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magic beans

Clay City, KY

#1 Feb 25, 2012
sometimes when you are in a relationship its hard to see if your partner is cheating...my girl and i use to go everywhere together...now she always wants to go alone.. she "works" late constantly...claims the reason why she comes home without her bra and underwear is cause she just came from the tanning bed. she keeps her call log on her phone cleared...and her phone set to silent. i have been thinking about following her since she wont talk about it...i asked her straight up if she was cheating and she said " oh just cause i need me time im a whore right"? as if im the criminal here...suggestions?
Well

Cynthiana, KY

#2 Feb 25, 2012
She is cheating.
Bob

Kermit, WV

#3 Feb 25, 2012
Don't be stupid like women and leave her,.keep banging that thang son until she's no longer there. Thing move on to the next one.

Forget the LOVE sh*t.

If she stay's and amount of time and becomes pregnant,..DO NOT claim title to any child until a DNA test is done.

Really that's good for any man. Never claim title to any child these days until you know it yours. DNA TEST.

“lmao I'm a flamer”

Since: Nov 10

Point Pleasant, WV

#4 Feb 25, 2012
Hate to say it, but yeah, she's cheating. I used to use public tanning beds all the time until I bought my own, and I never took my panties off in those things. If she says that she wears them in the tanning bed, but that they get sweaty, and she just took them off after she got out, you'd see a tan line. Most girls take their bras off in the bed to avoid tan lines. So, if she takes it off, then why wouldn't she put it back on??? She puts her clothes back on. The cell phone is a dead giveaway. Who takes the time to clear it unless they have something to hide?? She's doing that just in case you look up her call history on the internet and find something. She could talk her way out of a whole bunch of deleted numbers vs just one.

Speaking as a woman, I only need "me time" every once in a while, when things are really stressful, and I need time to think....not all the time like this sounds.
Good luck
magic beans

Clay City, KY

#5 Feb 25, 2012
road_rage wrote:
Hate to say it, but yeah, she's cheating. I used to use public tanning beds all the time until I bought my own, and I never took my panties off in those things. If she says that she wears them in the tanning bed, but that they get sweaty, and she just took them off after she got out, you'd see a tan line. Most girls take their bras off in the bed to avoid tan lines. So, if she takes it off, then why wouldn't she put it back on??? She puts her clothes back on. The cell phone is a dead giveaway. Who takes the time to clear it unless they have something to hide?? She's doing that just in case you look up her call history on the internet and find something. She could talk her way out of a whole bunch of deleted numbers vs just one.
Speaking as a woman, I only need "me time" every once in a while, when things are really stressful, and I need time to think....not all the time like this sounds.
Good luck
thanks..guess its hard to see past the bs after you have been with someone for 15 years
listen

Harold, KY

#6 Feb 25, 2012
road_rage wrote:
Hate to say it, but yeah, she's cheating. I used to use public tanning beds all the time until I bought my own, and I never took my panties off in those things. If she says that she wears them in the tanning bed, but that they get sweaty, and she just took them off after she got out, you'd see a tan line. Most girls take their bras off in the bed to avoid tan lines. So, if she takes it off, then why wouldn't she put it back on??? She puts her clothes back on. The cell phone is a dead giveaway. Who takes the time to clear it unless they have something to hide?? She's doing that just in case you look up her call history on the internet and find something. She could talk her way out of a whole bunch of deleted numbers vs just one.
Speaking as a woman, I only need "me time" every once in a while, when things are really stressful, and I need time to think....not all the time like this sounds.
Good luck
I think tan lines are sexy!
whatever dude

Georgetown, KY

#7 Feb 25, 2012
magic beans wrote:
sometimes when you are in a relationship its hard to see if your partner is cheating...my girl and i use to go everywhere together...now she always wants to go alone.. she "works" late constantly...claims the reason why she comes home without her bra and underwear is cause she just came from the tanning bed. she keeps her call log on her phone cleared...and her phone set to silent. i have been thinking about following her since she wont talk about it...i asked her straight up if she was cheating and she said " oh just cause i need me time im a whore right"? as if im the criminal here...suggestions?
yeah ok buddy..listen, we both know if you had kept her happy in the bedroom i wouldnt be in the picture...maybe if you spent more time eating her instead of eating candy bars she might not have came to me in the first place!
hmmm

Jonancy, KY

#8 Feb 25, 2012
I will ask her the next time I am with her and get back to you... just kidding, I know in poor taste, sorry about that.

