A Marriage Without Kissing

“Pink is your new obsession!!”

Since: Mar 13

Ojai, CA

#193 Dec 28, 2013
legal?
really?
so what if you arent having sex with your partner, you are going to jail?
QuadP

Mcalester, OK

#194 Jan 4, 2014
Is this thread up to date, cause I too have this issue.
Sinister

Pretoria, South Africa

#196 Mar 6, 2014
She cheated, had a child I am now raising as I forgave. Been over 5 years now no kissing, no sex and none of the stuff we did before the affair. Finally decided I am the idiot, probably means she never got over her fling therefore packed and going. seeing attorney next week, I really tried.

“Pink is your new obsession!!”

Since: Mar 13

Ojai, CA

#197 Mar 6, 2014
sounds like you put in alot more than she did.
forgiving is the hardest part. you can say you forgive and outwardly it might appear that you have. but you live with it, inside, forever.
there isnt a day goes by that it doesnt cross your mind.
i just wonder how many people ever really forgive, inside.
and im not just talking about affairs.
anything, forgive anything someone does to us?
Things-Need-To-C hange

Ransom, KY

#198 Mar 7, 2014
I just wrote a message, what happen? Checking if I done something wrong.
dedendz

Ancaster, Canada

#199 Mar 13, 2014
I'm male, 51 My wife let herself go , 25 years ago. She put on 150 pounds and is proud of it. I hate looking at her. I loved the girl on the inside but even that has been a struggle the last ten years.
I fell in love with someone else , no sex , just lots of great chemistry and interests. What a difference someone special in your life can make.
I would just light up when I approached her. Smiles, heart , life , everything was amazing and nothing else matters.
It was just friends getting closer. I realize what was happening and so did she. I asked her to find a single man that could love her like I did.
We cried. Its been 10 years and I think about her multiple times a day . My wife never liked kissing and never in her life has she masturbated. She was always initiated by me and she was always mechanical. I tell her everyday that I love her , if for nothing else but to keep the focus on trying to illicit 'love'. I kiss her every day . I call her at work a few times a day. I never get anything that is initiated by her.
Oh,, yes I do , "is the garbage out ?" or "are the bills paid".
I have a great career which affords me 6 figure income and 150 days or more off a year.
I masturbate at least once a day .(to let you know that yesI am interested in sex)...
It crushes my heart to see woman smile my way in mall or street corner etc. If only ? WOW... could we have an amazing loving life full of each other. WOW...
Ive been with my wife since I was 18 .
It would kill her if I left. It would cost me a small fortune.
I'm 51 now. My heart aches for even a kiss, to hold my womans hand an know its attached to both our hearts.
Say what you like about the signs of the zodiac , but ladies if you are a Capricorn.. please let go of the attention to details about security and money and lead with your heart. I get that finances and chores and duties need attention. My it means nothing without two hearts 'enjoying' their place in time with each other.
I am a social creature, I smile , I interact and I need the passion and touch of a woman to complete me .
I just hate not liking my wife. I actually am bitter towards her now. I will stay in this relationship , like a prisoner but she cannot have my heart anymore. When I touch her belly and grab four inches of hanging skin..
she doesn't care about herself or me
Sleepless

Newington, Canada

#201 Mar 20, 2014
My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. We also been living together for a year and have a child together. During the first three months of dating he would French kiss me mostly during the time we were intimate but now it's decreased to occasionally. He does give me pecks but the slow passionate wildly romantic kiss that would set fireworks off haven't happened in a long while. It's always when I say something or get frustrated that he will... He will never intiate anything along those lines on his own. And even then something that small can make a woman question her stance in the relationship.
Hottie

