My daughter is mad at me and won't let me see my grandson

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wonder

United States

#1 Aug 21, 2011
My daughter got mad at me and is punishing me by not allowing me to see my grandson . Do you think it is right to use my grandson against me for punishment ?
Really

United States

#2 Aug 21, 2011
Depends. What did you do? Is she Mad at you for something you did to her son? Or put you at risk to hurting her son? You can't leave the story out there and not tell us why she's mad. You could have hit him and have every right NOT to see him
none

United States

#3 Aug 21, 2011
File for grandparents rights if u can prove that ur grandchild needs u and will benefit from visits u could have a case.
Yuiup

Chicago, IL

#4 Aug 21, 2011
Who cares about your silly ass pathetic problems. The snot nosed little bastard don't need you
john

Asheville, NC

#5 Aug 21, 2011
wonder wrote:
My daughter got mad at me and is punishing me by not allowing me to see my grandson . Do you think it is right to use my grandson against me for punishment ?
i agree with really, you need to tell why.
Just wondering

United States

#6 Aug 21, 2011
Put it on Topix!! You'll get some nice responses! Solves all my problems
john

Asheville, NC

#7 Aug 21, 2011
Yuiup wrote:
Who cares about your silly ass pathetic problems. The snot nosed little bastard don't need you
oh yuiup stick your head in the toilet twice & come up once you inbread mf piece of crap. think about what you say first.
wonder

Saint Louis, MO

#8 Aug 21, 2011
The reason has nothing at all to do with my grandson . She is mad over something I said and it was not even about her , it was about her husbands mom who was rude to me and I spoke up for myself .
john

Asheville, NC

#9 Aug 21, 2011
wonder wrote:
The reason has nothing at all to do with my grandson . She is mad over something I said and it was not even about her , it was about her husbands mom who was rude to me and I spoke up for myself .
stand up for yourself, if not you'll get run over every time. your daughter should not put your grandson in the middle good luck i've been there.
bunch of bull

United States

#10 Aug 22, 2011
The grandchildren should not ever be put in the middle and used . If those kids are used to seeing you then they should not be taken away . They are humans not property . The parents should be ashamed .
Getyousome

United States

#11 Aug 22, 2011
Maybe you need to shut your stupid mouth and I would let you see your grandchild. You were a terrible mother and you need help
Dude

Saint Louis, MO

#12 Aug 22, 2011
Getyousome wrote:
Maybe you need to shut your stupid mouth and I would let you see your grandchild. You were a terrible mother and you need help
If your mother was not a good mother for you do not let your child suffer becasue of how you feel. Your child most likely lovers their grandmother very much. You are punishing your child more then your mother. So you are not being any better then she was. You are even being worse then she was.
wonder

United States

#13 Aug 22, 2011
I don't know who you are referring too but I was a very good mother . I raised 3 girls on my own and had a very good close relationship until the other mother in law started interfering .She is the problem . She is very jealous and does every thing in her power to be hateful and I just had enough and spoke up . So now I am the bad person for not just turning the other cheek .
Really

Fort Wayne, IN

#14 Aug 22, 2011
A child should NEVER under any circumstances should be put in the middle like that. Using a child as a defense mechanism is wrong! Your daughter should be embarrassed for the way she's acting. She should put her listening ears on before making a mountain out of a mow hill. Let her get mad in the same pants she got glad in. She will eventually come around and speak to you gradually. Then bring that to the table and explain. Then explain what she was doing is wrong. And tell her why. I'm not a parent but I was raised to know better. My mother never under any circumstances put me in the middle of her situations or used me as a defense mechanism. I was always put first. Good luck.
Really

Fort Wayne, IN

#15 Aug 22, 2011
Really wrote:
A child should NEVER under any circumstances should be put in the middle like that. Using a child as a defense mechanism is wrong! Your daughter should be embarrassed for the way she's acting. She should put her listening ears on before making a mountain out of a mow hill. Let her get mad in the same pants she got glad in. She will eventually come around and speak to you gradually. Then bring that to the table and explain. Then explain what she was doing is wrong. And tell her why. I'm not a parent but I was raised to know better. My mother never under any circumstances put me in the middle of her situations or used me as a defense mechanism. I was always put first. Good luck.
And in not the same Really as above. Thought I'd point that out.
terry w.

Saint Louis, MO

#16 Aug 22, 2011
Mow hills can be pretty steep.
Da Boss

Thiensville, WI

#17 Aug 23, 2011
wonder wrote:
I don't know who you are referring too but I was a very good mother . I raised 3 girls on my own and had a very good close relationship until the other mother in law started interfering .She is the problem . She is very jealous and does every thing in her power to be hateful and I just had enough and spoke up . So now I am the bad person for not just turning the other cheek .
Everyone can tell you what they think but it solves nothing. If you want to just get comfort that you are not the bad guy the read away and be at peace without seeing your grandchild.

If you want this solved, apoligize to your daughter, explain how hurt you are and ask that she act like it never happened. avoid the other mother as much as possible. Your daughter holds the cards and can do as she sees fit, right or wrong, that is the game you have to play.

And don't take family matters to trial on topix.
sam

Saint Louis, MO

#18 Aug 23, 2011
I think what we really need to do is get the mother-in-law and daughter on here. That way we could really resolve this issue
guest

Sikeston, MO

#19 Sep 12, 2011
wonder wrote:
The reason has nothing at all to do with my grandson . She is mad over something I said and it was not even about her , it was about her husbands mom who was rude to me and I spoke up for myself .
That's stupid she will finally get over u have very right to c him giver her some (no matter how long it has been) n call her n a week or two I know that sounds bad but give her some time n hopefully she will come around

Hope everything works out for u
guest

Jackson, MO

#20 Sep 23, 2011
Jerry Springer-Topix Edition

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