Married preacher cheating??

Married preacher cheating??

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church needs to know

Pikeville, KY

#2 May 1, 2014
Need help wrote:
If you know for a fact that a preacher at a local church is cheating on his wife should you tell his wife? Should you tell anyone?
You should tell his church.
Need help

Pikeville, KY

#3 May 1, 2014
Why his church and what about his wife
church needs to know

Pikeville, KY

#4 May 1, 2014
Need help wrote:
Why his church and what about his wife
The church needs to know because he is their pastor and the leader of the church. If he is engaging in an extramarital affair he is violating church law to either be celibate or in a committed honest relationship with a wife. As far as the wife; I think it better for a church elder to discuss this matter with the two of them, not some random person trying to tell her.
Need help

Pikeville, KY

#5 May 1, 2014
What if he's not the pastor but a Decon in the church and preaches
A CHANCE

Pikeville, KY

#6 May 1, 2014
Need help wrote:
What if he's not the pastor but a Decon in the church and preaches
Now you are changing your tale. First this is not the right place to get advice. Second don't be trying to stick a feather in your hat for informing. Give the man a chance to change his actions maybe by a secret note to him that you know what's going on. He can't take it back or undo it but give him a chance to change privately.
Need help

Pikeville, KY

#7 May 1, 2014
No take is changing he is a preacher he preaches a lot and he has been cheating on his wife for a long Time now.
we are all accountable

Winchester, KY

#8 May 1, 2014
Need help wrote:
No take is changing he is a preacher he preaches a lot and he has been cheating on his wife for a long Time now.
We are supposed to hold members in our church accountable and that includes preachers.
never ending cycle

Pikeville, KY

#9 May 1, 2014
No, you do NOT need to tell his church. First, if you know it for a fact, maybe you should go to him and tell him you know and how you found out and if others know as well.
Then you should tell him he needs to end it or come clean to his wife or both.
His personal private life is not the need to know of the church.
It should and probably will be his decision to admit things to the church, maybe not even the full events, but just that he has made a mistake, etc.
He might be a preacher, but he is also just a person and people arent perfect, they make mistakes, they do things from the heart sometimes.
Sometimes of the flesh.
Stay out of it other than to go to him privately, then leave the rest up to him.
Must be an Ole Regular

Corbin, KY

#10 May 1, 2014
Every time you see one they are either picking the chicken out of their teeth or zipping up their pants....lol
Curious

Pikeville, KY

#11 May 1, 2014
If he's a Decon in the church then he's one if the elders? Does she lose his Deconship if he did have an affair
Smores

Fort Worth, TX

#12 May 1, 2014
Stand up in church and request prayer for him and fornucation
imo

Richmond, KY

#13 May 1, 2014
First of all since you are so concerned about it maybe you should pray for this man pray for God to deal with him and to take care of the situation. Sin is sin in Gods eyes no big sin no little sin. You are no better than this pastor being a busybody in other peoples matters.

Since: Apr 14

Wilmington, DE

#14 May 1, 2014
1 of the reasons I stopped going to churches is because there was so much sexual activity going on behind closed doors. I went to a church where the pastor had his wife sitting on the pulpit with him every Sunday...but in the front row were 3 women he was having sexual encounters with. 1 was pregnant with his child. We have to understand that even though these people are supposed to be leaders that they are still human first and will make mistakes and sin just like everyone else
no way

Pikeville, KY

#15 May 1, 2014
Lovely Lee32 wrote:
1 of the reasons I stopped going to churches is because there was so much sexual activity going on behind closed doors. I went to a church where the pastor had his wife sitting on the pulpit with him every Sunday...but in the front row were 3 women he was having sexual encounters with. 1 was pregnant with his child. We have to understand that even though these people are supposed to be leaders that they are still human first and will make mistakes and sin just like everyone else
4 other women is not a "mistake". It is a choice, a way of lif and definitely shows lack of character.. If someone is unfaithful to the one person that they supposedly love more than themselves, then I wouldn't trust them with anything. I certainly wouldn't talk privately to him as he would probably turn it around on you and make up lies about you. He has already demonstrated his willingness to lie.

A pastor is supposed to be a spiritual leader, and that does not mean servicing the women in the church.
no way

Pikeville, KY

#16 May 1, 2014
imo wrote:
First of all since you are so concerned about it maybe you should pray for this man pray for God to deal with him and to take care of the situation. Sin is sin in Gods eyes no big sin no little sin. You are no better than this pastor being a busybody in other peoples matters.
If this is their pastor, then they do have a right to be concerned.
I Just Wish

Carlisle, KY

#17 May 1, 2014
no way wrote:
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If this is their pastor, then they do have a right to be concerned.
I just wish someone would tell the name of the church because I could me going to this church and have no clue what is going on, and If so I will find another church.
Ethics try it

Harold, KY

#18 May 1, 2014
You done the right thing of course, by getting on this site and making a post about it I'm sure that's what Jesus would have done, Quit bashing churches, not all pastors are Hippocrates, and before you start bashing thus man you better know 100percent what our talking about, more than likely this church angered you by turning you down fir money so you could buy your pills to get high, so you must teach them a lesson, Lyon ppl are sick and will be splitting the hottest portals of hell wide open!
imo

Richmond, KY

#19 May 1, 2014
No doubt that I agree with you there but if they were a devoted Christian as they are trying to portray they would've done went to the pastor not to topix. And unless this person was lying in the bed with this pastor and a lover how would they know for a fact he is having an affair? People especially now love to talk and tear people down especially people who are in leadership positions in churches.
imo

Richmond, KY

#20 May 1, 2014
Ethics try it wrote:
You done the right thing of course, by getting on this site and making a post about it I'm sure that's what Jesus would have done, Quit bashing churches, not all pastors are Hippocrates, and before you start bashing thus man you better know 100percent what our talking about, more than likely this church angered you by turning you down fir money so you could buy your pills to get high, so you must teach them a lesson, Lyon ppl are sick and will be splitting the hottest portals of hell wide open!
I agree
play on playa

Pikeville, KY

#21 May 2, 2014
just because someone is a christian, doesnt keep their penis from getting hard.
doesnt keep the women from getting hot
doesnt keep the raging desire at bay.
that is one reason why all the men in the bible had slaves and concubines.
it was all about the men getting their animal desires fulfilled and i would guess some animals as well.
the women werent supposed to like it!!!
i say, if you drive by a church and you think oh how nice all the good sweet people who do no wrong and are as holy as moly, well, you are smoking something.
women sometimes become attracted to men who they see in a position of some kind of power or authority.
the man, is probably using his position as the preacher to counsel her and make her feel like he is saving her in some way.
lmfao.
lets just hope this man sticks to the women in the church, because the catholics tend to catch them a lot younger.

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