But anyway, it doesn't sound good, hire a detective to catch her red handed, and then move on, if she is cheating, then she is not worth it.
one who knows

Pikeville, KY

#9 Feb 25, 2012
whatever dude wrote:
<quoted text> yeah ok buddy..listen, we both know if you had kept her happy in the bedroom i wouldnt be in the picture...maybe if you spent more time eating her instead of eating candy bars she might not have came to me in the first place!
You eat her after I do her and she said you were the one who sucked in bed, it is your best friend that she really likes to bang, she told me that your penis looked like a small army helmet on G.I. Joe's head, lol. Dude, she is playing your ass, you are a lame, arse lay, now, get over yourself, your sister is calling you from the bedroom if you know what I mean, lol. The only chocolate you eat is from the bi-curious guy you just had sex with in the poop shoot that you met on Craig's List, you dufus, lol.
Futete

Georgetown, KY

#10 Feb 26, 2012
I know it sucks, but you are being cheated on. I would suggest you go to your cell carriers office and ask for a printout of all calls. You will get a complete printed log of all calls made from and to that phone. You seem to have the time frame down so it wouldn't be very hard to find the erased calls. Don't waste your time confronting her and arguing about it. Get all your ducks in a row, then put her on the road when you are ready. Just keep playing the sucker right now until you get all your affairs in order. This will only work if the cell account is in your name. If not you can try to persuade them to let you look over it for a number you lost. Trust me on this as it really does work. Got my arse busted by my ex with this method. I came home from work one day and got a whole big stack of papers shoved in my face. Exact times numbers were called, exactly how long each one lasted, and every single time they called me. Absolutely no defense for this, as you are busted with the proof laid out right in front of you. If your woman comes home with a nice new phone as a present and offers it for a replacement for your old clunker, decline. That is if you have something to hide. If you have to take it, I would suggest you invest in a prepaid one for a spare, but you have to keep it well secured in your work vehicle. Oh, and remember to turn that ringer off so it can't be heard by someone walking past your vehicle when at home.

Since: Feb 12

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#11 Feb 26, 2012
O.K., first of all it is gonna be very difficult for you to go through this, especially after 15 years of being together. I myself have been in the same situation and can tell you with experience, no matter how hard it will hurt you bro.. Go with futete's idea and get the cell phone records, do some investigating yourself"without being noticed by her", and if she is getting some strange confront her a$$! No matter how hard it will be to tell her it's over, and trust me it will be you absolutely have to. She will beg and plead "if she really cares ", but you have to separate yourselve's. Because after you confront her, and she will beg you not to leave her and you don't that will be a big freakin mistake man.. BOOM!! She'll be fukin a dude a day, cause any girl will take advantage of any man if you let it slide the first time. Trust me I know from experience and any1 else will tell you the same.. Good luck!!
faith hillbilly

Pikeville, KY

#12 Feb 26, 2012
road_rage wrote:
Hate to say it, but yeah, she's cheating. I used to use public tanning beds all the time until I bought my own, and I never took my panties off in those things. If she says that she wears them in the tanning bed, but that they get sweaty, and she just took them off after she got out, you'd see a tan line. Most girls take their bras off in the bed to avoid tan lines. So, if she takes it off, then why wouldn't she put it back on??? She puts her clothes back on. The cell phone is a dead giveaway. Who takes the time to clear it unless they have something to hide?? She's doing that just in case you look up her call history on the internet and find something. She could talk her way out of a whole bunch of deleted numbers vs just one.
Speaking as a woman, I only need "me time" every once in a while, when things are really stressful, and I need time to think....not all the time like this sounds.
Good luck
i call bullshit, just cause u never took your panties off doesnt mean others dont, i always take everything off in the tanning bed, who wants tan lines, that is some bullshit to tell a man his woman is cheating cause she didnt want to put her panties back on after the tanning bed, knowing she was gonna go straight home and shower....as for the phone deal, sounds like u have the experience there....
haha

Georgetown, KY

#13 Feb 26, 2012
magic beans wrote:
sometimes when you are in a relationship its hard to see if your partner is cheating...my girl and i use to go everywhere together...now she always wants to go alone.. she "works" late constantly...claims the reason why she comes home without her bra and underwear is cause she just came from the tanning bed. she keeps her call log on her phone cleared...and her phone set to silent. i have been thinking about following her since she wont talk about it...i asked her straight up if she was cheating and she said " oh just cause i need me time im a whore right"? as if im the criminal here...suggestions?
man ur a fool...you live at virgie right? i busted a nut in your wife last night..actually 7 of us did..
faith hillbilly

