family that turns against you

family that turns against you

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sue-elkhorn

Winchester, KY

#1 Feb 7, 2010
Has anyone ever had there family turn against them without justification?
It feels like a knife in your back. Yo feel so much hate and hurt at the same time. Just wondering am I alone in this?
no your not

Hindman, KY

#2 Feb 7, 2010
ive been going threw that 2 today
it sucks
Yes

Clarksville, TN

#3 Feb 7, 2010
Usually there is a reason. Take a step back and look at your self, the things you have said or not said, the things you have done or not done. Sometimes it is best to wipe your hands and move on rather than be hurt by them over again. If you feel you have done nothing wrong than let it go and move on. Good Luck : )
no your not

Hindman, KY

#4 Feb 7, 2010
thats just what ive done
you too
thanks
Alisha

Concord, NC

#5 Mar 4, 2010
My ex and I broke up, and he called every single person I knew to try and turn them against me.
My own aunt did, and then some of my cousins, and a few of my friends... but the reason was that he was lying to them and playing against the truth. Yes it hurt me real bad, and Im still dealing with this today. NOBODY should do this to anybody, and I wouldnt wish this on my enemy! But the fact is, some people believe anything they hear. Its a cold world when ur own family goes against you!!!
T-cuz

Saint Peters, MO

#6 May 26, 2010
i know how you feel, I had a cousin that i went out my way for. He knew i did things to keep the love in my family. he only talked to me to get the things he wanted, and when he was through, he let me go. its strange hoe your own family have no love in their hearts. the best things you can do is forgive them, and never accept them back in your live to hurt you. let god deal with people like that. you reap what u sow.
T-cuz

Saint Peters, MO

#7 May 26, 2010
I learned that everyone that comes in you life, is not meant to be in your life. some are to bring you down so you can be at their level of misery. family is the most people who do these things. my cousin hurt me so bad, and then cut me off. he play the victime, but i learned from my mistake of letting family members treat me like im their clucth. remember what god told abraham, get from among you people. he told him this because he knew his people would be the ones to stop his blessing, and keep his mind away from god. place all your love in god, put him first. then you will get the love you deserve.
well

Pikeville, KY

#8 May 26, 2010
my family turned their back on me when I was a young girl, not because of what I did but what someone else did I was sent to live with relatives and didn't get close to my brother & sister so I was and I am still the shit on black sheep outcast, I know all to well how you feel no matter what happens or what they do may not surprise you but it hurts every time nonetheless but eventually the hurt starts to fade away. I am in my mid 30's and am just now getting to where I don't care. I do feel bad for you because I live it everyday but don't let them break you, that is what they want. I don't want anything special from them, I just wish they would treat me with respect and act like they care sometimes. God Bless you and I truly hope things work out for you.
outta Pville

United States

#9 May 26, 2010
sue-elkhorn wrote:
Has anyone ever had there family turn against them without justification?
It feels like a knife in your back. Yo feel so much hate and hurt at the same time. Just wondering am I alone in this?
This happens in more families then what is known. I know this isn't much encouragement, but you're not alone. I've no idea if there is or isn't a support group for black sheep. There should be. I could have used one because in a family of stern, foot washing Republican Baptists, I am the one who is a Buddist, Independent, liberal, gay, vegetarian. At least I add color. I haven't spoken to anyone in my family for decades. Quite frankly, I don't miss thier condemnation. There is no way I can live by thier standards so I must live by my own. I am happy and I hope they are as well.
for the lulz

Georgetown, KY

#10 May 26, 2010
sue-elkhorn wrote:
Has anyone ever had there family turn against them without justification?
It feels like a knife in your back. Yo feel so much hate and hurt at the same time. Just wondering am I alone in this?
stop whining and grow a backbone! this is pike county! we roll hard!

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Mount Sterling, KY

#11 May 26, 2010
for the lulz wrote:
<quoted text> stop whining and grow a backbone! this is pike county! we roll hard!
I personaling think YOU HAVE NO CLUE WHAT THIS FEELING IS ALL ABOUT. I do,I am in my 50's and have LOST MY MOTHER AND MY ONLY CHILD and have several family members THAT HAS USED ME AND ABUSED ME but "NO MORE". It hearts but and I think about it a lot, but there comes a time you are better off to "JUST LET IT GO" When there is nothing you can do. "JUST THANK GOD I DO STILL HAVE MY WIFE". Sorry If you don't understand, NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE OR MEAN TO YOU IN NO WAY.
Strange

Mount Sterling, KY

#12 May 26, 2010
for the lulz wrote:
<quoted text> stop whining and grow a backbone! this is pike county! we roll hard!
Just strange we both have the same address on here but I AM NOT FROM GEORGETOWN, I AM FROM RIGHT HERE IN THE PIKEVILLE AREA.
for the lulz

