Suicide New Year's day
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mygirl08

Waterloo, IL

#1 Jan 5, 2012
Anybody know any news about the man that was found dead at his home Sunday?
wow

Quitman, AR

#2 Jan 5, 2012
All we can do is pray for his family and friends dealing with their time in sorrow. Let's show some respect to them and not make this just another one of these topix posts that everyone starts stuff on. He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. (Rest in Peace)
keep peace

United States

#3 Jan 10, 2012
First off I want to say everyone thinks everything is because of drugs. This WAS NOT.He was sick had cancer and he couldn't take it any more. Please let's make this a let's talk bad post. He had lots of family and friends that will truely miss him very much
So sad

Quitman, AR

#4 Jan 10, 2012
I agree with wow and keep peace, although, I didn't hear anyone mention anything about "drugs." He had cancer (as I have also heard), and was in a great deal of pain. My prayers are with the family who has to go through this pain and sorrow. Please, lets not make this a typical post (and you all know what that means).
mudpuppy

Greenville, MO

#5 Jan 11, 2012
Greatly missed by family maybe,,,,, Gladly missed by others..........
mygirl08

Saint Louis, MO

#6 Jan 12, 2012
mudpuppy wrote:
Greatly missed by family maybe,,,,, Gladly missed by others..........
I am so sorry I asked and started this blog because of ppl like you who has no conscious about the ppl who have passed and the family that is left behind. It is the family now that will have to endure and hopefully will not see this crap posted on topix. I am sorry that you may not have liked this person but please respect the family that was left behind and end this blogg now.
So sad

Vilonia, AR

#7 Jan 12, 2012
mygirl, I agree with you. It's terrible how people have no feelings and don't keep things to themselves. Funny part about it is, this person probably would have never said it to his face when he was alive, and now that he has passed (rip), he/she is saying things on topix. Somebody here needs to grow up. But, this post isn't about that person, so that is all I wanted to add about that. Again, prayers to the family during this hard time.
Amanda

Dallas, TX

#8 Jan 12, 2012
People like you make me sick. You would rather bash someone that is gone then like your own misorable life. The man that died may have made some mistakes in his life but he was more of a man then most in that sorry pathetic town. He will be missed by all that knew him for what he was.
little one

Greenbrier, AR

#9 Jan 12, 2012
every one at the onion factory misses him very very much
Who

Greenbrier, AR

#10 Jan 13, 2012
mudpuppy wrote:
Greatly missed by family maybe,,,,, Gladly missed by others..........
Who are you to make this unfeeling comment? Have you never experienced a sad event in your life? If you haven't, trust me you will. Then I wonder how you'll feel if people make remarks like the one you made on here. If you can't be supportive and uplifting to the loved ones of this person who has died, try not saying anything. We are all part of the family of man, especially in sad times. Apparently you are too shallow or callous to realize or understand this.
justsayin

Chesterfield, MO

#11 Jan 13, 2012
You never did say who it was. Why can't you all just answer the question
mygirl08

Saint Louis, MO

#12 Jan 13, 2012
justsayin wrote:
You never did say who it was. Why can't you all just answer the question
If you did not know who it was, then apparently you did not know him. Posting a name would probably only entice the disrespectful to further show their ignorance.
wow

Chicago, IL

#13 Jan 13, 2012
This is exactly what I thought was gonna happen that's why no names was mentioned.
mudpuppy

Greenville, MO

#14 Jan 13, 2012
The name is Toby Wilkes, and yes I do know him, I made no comment about the family and am entitled to my opinions, anytime something like this happens you always hear how great someone was and all that, why not hear the bad too? Not my fault he was a two timing back stabbing coon. All I got to say or will say,, dont like it oh well.
redneck

Ozark, MO

#15 Jan 13, 2012
yes he was a cheater but alot a people out does it all the time yes jackie he did cheat on you and he told me he was not gonna marry you he just was not ready im sorry that you are hurnting you need to know the truth
So sad

Vilonia, AR

#16 Jan 13, 2012
Everyone has faults. I am sure you yourself have made mistakes in your life as well. And I feel it really is the lowest of the low to mention someones faults that can't even defend themselves. And for mentioning things about their relationship is just disrespectful, and I am sure far from the truth. I do not know her, but did know him. I am not saying what he said was true or not, but for someone to come on here saying negative things, hoping for it to get to his girlfriend, I just wouldn't be able to trust the things they are saying. Funny how you say "sorry you are hurting" and then say "he wasn't going to marry you." Not very smart, as I can see. I really hope that his family and friends are looking past these few ignorant posts. Please, if you have nothing positive to say, don't say anything at all. Yes, everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but please use your heads alittle and think about how they must feel reading these posts. I guess karma will get back to you.
So sad

Vilonia, AR

#17 Jan 13, 2012
Mygirl- I think the best thing at this point would be to close the post (if possible). All you are obviously going to get is ignorant people, as you can see. Those who know him, know what happened. Now you also know what happened. It's tragic. This happening to anyone is tragic.
mygirl08

Saint Louis, MO

#19 Jan 17, 2012
So sad wrote:
Mygirl- I think the best thing at this point would be to close the post (if possible). All you are obviously going to get is ignorant people, as you can see. Those who know him, know what happened. Now you also know what happened. It's tragic. This happening to anyone is tragic.
Tell me how to close a post. I did not know this could be done or I would have done it days ago. Thanks
So sad

Conway, AR

#20 Jan 17, 2012
mygirl,

I am not completely sure how to close a post, but I am sure it's possible. I will try and find out, and will get back to you :)
Sadly

United States

#21 Jan 27, 2012
Yes it was well known that he was cheating with whoever he could when he could, yes it was well known that he wasn't going to marry jackie, yes it was well known that he was living off her. Had to dangle that carrot as he had no other place to go tho. A man backed into a corner has few choices. As for drugs, last time i checked alcohol was a drug to. Toby was a raging alcoholic who had lost everything...job, family, self-esteem, and finally his health in the past two years. Was this such a big shock?? Major depression can be masked. He used a smile and a joke. everyone running around flapping their arms asking "why?". Pretty sure it was known quite awhile ago that he had destroyed his health with alcohol and that cancer was the next thing. It's sad that those closest to him did not attempt to get him help for his addiction. He just couldn't deal with the emotional and physical pain or all that he had lost any longer. Yes, he made one terrible decision after another which have affected many people. We all make mistakes tho. This is so very sad. Maybe he has found some peace and is no longer in pain.

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