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Concerned Mother

Mount Morris, NY

#1 Dec 22, 2011
As a single mother, I do everything in my power to take care of, and keep my kids safe. I love them, hold them, encourage, and disipline them. I talk to them about the dangers of the world. Always watch for cars, ALWAYS just say no, and never ever go anywhere with strangers. I teach them the values I want them to carry forth in their lives, be kind to each other, respect yourself, leave things better than you found them, and for heaven's sake EDUCATE YOURSELF! I changed my life, my actions, my values, my whole person, to become a responsible parent. I gave up all of my old friends, old behaviors, my job and my entire lifestyle. I was TRANSFORMED, into a mommy. To me this means putting my children first, before my own problems or feelings. I am a great mother, I know this. My children love me and feel safe in our home. They are clean, fed and dressed everyday, these are the things I have chosen to do with my life.
So how is it that thier sperm donor, who is in jail this time for breaking the order of protection; which was put in place because he couldn't keep his hands to himself even in front of our children, gets ANY say in their little lives? He wasn't transformed, he hasn't changed, he doesn't even send letters to his children, he never made visiting with them a priority. On their last visit with him, he took them to a bar! Honestly his only motivation seems to be how far he can push me before I snap. How is it that this man can somehow manipulate things, lie about everything (right down to his address), and play a whole courtroom for fools? My babies are terrified of him, he screams and yells, he parents from fear, that is just his way, he sees nothing wrong with it, and does not plan on changing it. My son is on 3 differnt medications for anxiety and ptsd. He was recently diagnosed with a dissociation disorder (he pretends things that are happening aren't real, esp if he is scared or anxious.) He has nightmares from the days when his daddy used to throw us around like ragdolls. He is only 7 years old. There are police reports and emails, taped phone calls, letters from my kids' therapist saying that he is detrimental to thier emotional wellbeing. Just by being alive. He drives like a maniac with the kids in the car, he doesn't even make them wear a seatbelt. I don't feel like my kids are safe when they are with him. He is irresponsible and mean, he thinks that he is above the rules, and he doesn't pay attention to the kids when they are there. My kids were left out in the snow for almost 4 hours, when his girlfriend kicked them all out of her house because he put his hands on her. Yes, Tim Hill is a choker, he loves to try and choke the life out of people. I even have a letter from her, stating that my little girl would just pee as soon as he walked into the room, out of fear. Kaitlyn is 3.
Now, he has been in jail for 8 months. Our life has been amazing. The kids and I have been healing and putting the past behind us. I am trying to give my angels more than I had in life. I want them to see how humans love each other, I don't want them to learn hateful things, and selfish ways. I am trying with everything in me, to give them a better start than I had. I don't want them to continue the cycle of abuse and victimization, addiction and disease that runs rampant in both of our families.
SO how is it that Dennis Cohen, Livingston County judge continues to give him visitation? When we go to court it is like a circus. Everything I say is interrupted and Tim just puts out lie after lie. I understand that Fathers are VERY important to their children, but where do you draw the line? Wouldn't a positive male role model be more effective? What gives the state the right to tell me who is allowed to care for my children? Does something horrible have to happen to their actual physical body before anyone will do anything? Where do I go for help? I am frustrated beyond belief. Not to mention angry, sad, and afraid for my kids.
too concerned mother

AOL

#2 Feb 10, 2012
you think thats bad my cousin just went through what you did but much worse.Her ex just got sole custody of their daughter because the judge in geneseo doesnt care about the welfare of the chidren.This father sent his daughter a porn picture on her cell phone.The 9 year taped her father screaming at her thats hes going to kill her.the judge listened to it in court and said the father was stressed out it was alright that he said it to his daughter.This judge needs to be removed from his duties.My cousin is fighting to get her daughter back away from this physco.My cousin is trying to get a bunch of women together and go higher to help these women to get their kids back.She knows alot of women that lost custody of their kids because of cohen.Is there someway to contact you so i can give you her number.She has about 8 women that she knows about that their ex men won full custody and the mothers only got 2 hours a week supervised visitation.I bet when your ex gets out of jail if he takes you back to court for custody he will get it.Thats what cohen does.So if you want to talk to my cousin what happened to her in court let me know she can help.
fightback

Endicott, NY

#3 Feb 10, 2012
To concerned mother

send in a appeal and you can also report this judge here is were you will have to send it ...comission on judicial conduct...400 Andrew st...Suite 700...rochester ny 14604...there are many woman going threw same thing as you are ...the more reports the better chance him getting off the bench...one woman had a baby and the father did not want anything to do with that baby till she took him in for support ...then he filed custody and he won that baby went to a stranger if you think about it...This judge is a danger to our children...fight for your childrens rights ...tell your attorney you want to appeal it also that does not look good on judge
fightback

Endicott, NY

#4 Feb 12, 2012
to concerned mother can you get on and talk
fightback

Endicott, NY

#5 Feb 12, 2012
too concerned mother...judge cohen also gave custody to a father that was put away when he was younger for molesting his sisters and brothers ...then to top that dennis cohen called his wife at work told her do not go home and no contact with the kids at all...the following week she had court and she gets 2 hours a week supervised ...just because she had a boyfriend from when cohen made her move out 8 months before all this ...Dennis Cohen really need to be off the bench he is damaging these kids ...I sent a letter to first lady obama and she is trying to help get him off ...
fightback

Endicott, NY

#6 Feb 16, 2012
we as mothers fighting to keep our children safe need to all meet and go to news media on dennis cohen..I have lots to back up my story on why he took my daughter and sent her to a father who abuses her because as a child he was abused by his parents
fightback

Endicott, NY

#8 Feb 21, 2012
Mommys are you losing your children from a family court judge in livingston county...file a appeal to get him removed ...they have a appeal it is called poor person ...do it asap to help get your kids back and him off the bench
IMHO

Rochester, NY

#9 Mar 13, 2012
Dear Fightback...