Shreveport, LA

#202 Apr 1, 2014
Men are so different from women. I love kissing!
BMartin

Chicago, IL

#203 Apr 29, 2014
not satisfied wrote:
<quoted text>I am also married to a wonderful man and we do everything together except for kiss and I really enjoy that, but that is the one thing that he doesn't do with me everything else is great only when he thinks I'm upset then I get a small Kiss from him..
Its not the women, its the man. At first I thought it had something to do with attraction. However, I am convinced it is a form of taking the wife for granted. The husband began to feel he doesn't have to stimulate except in bed. It really makes a women feel low when this part of the marriage takes on this transition. I feel sorry for the marriages that has taken French kissing out of their daily routine. So, I thought to myself if he can go without kissing, I can go without sex.
Bhopeful

Chicago, IL

#204 Apr 29, 2014
dedendz wrote:
I'm male, 51 My wife let herself go , 25 years ago. She put on 150 pounds and is proud of it. I hate looking at her. I loved the girl on the inside but even that has been a struggle the last ten years.
I fell in love with someone else , no sex , just lots of great chemistry and interests. What a difference someone special in your life can make.
I would just light up when I approached her. Smiles, heart , life , everything was amazing and nothing else matters.
It was just friends getting closer. I realize what was happening and so did she. I asked her to find a single man that could love her like I did.
We cried. Its been 10 years and I think about her multiple times a day . My wife never liked kissing and never in her life has she masturbated. She was always initiated by me and she was always mechanical. I tell her everyday that I love her , if for nothing else but to keep the focus on trying to illicit 'love'. I kiss her every day . I call her at work a few times a day. I never get anything that is initiated by her.
Oh,, yes I do , "is the garbage out ?" or "are the bills paid".
I have a great career which affords me 6 figure income and 150 days or more off a year.
I masturbate at least once a day .(to let you know that yesI am interested in sex)...
It crushes my heart to see woman smile my way in mall or street corner etc. If only ? WOW... could we have an amazing loving life full of each other. WOW...
Ive been with my wife since I was 18 .
It would kill her if I left. It would cost me a small fortune.
I'm 51 now. My heart aches for even a kiss, to hold my womans hand an know its attached to both our hearts.
Say what you like about the signs of the zodiac , but ladies if you are a Capricorn.. please let go of the attention to details about security and money and lead with your heart. I get that finances and chores and duties need attention. My it means nothing without two hearts 'enjoying' their place in time with each other.
I am a social creature, I smile , I interact and I need the passion and touch of a woman to complete me .
I just hate not liking my wife. I actually am bitter towards her now. I will stay in this relationship , like a prisoner but she cannot have my heart anymore. When I touch her belly and grab four inches of hanging skin..
she doesn't care about herself or me
Wow, Wow, Wow. I really feel you, and I respect you. When I see couples at the bus stop, I long to cuddle, and make out at bus stops and restaurants. I love my husband, and I know my husband loves me. Neither one of us masturbates and since I turned 53, our sex life is a 10. But that intimacy is lacking, and I find myself just taking what's dished out. I don't want to tell someone over and over how to show love to me. I have never heard someone express themselves as you have ( sounds like me). I feel you. Keep doing what's right.
Feeling it

Dana, KY

#205 Apr 29, 2014
I would rather get a ugly fat really freshly showered, nice smelling woman with fresh minty breath than a woman with a nice body who has not showered or has bad breath or is a smoker.

Those details can break up a relationship and a marriage, one night at a time.

A man may never say that, but newly weds fall apart and fail to meet each others needs simply because one or the other forgets those basics.

