Pine Knot, KY

#2 Oct 13, 2011
Leave him!!!!!!!Make an excuse that you need to go some where then leave but... DON'T RETURN!
Been There

Lancing, TN

#3 Oct 13, 2011
I know it is hard. My first marriage started out just like it. He hit me then after month of abust I hit back. that did not make thing better. He then cheated. We would break up get back together for 2 1/2 years. Each time the violence was worse till I almost died. God will give you a way out you just have to help yourself take the opertunity they are few an far between to get away. Don't keep going back.

It is not easy and may be the hardest thing you have ever done. Time will make all thing better. you just have to hang on even in your lonely hours. There is always hope. hold on to that with all your heart and you will come out a stronger better person in the end. God Bless!
lil nut from pine knot

Oneida, TN

#4 Oct 14, 2011
im trying but i was in love with him and i want to be with him but i got a 2 year old daughter that needs me and he is very mean to me i couldnt do nothing around him but its all right for him i took alot of stuff off from him about broke my neck and killed me every guy that ive been with was like that he told me alot of stuff that i wanted to believe like marriage and that he loves me for me........ ive tried to make it better and i did leave but he knows every move that i make in pine knot from whitley city it got so bad i had to take an epo out on him.. that did not make it better either...
Been There

Lancing, TN

#5 Oct 14, 2011
Honey you are not alone with your thought feelings or actions. You are telling my story from years ago. Trust me there will be some one who will come along and love you and your babies just like they are his. I know it just seems like words. I have lived it. My ex never changed just the names of his victim's. My or my kids were not longer on his list of who he abuses.

You will always have feelings they will dull to where it don't matter. Your baby must come first. It will suffer from mental and or physical abuse the longer you stay. Men only get worse. I almost lost my life and my childs to figure this one out. I am writing in hope some one will not have to learn it the hard way as I did. Just hang on you did not get into this mess over night and you will not be out of it over night.

Time will be hard at times hang on to a grain of HOPE that time will make things better. Sometimes it will be and minute by minute or hour by hour cause you cant see making it a whole day. That is OK minutes make hours. Hours make days and day make months.Then there is your HAPPY END. Any time you wasn to talk I will keep check on here for you. Bless You.

PS: People often wondered WHY do I go thruogh this. I knew as I went through this it was to help others in my situation.
Been There

Lancing, TN

#8 Oct 17, 2011
If you was like me I did not like to be alone. I had to get myself to gether focous on my household, its income and kids school. Then as my life got in order i seem to attract a differedn type of guy. Then I met my husband of 20+ years.

Your not going find a guy looking to keep you for more than a night or two at a bar or party places. Just be patient. Take care of your self and child the rest will fall into place. A guy that will be good to you will look at you with more respect for you when he sees your child comong first.
i agree

Wartburg, TN

#9 Oct 28, 2011
i too am in a bad relationship and i will get out of it one day i am just waitting for the right time and right day i focus on my kids and nothing else matters to me he can do no more love turns to hate and you can for get but its hard to forgive in my case!! and time moves on and so will i..
Just my opinion

Madison, IN

#11 Feb 20, 2012
Men who beat on women are cowards, same thing goes for anyone who beats or rapes a child, Cowards. I put up with it for years, thinking I loved him. It wasn't love, it was need. Someone asked me one day how I could love someone who treated me like trash. You daughter doesn't need to see her mom being abused, she needs to see her mom being loved and respected, or she will grow to think this crap is normal....good luck dear, I've been where you are, as many of us have
lil nut from strunk

Stearns, KY

#12 Mar 5, 2012
thank you just my opinion i agree my daughter needs her mommy and thats what she will get and he got put in jail and then he got out like 2 months later and he still tries to gets to me but it aint gonna happen in tired of him he is a child molester and a women beater thank you honey for the support
Believe in yourself

Whitley City, KY

#13 Mar 30, 2012
Sweetie: I have been there. They never change. They will promise each and every time it will stop, but it will get worse each and every day you stay. Believe in yourself and remember that your daughter needs you. His violence will even start on her if he feels he is losing his control. Leave, do not answer his calls, take time to heal and go to counseling because his verbal abuse has caused you to feel you deserve this and it is often worse than the physical. It is not your fault and never was. Protect yourself because the worst violence and even getting killed usually happens when you are leaving. I pray you will get out and find the peace and happiness you deserve like I finally did.

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