family that turns against you
HopeFloats

Whitesburg, KY

#128 Sep 18, 2013
Anonymous wrote:
<quoted text>. No, you are not alone! At least half of my Family are so called Christian's which in my book called the Holly Bible says you are to forgive! I have forgiven my Family for the Bible says, if you don't do this your prayers are not answered! So there for they are not my Judge either, instead of trying to look all pretty & prept. for church they need to be looking at theirselves as Judges? God turns away from this behavior, the Churches that just preach on ties the entire time the sermon is going on & spending it on theirselves & worldly things. I would not want to be their Judge I'll leave that to God. I pray for all my family to open their eyes, the end is near, more so than people will even began to listen or see. I just want my Family back to love & for them to love me for who I am! How I believe, it is a sad thing I know in my heart there won't be many of them where I am going. Still I did not understand at first why my Family were like they were to me until now. Families, Brothers & Sisters will turn against one another. Just read Your Bibles in the book of Revelation, there you'll read & find the answers you seek. Good luck, there isn't much you can do, but pray for them. God be with you. &#128591;
This is all true, my family let lust, greed and worldly things get in the way honestly I don't think my mother ever truly loved me nor my dad. I've always had a fear my sibling would eventually get out of prison long enough to kill me for their jealous ways and greed sad thing is they would be killing me for nothing and my kids would be without the one parent who cares the most for them. I am the good one and the piles of money,land,ect. will go to the dope head crazy sibling of mine yes I've known for along time it would be this way just like the Bible says I didn't want to except it after having children of my own I can't figure out why these people are like this how can people be so cruel.I guess I'll never know.In the end one way or another I'll make a way for me and my family.In life you'll come to realize there are very few people who truly care for you. I have my self and my kids. Its a love ,hate relationship I have for my parents and sibling. If they had to be truthful it would be all hate on their part.I only wish that I was the one who ended up with my siblings Iq level 135 lol but after all they've spent most of their adult life in some kind of prison,jail or rehab.I guess god had his reasons for the lower Iq who knows even so I will get through this.Even if all society is against me I know the truth I may not have the money or wont suck face or ass for the connections ,but I have the truth and honesty on my side I'm with the way God in Heaven would do things.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#129 Sep 18, 2013
It is the same on my end. As long as I was making the big bucks and the bank was open, I was welcome. When I got hurt and became disabled, the bucks stopped and now I do not see or hear from them. Well, karma is a mean lady, I am just waiting to see what the payback will be. I hope it will be just and painful for what thy have done to me. I have not seen my grandkids in over a year now. They will pay for their misdeeds in the end.
HopeFloats

Whitesburg, KY

#130 Sep 18, 2013
Right what goes around sometimes if you get lucky or blessed goes back to them like a boomerang.If my situation goes to court I will be more then spilling my guts to the high heavens about their secret lives ,lust,and greed. They might have half a million sitting in banks,but this isn't about me its about my kids and I will not tolerate a repeat for my kids.My fear is that my sibling may get their lover to kill me or my mother might get my dad to loose it and kill me before every things said and done.What ever it may be God will handle it in the very end.I might not can understand his reasoning sometimes ,but he has his reasons I'm sure. If my parents die before I do they will leave it all the the sibling and their child and most maybe my siblings lover cause after all it was my dads lover at one point too.Sick people,and they never intended to leave me a dime other then maybe a little piece of so called keep it in the family land.,And they know from my childhood and then up I would not want any part of. Now I'm left with nothing so go ahead leave it to them let it be doped up like a lot of it thus far. All because I was second born and the opposite sex and nothing like any other member of my family.Those of you who have turned against me wait your turn your just being used, like I told you for years they never liked you.They are only in with you now cause of your ties to others in the world. When you come running back to me, I wont be there for you. I warned you too much sorry for your loss...
Fox News Is A Joke

United States

#131 Sep 19, 2013
HopeFloats wrote:
Right what goes around sometimes if you get lucky or blessed goes back to them like a boomerang.If my situation goes to court I will be more then spilling my guts to the high heavens about their secret lives ,lust,and greed. They might have half a million sitting in banks,but this isn't about me its about my kids and I will not tolerate a repeat for my kids.My fear is that my sibling may get their lover to kill me or my mother might get my dad to loose it and kill me before every things said and done.What ever it may be God will handle it in the very end.I might not can understand his reasoning sometimes ,but he has his reasons I'm sure. If my parents die before I do they will leave it all the the sibling and their child and most maybe my siblings lover cause after all it was my dads lover at one point too.Sick people,and they never intended to leave me a dime other then maybe a little piece of so called keep it in the family land.,And they know from my childhood and then up I would not want any part of. Now I'm left with nothing so go ahead leave it to them let it be doped up like a lot of it thus far. All because I was second born and the opposite sex and nothing like any other member of my family.Those of you who have turned against me wait your turn your just being used, like I told you for years they never liked you.They are only in with you now cause of your ties to others in the world. When you come running back to me, I wont be there for you. I warned you too much sorry for your loss...
lmfao
roni

