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should a married couple engage in a threesome?

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Curious

Phelps, KY

#1 Oct 11, 2010
Should a Married couple engage in a threesome? and why?
Nono

Murphy, NC

#2 Oct 11, 2010
I don't recommend it. It could be the first step in destroying your marriage. The Other Party may become more than just casual sex, and that's when the trouble begins...
oh yea

Dana, KY

#3 Oct 11, 2010
Oh yea, Its is quit fun, You might say I ve been there and done that. But remember, it goes both ways. Got to be willing to be with a guy or gal, Most guy are for it untill she want to do two guy thing. Men are one sided.
NO WAY

Ransom, KY

#4 Oct 11, 2010
Curious wrote:
Should a Married couple engage in a threesome? and why?
This is not a good idea. This would be the first step in destroying your marriage. No bed is made for three people and no marriage is made for three people. Please do not do this. It is probably fun to talk about, but remember fantasy and reality are two different things. If you value your relationship don't try this. Men are sexually visual beings. Women are emotional beings. I don't think any woman's emotions could take this after the fact. Think twice before doing this.
NOOOOOO

Chavies, KY

#5 Oct 11, 2010
Sex is meant to between a husband and a wife. It is to bind them together physically and spiritually. Once you bring in someone else you have defiled your body and defiled the marriage. You also have gave your permission for your spouse to cheat. These things are never a one time thing. Once a man has had a threesome and you give him permission and act upon it then he will continue to do these things. He will just do it behind your back. Marriage is sacred and is to be treated as such.
Larry Craig

Clemmons, NC

#6 Oct 11, 2010
I'd like to try a threesome but you just can't get 3 people in to a bathroom stall.
no never

Thelma, KY

#7 Oct 11, 2010
No, and if it has to be explained to anyone that is married then they shouldn't be married.
great

Falcon, KY

#9 Oct 11, 2010
There is hope for mankind yet when you see all of the no's. thank you all for that.
sally

Pikeville, KY

#10 Oct 11, 2010
My man and I "JUST TALK ABOUT IT", and that is it. He probably would really like it but I won't. I'll work him up by saying things, but when you really do it, it changes lives....for the worst. Fantasy should be left at that...
outta Pville

United States

#11 Oct 11, 2010
NO WAY wrote:
<quoted text>This is not a good idea. This would be the first step in destroying your marriage. No bed is made for three people and no marriage is made for three people. Please do not do this. It is probably fun to talk about, but remember fantasy and reality are two different things. If you value your relationship don't try this. Men are sexually visual beings. Women are emotional beings. I don't think any woman's emotions could take this after the fact. Think twice before doing this.
You answered very well indeed. May I also add that the chance of an STD is always possible when other sex partners are added. Although an STD may not destroy the marriage, it eventually does destroy the person.
So Right

Ransom, KY

#12 Oct 11, 2010
sally wrote:
My man and I "JUST TALK ABOUT IT", and that is it. He probably would really like it but I won't. I'll work him up by saying things, but when you really do it, it changes lives....for the worst. Fantasy should be left at that...
You are so right. Keep it a fantasy. Men loved to talk that trash but just make sure that is all it ever is.
nooooo

Langley, KY

#13 Oct 12, 2010
you will be left at home while they are out sneaking around. seen it happen everytime!!!
ihopethishelps

Phelps, KY

#14 Oct 12, 2010
The question is after you do it are you gonna be able to live with your self? Think about this if your there and he or she pleases your spouce more than you do then what? Are you gonna keep doing it or do you think one time is gonna be it? Whos to say it wont still happen behind your back? or whos to say that its an excuse to be with another person without making it look that way? and is there children in the marriage? if so then you need to also think about them. I f this was to distory the marriage what would you tell the children? things do have a way of getting out, there is no such thing as a secreat. I hope this helps some.
Personally I could never do it and I would be offended if my spouce even hinted about it. My marriage means more to me than that and if thats something my spouce wants then they should have never gotten married.
mememe

Pittsburgh, PA

#15 Oct 12, 2010
We did a few times. Our marriage was well established and on a firm foundation. We were both getting tired of the "same ole same ole " and decided to liven things up. Things worked really well until that dam snake in the grass started trying to sneak in the back door as I walked out the front. He was single and just had to abuse a good thing. So from that day forward, We stuck with her girl friend when We wanted to liven things up...
Bad Idea

Hazard, KY

#16 Oct 12, 2010
If you are a women: How does it make you feel to think of your husband with another woman. Not fantasy, but reality. How would you feel walking in on such a scenerio. Flip the situation if this is a guy...how would you feel walking in on your wife with another man.

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a completely different can o' worms. Talking about it while in the midst of things and fantasizing is harmless, but when you bring that fantasy to fruition, how would you REALLY deal with it?

After the thrill of it all, looking back...how are YOU going to feel thinking of your significant other with another person. Would you want them to do such acts without you? This is what it would most likely lead to. "Well s/he didn't mind while with me, I'm sure s/he will not mind if I do this without them here either. What's the difference?"

If you are looking to spice things up, role play, toy play etc. Don't risk getting emotionally destroyed (Or worse, an STD!)

My vote: No.
hmm

Hindman, KY

#17 Oct 12, 2010
I like watching my old lady get fuckt by other men
Totally Agree

Ransom, KY

#18 Oct 12, 2010
Bad Idea wrote:
If you are a women: How does it make you feel to think of your husband with another woman. Not fantasy, but reality. How would you feel walking in on such a scenerio. Flip the situation if this is a guy...how would you feel walking in on your wife with another man.
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a completely different can o' worms. Talking about it while in the midst of things and fantasizing is harmless, but when you bring that fantasy to fruition, how would you REALLY deal with it?
After the thrill of it all, looking back...how are YOU going to feel thinking of your significant other with another person. Would you want them to do such acts without you? This is what it would most likely lead to. "Well s/he didn't mind while with me, I'm sure s/he will not mind if I do this without them here either. What's the difference?"
If you are looking to spice things up, role play, toy play etc. Don't risk getting emotionally destroyed (Or worse, an STD!)
My vote: No.
I totally agree. KEEP IT TRASH TALK AND FANTASY! Heck, watch porn movies. Do anything except that!
Guy

Dana, KY

#19 Oct 12, 2010
hmm wrote:
I like watching my old lady get fuckt by other men
Call me
The Rose

Elkhorn City, KY

#20 Oct 12, 2010
hmm wrote:
I like watching my old lady get fuckt by other men
Then she is no better than you are,both of you are pieces of trash.Sickening to the effect that a person just might throw up in your face if they could see you.People like you is what is wrong with our society today.You have no morals for yourself or anyone else.You need to step back and see what kind of person you are.You need some mental and spiritual help.
Mr Quick

Pikeville, KY

#21 Oct 12, 2010
Tryed that once wife and her friend it was a awesome three minutes .If I ever get another chance think I'll skip the foreplay .

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