2 fat or ugly people love each other more if both brush their teeth, take a shower, and wash every detail of every part, not just the surfaces where you wear clothes,

I have just been married a few years, but I dated for 15 years and I married the woman who knew how to stay clean and brush her darn teeth. I left the sexiest, hottest body smoking woman for the fattest, ugliest and cleanest best smelling woman.
Kiki

Reading, PA

#206 Jun 20, 2014
I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. The first 3 months was kiss here kiss there...boy did that change right away not even when we are sexually active we kiss...sometimes I ask for him to kiss me while having sex...I used to complain ALL the TIME but I got tired...last time I just said when this ends if ends...I am a needy person...what woman isn't...
Chloe

Male, Maldives

#208 Jul 24, 2014
Badz wrote:
Bad, I like kissing too. Drives me wild. It is the part of building up to other things and can get you very steamed up. If you need a kiss, just let me know.
I need a kiss ;)
sweet brown

Pikeville, KY

#209 Jul 24, 2014
Chloe wrote:
<quoted text>
I need a kiss ;)
nobody got time for that!
Wife-mother

Charlotte, NC

#210 Jul 24, 2014
the truth wrote:
well, one thing is after a woman has a kid? she pretty much lets herself go for the first say.....5 years? i guess thats them doing the whole"mother" thing. however, that being said ( and i know im gonna catch heat over it) a woman still married late 30s to mid 40s with kids almost grown is like a untapped resource ( no pun intended)
Not all women are like that. I'm only 33. I had a child and kept myself up whole pregnant as well as afterwards. Didn't let myself go at all. Of course there were more days not fixed up than fixed up while pregnant but I had horrible morning sickness all day every day for months. I'm not fat. Not even over weight. 37, 24, 38 and get hit on all the time. But my husband won't kiss me. Even if I tell him how much it hurts me. We used to make out for hours. Men have no idea how much this hurts a woman. It doesn't make any sense.
I'm now pregnant again with our second and am almost to the 3rd trimester and have only gained 10 lbs total which means it's all chest and baby. Still dress cute, even sexy and still wear heels. It IS possible to live for ur kids and be an extremely gogo mother and still look good. Part of being a good mother is being a good wife to ur kids father. Part of that means dressing/looking like u give a rats like u did when u were single. U don't have to look like a 50 yr old woman just because u have children. That's ridiculous and I hate it when women do this.
Nothing works with him tho. He will not kiss me. So now what do u think?:/
ask me not

Louisville, KY

#212 Jul 30, 2014
donnie osmond wrote:
<quoted text> all jokes aside here? but will he perform oral sex on you?
taste like fish---ugly also
sadworld

Astoria, NY

#213 Aug 4, 2014
the real mary lou wrote:
Been there done that..NEVER again..if and when I find another..I will be all over him....and he better be all over me or we are ....DONE...... LIFE IS TOOOOO SHORT to wait on some man that will never kiss you......hug you ....respect you..... take you out..... laugh with you..remember life is what you make it so MAKE it good....
and frustrating this can be a possibility.... mostly when ur married...:/ start all over...
sadworld

Astoria, NY

#214 Aug 4, 2014
Kiki wrote:
I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. The first 3 months was kiss here kiss there...boy did that change right away not even when we are sexually active we kiss...sometimes I ask for him to kiss me while having sex...I used to complain ALL the TIME but I got tired...last time I just said when this ends if ends...I am a needy person...what woman isn't...
I can relate and it sucks.... scares me too I don't even have kids been married almost 7 years ...
idkwhatswrong

Astoria, NY

#215 Aug 4, 2014
I feel I'm too young to be dealing with this don't even have kids yet and married without a ring or a ceremony _ just "love" for him.... now I'm deppress and I seem not be his priority since he even likes to help other chick's out - he even broken some girls "chocolates " home because she had forgotten them so he wanted to be nice ....
donnajones

Glasgow, UK

#216 Aug 5, 2014
Myself an husband of 24 yrs has not had a kiss or anything for over a yr. He wont do chores or even make a cuppa for me. He made a remark about he did live me in a tiff. But i wont to leave but we have a 13 mth old grandson and wanted him to grow up with nanna grandad im 47. And been quite poorley with bk ops bowl and bladder ops and muliple clts on lungs and legs and to top it all they have found out i have leaky valves in my heart so dealing with alk that and this there is only one i can get rid off wot do u think he does'nt come with me to know wot is wrong and then he thinks im lieing wot is best

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