men who are jealous of thier own chil...
Lori

State College, PA

#21 Aug 20, 2012
Manly man wrote:
You broads need to shut up.
Must have his a nerve...hahahaha!!!
Sassy

Clay City, KY

#22 Aug 20, 2012
I had three kids with my ex and he was very jealous of them. We were married 12 years and I kept thinking he would get over it, but he never did. I think it goes back to the fact that his Mom was not a good Mommy.
Homer

Winchester, KY

#23 Aug 21, 2012
Not to stray completely off topic but since this is a man bashing thread I just felt I ought to bring up a few things about some so called Mothers that are just as bad as men. My wife and I, well lets make that Ex, had a daughter. I knew something was wrong at the Hospital, and being a first time Dad, didn't really know if it was normal. They brought our new daughter in to the room and I could tell she didn't act right. She didn't even want to feed it and after a short time would call for the nurses to come get it. She didn't want me to leave her room, but was completely different toward the baby. Maybe out of necessity I stepped up and took care of the feeding. It could very well have been what brought me so close to her, but i just fell completely in love with that little gal. That Ex went back to work after two weeks of maternity leave even with me strongly suggesting that was too soon. I took an extended leave of absence to care for that little gal. Which in the long run hurt my career, but i wouldn't change one thing. After caring for this baby all day this "Mother" wouldn't even put this baby to sleep at night. Thats what i would call laying with her until she fell asleep. After she was old enough I finally returned to work but the relationship between this "Mother" and Baby was never anywhere near as close as her and I. She is older now and they are a lot closer, and I am happy they are, but not all women are mothers either. For at least a year I couldn't even sleep for longer then an hour without getting up and checking to see if she was still breathing. I was scared to death of SIDS. So lets not be so rough on these new fathers knowing some of the women are just as bad.
wow

Richmond, KY

#24 Aug 21, 2012
These men should not have children, then.

A good man would be THANKFUL that his wife or girlfriend is taking good care of the child... because there are some children who are not that fortunate.
Had enough

Severn, Canada

#25 Oct 22, 2012
My husband of 28 yrs is very jealous of our grown daughters & my relationship with them. When ever I spend time withe them he gets angry and gets back at me by picking on something I care about or spending money He has no interest in any of my hobbies so I do them with my kids. Right now he is not working & has to much time on his hands so he has make work projects for us to do after I work 10 hrs he is very controlling & threatening my youngest still lives at home and it doesn't matter what she does it's wrong and if I stick up for her he gets so mad. Oh he's a christian treats church family better than his real family
Very sad mom

United States

#26 Oct 27, 2012
lia wrote:
Ladies..i left my husband along time ago...men can't grow up...they are jealous of their children, stepchildren...children need their mothers first, and if the father doesn't want to help out and be a dad, then leave him, put your children first always, men can come and go, but your child is yours forever! You are a mother, not a men's sex slave! I told my ex husband if you are jealous of the baby you can do 2 things..help me take care of our child, and stop complaining...or 2 you can pack up and leave! My duty is now a mother first! My child is helpless, has no one in the world but me, innocent and pure, you are a grown man, you are 6 feet tall, you can have a job, walk and cook your own meals...you should be doing these things for me, you should help me...he couldn't take me standing up to him so he left, later i found my self a good other woman my daughter was breastfed, he was jealous...NO HE CAN NOT HAVE MY BREASTMILK, THAT IS FOR MY CHILD! THIS MAN IS ALWAYS TAKING FROM MY BABY...i told him to leave!
MY CHILD IS NOW 5 AND I AM IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN, SHE IS THE BEST THING, SHE COOKS HELPS ME EQUALLY IN EVERYTHING, EVEN WATCHES MY CHILD FOR ALL YOU WOMAN OUT THERE...LEAVE THE MEN...HAVE THE BABIES, THEN LEAVE THESE MEN FOR WOMEN...WOMEN ARE BETTER...MORE WOMEN TURN TO OTHER WOMAN! ITS THE BEST THING EVER..NOW MY X IS A LOSER HAS NO ONE...I WILL NEVER LET HIM NEAR MY CHILD IF A MAN IS JEALOUS OF HIS CHILD HE MAY DO DAMAGE TO THE BABY BE CAREFUL LADIES, THESE AREN'T MEN THEY ARE JEALOUS ANIMALS!
My STBX has been molesting my 3 yr old daughter, she is now 6, because he is jealous of all the attention and love I have for he. He was not like this with our 1st son, who is now 12. I don't know why men are so self centered. He has been diagnosed as a narcissistic self centers, immature deviant that acts out in innappropriate way through the MMPI. He is fighting me for 50 50 time share but really doesn't want to care for the children unless it has something to do with making him look good for others.
Kalea