Wonder why Concerned Mother hasn't replied or been on here? because she is back with her children's father-the one she reports to be all of evil. and people wonder why the Judges side the way they do...
fightback

Endicott, NY

#10 Mar 13, 2012
Oh really ...Do you know her?.I had another woman contact me today about this judge ..I know how this judge is i have dealt with him 2 times he is the most bias unfare man out there....it would be a shame if she is back with him after what she wrote...Oh well I know i am fighting for mine to come home ...mine is beoing abused daily and this judge said oh he is just stressed ok then he needs not to have her to damage her more...
IMHO

Rochester, NY

#11 Mar 17, 2012
Yes...sadly. She spouts all these accusations, tells friends & family to not let him know anything about her life and then gets back together with him. I don't understand...he'd touch my kids once and me half that.

Im not saying Judges are correct, Im just saying that a few like her, cry to the judge about all these bad things but then are right back with the guy...even breaking orders of protection she fought and demanded to have, that screw it up for all the legitimate claims like yours.

Good luck Fightback.
fightback

Endicott, NY

#12 Apr 28, 2012
I always thought it was against the law to lie in court under outh...Tim Sparks does it and nothing is said even when he is caught lieing..he lied in 2009 and again in 2011...I have transcripts to prove his lie and to prove he was told that he lied and they let him get away with it ...james lapiana was the best thing when he stopped practicing law ...he let kids get abused and the kids told him and he did nothing about it ...I also have proof on that then when he had to do his job he went back into 2 years earlier ...I can prove that also ...Got to love them transcripts they do not cost as much as lawyers tell you they do ...Just to let you know watch out for tim sparks he lies and he steals they told me at his place of work he stold and he loves to tell on every one becarefull
Traumatically Stressed

Rochester, NY

#13 Jul 7, 2012
You white women should just give up on white men, they obviously are only interested in children.
Find yourselves a black man and your life will be great.
the truth finder

Binghamton, NY

#14 Sep 23, 2012
dennis s cohen please tell the the mothers of livingston county what the price is to screw them and there children. when you sit on the bench ignor the evidence against the fathers and decide to make your own eveidence up. i heard there is a case where there is 2 transcripts of the same case but are different and there for the same date how many kids are being destroyed by you because you are biaes against some mothers how many kids are being abused by there fathers and you dont care. i heard there is a recording of an attorny who reuse to do his job cause he is afraid of what you will do to him if he won a mother's appeal. now i see why your marriage s dont work you think you are god but one day the real god will judge you unfairly like you do to some wonderful moters that you screwed
screwed by james lapiana

Binghamton, NY

#15 Sep 25, 2012
beware of this man he is badnews...the attorneys in livingston county said they were all glad to see him leave as a attorney...he got paid many times and did not do is job ...do not use him as a mediation he will screw you some how....have no idea how he is judge in mt morris ...maybe they do not know the things he has done it will all come ot one day
jasmine

White Plains, NY

#16 Nov 30, 2012
cohen is a disgrace to the legal system. He goes off record every 2 minutes to try and plan a way to screw a client. Its the good ole boys still in these small towns and he is not only the supreme court judge but the family court judge...just the way they screw you so you cant escape him! he likes to retain jurisdiction over cases so no other court can see is inproprieties!! and illegal acts!! the common man would believe hes lawful but he is as crooked as they come. He hates women because he's bitter cuz his wife left state with their kid! you cant blame her Id get as far away from him as I coulkd too!!
jasmine

White Plains, NY

#17 Nov 30, 2012
my friend is involved in a court case and this cohen judge doesnt even know her, but believes whatever her ex and exes lawyer says, this man has stalked, and planted ways to incriminate her and destroy her, noone care about her or her children, they just keep on slamming this poor woman with the help of this judge, i told her to take out a full size page or cover of her local newspaper or pennysaver and expose this small town coruption! never move to this county!
fight back

Dansville, NY

#18 Nov 30, 2012
jasmine wrote:
my friend is involved in a court case and this cohen judge doesnt even know her, but believes whatever her ex and exes lawyer says, this man has stalked, and planted ways to incriminate her and destroy her, noone care about her or her children, they just keep on slamming this poor woman with the help of this judge, i told her to take out a full size page or cover of her local newspaper or pennysaver and expose this small town coruption! never move to this county!
we all have gone threw this like your friend she needs to report this dennis cohen i have the address if she would like it...also the papers and stuff will not help her...the report is confidential ...I am going through same thing as 12 other woman i know
the fighter

Dansville, NY

#19 Nov 30, 2012
send reports about dennis cohen to this address

Robert H. Tembeckjian Administrator
Commission on Judicial Conduct
61 Broadway
New York Ny 10006

your report on how he acts goes in front of a board of 9 to 11

the more people who send a report the faster dennis cohen is removed if not he is in for 3 more years...when you send your report they will let you know they recived it and it is confidencial
the fighter

Dansville, NY

#20 Nov 30, 2012
whic wife left umbr 1 or 2 he is on his third and he has a handi cap daugher he has nothing to do with....people who know him says he has nothing to do with any of his kids
screwed by james lapiana

Dansville, NY

#21 Mar 3, 2013
to all you woman out there that dennis cohen took your kids...you all need to get together and file a class action law suit against him...then you wil have money to get good attorneys from monroe county or buffalo get your kids back...I would ot use any attorneys in livingston county no good

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