Pikeville, KY

#14 Feb 26, 2012
hmmm wrote:
I will ask her the next time I am with her and get back to you... just kidding, I know in poor taste, sorry about that.
But anyway, it doesn't sound good, hire a detective to catch her red handed, and then move on, if she is cheating, then she is not worth it.
i call bullshit on that move as well, who can afford a private detective, what is this, csi miami?
if u think shes cheating....ask your self why....next time she says shes going to the tanning bed, say, hey im in the mood for a ride, i think i will go with ya...see what her reaction is....
sad but true

Richmond, KY

#15 Feb 26, 2012
i know the above poster and his wife. it seems like things went downhill for them when they couldnt have children...least for her anyway..yes, i do know for a fact that shes cheating..and with multiple men too. i dont really have the heart to tell the guy...and really dont want the burden of it...but i would strongly suggest that he does not have sex with her and have himself tested for stds. any woman that takes on 4 guys a night is bound to bring something nasty home...
faith hillbilly

Pikeville, KY

#16 Feb 26, 2012
if shes doing 4 guys a night, that isnt cheating, that is whoreing, cheating usually involves only two people, sneaking behind the spouses back or whatever
doing 4 men or women a night means something much worse is going on
maybe trading sex for drugs or cash, maybe addiction to sex or danger or just the act of cheating in risk of getting caught is the thrill for her
but if this is true, this woman has much deeper issues
shes like someone who drinks or overeats or gambles or uses drugs to mask the pain or to hide something
maybe the fact she couldnt have kids drove her to such a deep depression and this is her way of killing the pain
or maybe the last poster is full of it
sad but true

Richmond, KY

#17 Feb 26, 2012
faith hillbilly wrote:
if shes doing 4 guys a night, that isnt cheating, that is whoreing, cheating usually involves only two people, sneaking behind the spouses back or whatever
doing 4 men or women a night means something much worse is going on
maybe trading sex for drugs or cash, maybe addiction to sex or danger or just the act of cheating in risk of getting caught is the thrill for her
but if this is true, this woman has much deeper issues
shes like someone who drinks or overeats or gambles or uses drugs to mask the pain or to hide something
maybe the fact she couldnt have kids drove her to such a deep depression and this is her way of killing the pain
or maybe the last poster is full of it
i wish i was full of it..i have known both of them for over 15 years and it kills me to see them going down this road. i know much more than what im posting...but there are deeper issues here. i dont think he can salvage the relationship by turning a blind eye...you probably will disagree with me on this but deep down shes got a good heart...its just a bad situation.
Futete

Winchester, KY

#18 Feb 27, 2012
I have no idea why a person would ask their spouse if they are cheating. It is like they expect a true confession. If a cop randomly pulls you over and asks if you have broken the law recently would you tell the truth knowing you would go straight to jail? It would be like answering yes Sir, I was road racing earier this morning so please go ahead and arrest me, fine me, and please revoke my license for five years. Most of the time if you suspect your spouse of cheating, they are. You have to put in the work to find out. Way to many people want to believe them, so they happily accept a lie. I hate to admit it but I am very good at this topic. I have been the cheater and the cheated on. I know one thing for certain, and that is it always ends bad.
tanning methods differ

Wheelwright, KY

#19 Feb 27, 2012
faith hillbilly wrote:
<quoted text>i call bullshit, just cause u never took your panties off doesnt mean others dont, i always take everything off in the tanning bed, who wants tan lines, that is some bullshit to tell a man his woman is cheating cause she didnt want to put her panties back on after the tanning bed, knowing she was gonna go straight home and shower....as for the phone deal, sounds like u have the experience there....
I take my panties off in the tanning bed and leave my bra on beause Im afraid of breast cancer. I usually wear no panties to the tanning bed, just makes it easier to get in and out quickly.
mee

Grethel, KY

#22 Feb 27, 2012
well my husband thought i was cheating on him cause i would be late comeing home from work but one of my co works was riding with me and i was takeing her home and on the way home i stop by the tanning bed as well i dont wear my underwear in the tanning bed and i dont put them back on i trow them in my bag there is no point of putting them back on wasting more time giving him more reason to think i am cheating when i am going straight home to shower and yes i liked going places with out him cause all we did was argue i didnt want some one else i just needed a break he was killing me. i never cheated on him once.

so my oppion give this girl a break act like you dont care what she is doing. if she is cheating she will feel bad cause she will see you dont care if shes not she wil be begging you to care but dont let that go on to long or she will cheat if she is not...that how my brother caught his woman cheating

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