Rochester, NY

#27 Apr 5, 2013
it happens wrote:
<quoted text>
As crazy as it sounds, some men are indeed jealous of their own kids. A man will complain and pout because his wife has to spend all her time with the new baby. Anybody in their right mind should know a new baby requires almost constant care and attention for a while. Then there's the jealous father who feels his kids are getting all of the attention from his parents. Boo who, he's not the center of their attention anymore. Some kids are high achievers, and instead of being happy and proud of them, some fathers are actually jealous because they never stood out in any way themselves. These are just a few examples but, yes, some fathers are jealous of their own kids.
My son is much better looking than my husband and he is jealous of him for that.
night cover

Pikeville, KY

#28 Apr 5, 2013
well i hate to say this, but here goes...its no wonder some men are jealous of their sons, when you go on facebook and read some of the posts women post about their sons, its kinda icky...
i love my son, but i dont gush and go on about how wonderful and fantastic everything he does is...
i see moms post stuff about your son is your first love
and stuff like a son will hold your hand for life
its kinda crazy
its almost like these moms are so desperate to prove that they love their kids
and some of it sounds a little too much
but what i see happening is moms creating sons who can never find a woman who can live up to their moms
and maybe some of them want that
maybe they want to be the bitchy mother in law, who is always in their sons business
but come on women, raise men
when you are looking at your little boys, see them in 20 or 30 years
what kind of men do you want them to be???
men who need to be coddled, waited on hand and foot, made to feel like every thing they do is justified and forgiven???
the kind of man who throws it up to his wife that she isnt as good as his mom...do you want him to talk down to his wife and be jealous of his kids because she gives the kids attention
or do you want to raise men, to be respectful of their wives and other women and to teach his children to be the same
men who know its ok if his wife isnt perfect...to not expect to be waited on hand and foot but to help around the house, and to not be conceited and thinking that he is the center of the universe...
think about that when you are raising your sons
and stop posting on facebook about your little boogie and your little man and the man of the house and treating your son as if hes your husband
it is sickening

“lmao I'm a flamer”

Since: Nov 10

Point Pleasant, WV

#29 Apr 6, 2013
Homer wrote:
Not to stray completely off topic but since this is a man bashing thread I just felt I ought to bring up a few things about some so called Mothers that are just as bad as men. My wife and I, well lets make that Ex, had a daughter. I knew something was wrong at the Hospital, and being a first time Dad, didn't really know if it was normal. They brought our new daughter in to the room and I could tell she didn't act right. She didn't even want to feed it and after a short time would call for the nurses to come get it. She didn't want me to leave her room, but was completely different toward the baby. Maybe out of necessity I stepped up and took care of the feeding. It could very well have been what brought me so close to her, but i just fell completely in love with that little gal. That Ex went back to work after two weeks of maternity leave even with me strongly suggesting that was too soon. I took an extended leave of absence to care for that little gal. Which in the long run hurt my career, but i wouldn't change one thing. After caring for this baby all day this "Mother" wouldn't even put this baby to sleep at night. Thats what i would call laying with her until she fell asleep. After she was old enough I finally returned to work but the relationship between this "Mother" and Baby was never anywhere near as close as her and I. She is older now and they are a lot closer, and I am happy they are, but not all women are mothers either. For at least a year I couldn't even sleep for longer then an hour without getting up and checking to see if she was still breathing. I was scared to death of SIDS. So lets not be so rough on these new fathers knowing some of the women are just as bad.
That's good that you stepped up, but do you think that she could have been suffering from postpartum depression? It happens more often than you think, and it is very serious.
baby daddy jealous

United States

#30 Jun 6, 2013
I have a four. Year old. His. Dad left wen i was four Months pregant.we werent dating we were friends. After my son was born he came back we tired the whole co parenting. It worked for about two years. He left out of town to start his life over. I try to make him see his son. He cansa but he fights with Everyone. Since his dad left. He soo jealous of my son. He says things like. Why do u always have to talk about our son. I dont care. Also u do everything for him. He told his parents tht u guys love my son more Then me. Wth. U guys never do anything for me. Keep in mins tht he only sees my son Twice a month.! Any advice for me on how to handle it? Or Wat i should do?
well

Virgie, KY

#31 Jun 6, 2013
baby daddy jealous wrote:
I have a four. Year old. His. Dad left wen i was four Months pregant.we werent dating we were friends. After my son was born he came back we tired the whole co parenting. It worked for about two years. He left out of town to start his life over. I try to make him see his son. He cansa but he fights with Everyone. Since his dad left. He soo jealous of my son. He says things like. Why do u always have to talk about our son. I dont care. Also u do everything for him. He told his parents tht u guys love my son more Then me. Wth. U guys never do anything for me. Keep in mins tht he only sees my son Twice a month.! Any advice for me on how to handle it? Or Wat i should do?
For one thing, I wouldn't try to force my son's father to spend time with my child if he really didn't want to. If he doesn't seem to care for his child and is resentful and jealous of him, how can you trust him with your son? How can you be sure he will take the best possible care of him? Your son won't benefit from a relationship with a father who doesn't truly care for him and want to be part of his life, and from what you say, he doesn't. Children aren't stupid. They know when someone loves them and when they don't. Your son is young enough to forget about his father at this age, but if this continues over the years and his father doesn't change his attitude toward his son, it will have a very negative effect on him.