Clifton, NJ

#132 Sep 19, 2013
sue-elkhorn wrote:
Has anyone ever had there family turn against them without justification?
It feels like a knife in your back. Yo feel so much hate and hurt at the same time. Just wondering am I alone in this?
No you're not alone.
Forty Years in the Hole

Livonia, MI

#133 Sep 24, 2013
I have been the babysitting grandmom for the last something years, putting off my own job which I quit for my daughters so they could finish college and get their lives going. Never got paid for my services or expenses. Raised their children like they were my own. Now they don't talk to me cause I couldn't make it to my granddaughter's graduation for the one daughter, and tried to make accommodation to celebrate in another manner at a later date, which was rejected. And the other daughter called me screaming calling me every name in the book for taking her children out to lunch while she was at work. She knew about it. Then tried to make amends by calling me talking to me like I'm a child and using her children as pawns, if I ever want to see them again. Being a single mom raising them, and now they shut the door in my face. forty+ years wasted. For What!
TheFredster

Thetford Mines, Canada

#134 Nov 3, 2013
Try Believing God. reading the Bible. Letting the Holy spirit Guide you. And preach like Jesus did.Then wait for the fun to begin!! ALL in you family will be against you probably, and you will be labeld a mental case. Jesus' own mother did that. SO what else is new.
TheFredster

Thetford Mines, Canada

#135 Nov 3, 2013
I am trying to be a good Christian myself and I am going through my children telling me I am negative. My wife telling me I am negative and going from one fight to another with her. TIME STOP SPEAKING THE THE Truth. People don't want it. If you dont want to be a loner LIE!!!
or get some spiritual guts and pray hard for strenghth. God will be there for you when they all leave!
chang

Seaford, Australia

#137 Nov 25, 2013
roni wrote:
<quoted text>
No you're not alone.
You are not alone
maria binnie

Auckland, New Zealand

#138 Nov 27, 2013
for the lulz wrote:
<quoted text> pics or it never happened!
yes me too my whole family stand by my abuser (my mother i know hard to beleive but true) and even my child as i remembered about it all too late she already had her hooks in her. Just my partner now and i love him with all the love i had for them as well its all for him now. but does the sadness ever go i guess not
I feel your pain

Jacksonville, FL

#139 Dec 25, 2013
I am 56 and my brother and his wife stopped talking to me and told me they don't want to associate with me anymore. It hurts and I found myself apologizing when I am not even sure what I did to make them so angry. And then after a while I decided to stop trying and not allow their behavior to torture me any further. It is what I think of as intolerable cruelty and when I did try to reach out all I got back was hateful abusive anger. Anger masks pain so they are hurting but I will not be abused by anyone. I have had many people turn against me lately and I really don't know why but I do know that I am a good person, and that God loves me, my husband and my children love me and anyone else who loves me after that is just what I call gravy on the potatoes or icing on the cake. As long as my husband and kids are okay then the rest of it really does not matter. Don't turn yourself inside out trying to make people who don't appreciate you or want you in their lives. It is just not worth the effort or the pain. Walk away. I know I tried and I know I reached out numerous times. So I have no regrets.
reverend dale

Regina, Canada

#140 Jan 1, 2014
T-cuz wrote:
I learned that everyone that comes in you life, is not meant to be in your life. some are to bring you down so you can be at their level of misery. family is the most people who do these things. my cousin hurt me so bad, and then cut me off. he play the victime, but i learned from my mistake of letting family members treat me like im their clucth. remember what god told abraham, get from among you people. he told him this because he knew his people would be the ones to stop his blessing, and keep his mind away from god. place all your love in god, put him first. then you will get the love you deserve.
You are so right. My family turned against me, my husband and my children. They said terrible lies and were so vicious. It hurt me so deeply however I have clung to God and I am slowly moving past the deep hurt.
reverend dale