Georgetown, KY

#17 May 27, 2010
Not You wrote:
<quoted text> I personaling think YOU HAVE NO CLUE WHAT THIS FEELING IS ALL ABOUT. I do,I am in my 50's and have LOST MY MOTHER AND MY ONLY CHILD and have several family members THAT HAS USED ME AND ABUSED ME but "NO MORE". It hearts but and I think about it a lot, but there comes a time you are better off to "JUST LET IT GO" When there is nothing you can do. "JUST THANK GOD I DO STILL HAVE MY WIFE". Sorry If you don't understand, NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE OR MEAN TO YOU IN NO WAY.
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writing

La NucĂ­a, Spain

#18 May 29, 2010
On my late 30s and I have been living abroad and away from my family for 15 years. I came back to my home country home 2 years ago and since then my mothers partner with whom I didn;t get on well started being rude with me and my partner and I started telling so to my mother. And then when my mother hispartner what I said he had done he started telling my mother and later on the rest of the family that I was trying to separte him from my mother. I was very very upset to hear that and even more when my mother and her 2 sisters seemed to believed this guy's lies. I went mad at my mother because she had been brain washed and it made things even worst. It has been a terrible year but I have learnt that my family are very weak and they believe that I could do such a thing. They obviously don't know how I am and that it just is not in my nature to behave that way. Thanks to my partner and friends whom have been supporting me about this situation I came down and forgive them (somehow) in my heart but it has open a new vision in life for me. Never thought this could happened to me. You just have to take care of yourself and have lots of friends and love.
you people

Elkview, WV

#19 May 29, 2010
amaze me!!! If the same person hurts you more than once, it is your OWN fault. I understand kids have no choice, but young adults and older do. Pick yourself up and get on with life, feeling bad about yourself or your situation will not help you.Some of you just want pity, you will not find it here.Look around i am sure you can find people in worst situations/conditions. Help yourself by helping others, i promise you will feel better.
horse

Ivel, KY

#20 May 29, 2010
I'm not from pikeville but I am in the same situation! I had to get a new car because mime was all the time breaking down! So I got a new 2008 Dodge Nitro and I go back and forth to Lexington with my daughter cause she is sickly! Well, now all my brothers and sisters are mad because I got it and I haul their a#*'s around also, but they r mad at me! I really hate being the baby of my family! I wish I was an only child!
lmao

Georgetown, KY

#21 May 31, 2010
whats that old west virginia saying? "a family that sleeps together stays together"
tina

United States

#22 May 31, 2010
I hate morons wrote:
<quoted text>Quit your g*d*am pissing and moaning! WHo cares how you feel? You need to grow up and get over it. F*** them if they don't want to treat you like family. DOn't let them have the satisfaction of letting them know that they hurt you. And about your people passing away; you can't bring back the dead and no amount of crying and whining is going to bring them back. Get over it and move on! Most of all, don't air your stupid f***ing laundry on the internet! You fool!
If you had any kind of heart you would know that when someone is killed or passes away in your family you never get over it and move on..You think about them everyday and learn how to keep living but you NEVER GET OVER IT!! So before you say something as cold as that think before you speak!! Glad I don't know you because you are a very terrible person for even thinking like that..Better hope you never find out how it feels!!
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Ransom, KY

#23 Jun 2, 2010
THIS IS TO I HATE MORONS . I CANT BELIVE YOU GOT THE NERVE TO CALL THESE PPL MORONS . I WAS OUTCASTED BY MY FAMILY AND IT DAMM WELL DOES HURT AND FOR YOU TO MAKE COMMENTS LIKE YOU HAVE TO THESE PPL YOU NEED TO GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS DISCUSSION AND STAY OUT. IM SORRY TO YOU PPL THAT WE DO HAVE ASSHOLES LIKE HIM/HER LIVING IN PIKEVILLE.I HOPE YOU ALL CAN WORK PAST YOUR FAMILYS DOING THIS TO YOU AND LIVE A LONG WONDERFUL LIFE.GOD BLESS EVERY ONE OF YOU
russellmuscle1

Elkhorn City, KY

#24 Jun 2, 2010
I think most of us can relate to you, or know somebody who can. My mother has the worst, most skanky family ever! My mother married a man who worked hard and built up a business from nothing, and wanted to give his wife and children a good life. He sacrificed his free time and family time to establish his practice. My mothers family treat her like she owes them something, like she's an outsider and like she could never do enough to please them. They are angry with her for having more than they do. I've seen her so hurt many times, like when she purchased a present for her elderly father only to have it stolen by her brother! My mother isn't "allowed" to even express being upset without her sister bullying up on her. I'd love to kick that old toothless bitches ass! I could go on all day and tell you much more, but obviously I don't have the time or space.
Nobody in her entire family has EVER come to visit me, they didn't even come to my wedding or send me a card! I've never even got to know my cousins who I always wanted a relationship with. I don't care for a relationship with them now, because they've grown to be as trashy as their parents. They probably wouldn't come to my funeral. I hope the kids don't end up on welfare like thier parents, I hope they get out of the hollers but beyond that I really don't care what happens to that heathen trash!

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