Since: Feb 12

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#32 Jun 7, 2013
There is a special bond between a mother and her child/children. We are just wired that way. I adore mine. My son isn't very openly affectionate, but at 14 he will still come and sit in the chair with me and play videos on his phone as an "excuse" to sit so close. My older child is very affectionate and demanding of my time. I try to see that my children's needs are met and their boundaries respected. I think the best we can do for our kids is love them and make sure they know it.
rightousness

Kitchener, Canada

#33 Jun 22, 2013
you think too much wrote:
<quoted text>
You are cazy and simple minded. Not to mention, disgusting. You make me sick. And I am not the parent either! I am just an outsider looking into your trashy mind, Pervert.
I am so much agreed with you
Leila

Miami, FL

#34 Jul 20, 2013
My father jealous of me big time. He jealous that I'm more close to my mom never him reason he had mental problems. If he know I love this dog. He would find reason to hate it and YouTouture it. He wanted take away my security and privacy like if know I sit certain spot where it had tree shade age would cut it off so I can't sit there every time he hear me go to my mother room to talk he would drop everything then inturupp my conservation with my mother he does it obvious I'm in my room all day he had time talk to her. When my brother back me up argument with my father. He get really upset like he hurt cuz my brother on my side. Rarely be on my side. He does things to despite me. He would write bad words on my door does that sound normal no it not it mean he thinking of me night and day think way to get me upset if anybody come by for me he would find any excuses to fight with me like girl. So I do believe it some parent extremely jealous of their own kids. They the one need help it mean they crazy have mental problems I wish my father wouldn't be jealousy person but he is be cuz started his abuse from his parent now he taking it out on me that is sad like I'm punching bag sometime I wish he would just die it why I have metal door cuz he like put holes on my door so I won't have privac.
Love my son

Logan, WV

#35 Jul 20, 2013
He is a mixed bag. So gracious and thoughtful one minute and then doing something stupid the next. Oh yeah, back to the topix, yes, men are jealous of their sons attention. But hey, Mothers have a job to do and God bless all you Mothers who are doing it. We are responsible for forming human life and nurturing it until such time they become adults. Some kids fly the nest on their own, the independent ones, others take longer to mature and others still can be exhausting. In truth this is the job of two parents, but it doesn't always happen that way. I pray God grants a special blessing to loving single Moms. I am sure he is aware of their endless toil. Moms are in the trenches with their children. When their children hurt, Mom hurts, when their children are happy, Mom is happy. Alas, that is the way it is and men should get onboard or get out.
Lili

Lawrenceville, GA

#36 Aug 1, 2013
I think my husband is jealous of our son and I don't know what to do.
Beth

Logan, WV

#37 Aug 1, 2013
Lili wrote:
I think my husband is jealous of our son and I don't know what to do.
Keep having more kids!

“lmao I'm a flamer”

Since: Nov 10

Point Pleasant, WV

#38 Aug 1, 2013
It's the male instinct. They are very territorial in all species, and the homo sapien male isn't any different. Someone else is receiving his attention, regardless whether its his child or not...he can't help but feel jealousy. He'd pee on your leg if you'd let him.
anonomyous

Rogers, AR

#39 Aug 3, 2013
In a marriage the order for the husband is god then wife then child. For a wife god then husband then child. See what happens in a marriage trickels down to the kids. If a husband and wife are putting each other first and of course christ the head of your marriage your marriage will produce fruit likr love joy peace long suffering patiance. So then your children eat of that fruit and your happy. But if your not ask yourself what fruit are we oroducing. Jealious okay so why is he jealious are the two united in how to discpline child if not that will divide bc. The husband is the head he sets the base line and he should consult is wife but what he says goes in the end. Theres a reason why god ordained it this way. But men hust bc your the head of your marriage doesnt mean you own it. It means you should be a good stewart of your wifes love as christ loves the church. A leader is mesures by the men who follow. In this case the wife and children. I was a drug addict and a horrible man at one time. But now im a pastor u get up 30 mins before my family wakes so i can be a thermostat souritualy and change the atmosphere so tjeres peace and love and kindness all around us. Men your wifes want to be lead. But wifes please watch what u say the tongue is the utter to the soul. Speak life and exhort each other. Never put your spouse where christ should be bc man isnt oerfect u will be let down
Freddie

Logan, WV

#40 Aug 3, 2013
Women are suppose to wait on the men first!

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