I'm sure those kids are the reason they are able to keep going everyday. I'm sure all of us wish we could rewind time. R.I.P Christopher Partin, you'll alway's live on in my heart.
a friend

Somerset, KY

#10 Mar 14, 2010
"That girl" as you guys called her is re-married to a guy from up Arjay. Chris was a good guy, we went to highschool together and were great friends. We saw each other during one of their many seperations, and he had left a hat at my house. I found it a few days ago and just sat and sobbed. I miss him even though I haven't gotten to see him much in years. RIP Chris!!
where were u then

United States

#11 Mar 29, 2010
You all don't know the first thing about his life after highschool. Had you known him you would have known he was a drug addict. And had you been the concerned friends you say you were then you would have known he wasn't the normal Chris we all knew in highschool and had you been the friends u say you were then you would have been there to help his wife get him thru his drug addiction. His wife was leavi g because of his addiction. He would get paid on thursday and his check was gone by Friday. They had to get money off his parents to buy food and pay bills. His wife has friends from highschool that were friends and friends only but that doesn't mean she cheated on him. But for those of you that seems so concerned need To suck up ur guilt now because it's to late to show concern.
A Friend of Chris

Raccoon, KY

#12 Jul 31, 2010
I was a really close friend fo Chris for many years. We kept in touch and he told me about his problems wiht "her"... I think about him a lot, and have even visited his grave several ties since he died. I too thought I saw im in Walmart the other day and did a double take just to remember that he was gone. I cried when I got in my car. I miss him everyday and stil think about him... He was a good person who had a bad situation. HURTING, if you still need to talk, I would love ot talk with you. I still ahve questions myself.
just wondering

Bolivar, TN

#13 Jul 31, 2010
whitch chris partin r u talking about?? did he go to bell high? and what year because i went 2 school with a chris partin. that was so sweet and nice. what was his wifes name? this is so sad. when did this happen? just wondering because when i went 2 school he was with a girl that i think he married and had kids but i can't remember what her name was? so if it this the same one please let me know he would of graduated in like 2001 or 2002 something like that. deeply sadened.
wondering

Lexington, KY

#14 Aug 9, 2010
Is this Chris Partin like 38 and from Pineville?
By Stander

Mayfield, KY

#15 Aug 9, 2010
wondering wrote:
Is this Chris Partin like 38 and from Pineville?
No, this Chris Partin was from Frakes. He would be 27 if he was still with us. He was a great person, and is missed by so many. Everyone please remember his parents & children in your prayers. They suffer a pain that I can't begin to imagine.

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