This doesnt sound right at all.So I need to know what you guys think about a woman that sleeps with her son. Took him out of school because he didn't like going and cried every morning. Let's him stay up all night and she gets maybe two hours of sleep a night. My boy is 9. I try to get him to sleep I tried to make him go to school. When I get on to him she fights with me and takes up for him. This is the last child she is going to have we have two older girls. Now my son will not let me and my wife in the same room together. We can't talk without him getting between us. I beg my wife all the time just to come sleep with me at night when he goes to sleep. She doesn't. I beg her for a little attention you anything but I don't get anything from her. Jealous my not be the word but I am discussed. If anyone has any advice please help.
It sounds almost like your wife isnt at all happy in her marriage, and is using her son to place a wedge between you two.
A child should never be in the room with its parents when they are having private discussions, no matter what the subject, money, marriage, sex, family, anything.
And her going and getting the child from school, sleeping with him, it sounds like she has some kind of personal issue.
I hope you can work it out, but it sounds like she has her mind made up.
Maybe you can get a sitter and then have a discussion, maybe its not her being overly protective of her child, but using it as a way to keep you away.
I dont know, I shouldnt be giving advice I guess, but it just isnt right to use a child in that way, and to be manipulated by the child either.
Because by him getting between you, sounds like he knows just exactly what he needs to do to get his way.