Regina, Canada

#141 Jan 1, 2014
I feel your pain wrote:
I am 56 and my brother and his wife stopped talking to me and told me they don't want to associate with me anymore. It hurts and I found myself apologizing when I am not even sure what I did to make them so angry. And then after a while I decided to stop trying and not allow their behavior to torture me any further. It is what I think of as intolerable cruelty and when I did try to reach out all I got back was hateful abusive anger. Anger masks pain so they are hurting but I will not be abused by anyone. I have had many people turn against me lately and I really don't know why but I do know that I am a good person, and that God loves me, my husband and my children love me and anyone else who loves me after that is just what I call gravy on the potatoes or icing on the cake. As long as my husband and kids are okay then the rest of it really does not matter. Don't turn yourself inside out trying to make people who don't appreciate you or want you in their lives. It is just not worth the effort or the pain. Walk away. I know I tried and I know I reached out numerous times. So I have no regrets.
I had to let all of my unhealthy family members go and walk away. It hurt a lot and I am still grieving however, I am free from all of their hate. They are stuck in their own misery however the Lord has lifted me up out of a horrible pit.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#142 Jan 2, 2014
Share, parts of my family did me the same way when the bank went broke. Since the bank is no longer broke, I am now getting invited to parties and family gettogethers. I knew what the problem was from the very beginning. I stopped the cash flow and their drug flow stopped.

Oh well, yep it is pretty deep, I have not been to a party yet. Three years is a long time for their guilt trip at me. I think I will give them three years too.
Gwen

Freeport, IL

#143 Jan 16, 2014
sue-elkhorn wrote:
Has anyone ever had there family turn against them without justification?
It feels like a knife in your back. Yo feel so much hate and hurt at the same time. Just wondering am I alone in this?
Oh yes,my siblings, when "Our" mother passed, I'm not a "materialistic" person, but (they were),when it came time to go through her things, talk about thirsty,they actually thought I would be upset at the fact that they had pretty much "took" what they wanted, and because they "didn't get the reaction, "they expected" from me, all Hell broke loose, yes, I was upset, but,I wasn't going to give them the satisfaction, I figure I'd let them live with the "Guilt of their actions", of knowing, that it could never be said that "Gwen was causing "Drama", and being "Selfish", during a time of Grieving, To this very day, they know they were wrong and they have to Live with it, "Greed" is a very UGLY thing, and I'm so "Grateful", that it's them that turned against me (for whatever reason),and not me against them,because,when you die you can't take those things with you,(material things), and every time they look at me knowing the "Christian" mother we all shared,,I laugh inside because, I know they feel the "Shame", of their betrayal, and actions and at the end of the day,I Forgive Them.
Gwen

Freeport, IL

#144 Jan 16, 2014
Oh yes, When our mother passed, my siblings decided, they were going to make some "decisions without me",(which is fine, I guess), but, this was concerning her belongings, they decided what they were going to keep and gave others (relatives) what they chose to give them without discussing these tings with me, well when I finally got to mom's house, there wasn't much left,(yes I was upset) but you really can't miss what didn't belong to you in the first place ya know?, but, our mo had just passed, they weren't going to get a reaction out of me,(something they normally would have) didn't happen, I felt like, they had to live the rest of their lives "knowing" they had betrayed me, of our "Christian" mother's things, they had to wonder every time they talked to me, if "I Forgave", them, if still "Loved" them, if "other people knew",(my friends) about how they did me,Yes God is a "Forgiving God" but,when they look at the items the 3 of them divided amongst themselves and others without me there do they reall get any enjoyment out of them,,I doubt it "I Laugh Inside" when I speak or see my brother and my sisters, I know our mother is watching over us, and the "Shame" they must feel for the "Greed" they displayed at her passing,, I am so "Grateful" I didn't react, and they have to lie with the "Guilt of their behavior",,I Forgive them, no they haven't asked for it,(I know they want to), but I do.
Steph

Hummelstown, PA

#146 Feb 25, 2014
TheFredster wrote:
I am trying to be a good Christian myself and I am going through my children telling me I am negative. My wife telling me I am negative and going from one fight to another with her. TIME STOP SPEAKING THE THE Truth. People don't want it. If you dont want to be a loner LIE!!!
or get some spiritual guts and pray hard for strenghth. God will be there for you when they all leave!

I love that post you just put!! "If you want to be a loner, lie". Isn't that the truth!!!

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#147 Feb 25, 2014
Omy family does turn and when It does the person who turns first normally starts the lies and the stories.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#148 Feb 28, 2014
Princess412 wrote:
Omy family does turn and when It does the person who turns first .
Steph wrote:
<quoted text>
I love that post you just put!! "If you want to be a loner, lie". Isn't that the truth!!!
These are both true!
gwen

United States

#149 Mar 19, 2014
I am going through that right now. I use to work for my aunt and uncle. While i worked my aunt had friends of hers come in to harass me because she wanted her other relative marissa to take my place. I have not spoken to them in two years because after i quit (because i was told if i dont smile more i was going to be fired) aunt peg told everyone one i stole from her. Its pretty hard finding a job when your entire family sabatoges you. Crappy part is they do it just because they enjoy it.

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