Since: Oct 12

Kansas City, MO

#1 Mar 3, 2013
Is there a group or someone in perryville that is really into this and looking for someoneto pparticipate with them

United States

#2 Mar 3, 2013
Are you m/f

Since: Oct 12

Prairie Village, KS

#3 Mar 3, 2013
F/m married he can play alone but I would like him to b there when I do it we r new to it and want to try it

United States

#4 Mar 4, 2013
I am a male that is somewhat subdbmerged in bdsm. There isn't much for clubs/groups here, there are a few in cape but most not willing to host. I would be willing to meet both of you and show you what I dabble in. I am not into male on male but have no problem him being a voyeur

“Think for yourself.”

Since: Dec 12


#5 Mar 8, 2013
There are several orginized groups in the SEMO area as well as St. Louis and Southern Illinois area.
Finding one of these orginized groups is not hard for those really interested, just contact someone who is knowledgable of these groups.

The originized groups provide training and support for those interested in different aspects of alternative lifestyles.
Orginized groups also network with other groups and are a resource for new people.

Orginized groups also hold events intended for active BDSM lifestyle persons to attend. Some large events with hundreds of attendees and some events such as private parties invite only. Routine social events are held in public locations for BDSM lifestylers to meet new people and answer questions and to socialize with each other in a Vanilla atmosphere.

The main thing to remember is Safe - Sane - Consentual.
When finidng compatable play partners do not just take whatever comes along. Quality over quantity, there are many posers out there who actually do not know shit about what they are wanting to do.
That is why orginized groups network.

Ever since 'Fifty Shades of Grey' trilogy came out there has been a greater interest in the BDSM lifestyle.

Best of luck searching for someone to contact about the BDSM lifestyle and orginized groups that are all around you.

Since: Jan 13

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#6 Mar 8, 2013
There are dozens of websites to meet other likeminded people with similar interest.

One of the most popular websites has over 24,000 profiles from Missouri & Illinois alone. Just in Southeast Missouri 300 profiles. In St. Louis alone over 600 profiles.

Try checking out 25 websites of the BDSM interest you have and see what you think of each one.

Create a porn email account and use that email to collect the spam mail you are going to receive after joining each one of the sites. You do not want your everyday email account to be bombarded with adult oriented spam.

Finding a perfect match is damn near impossible but has been done.
Finding a match that comes very close to your needs is pretty common.
Just remember that when discussing your goals with other play partners you also have to consider their goals. It is curtious and can make everyone participating more than satisfied in the end.

As long as you and your spouse are communicating your needs and desires and goals openly with each other you should have the most exciting time of your life.

My motto is 'do not focus on the destination but rather enjoy the journey'.

Mount Vernon, MO

#8 May 5, 2013
I am interested in learning more about this lifestyle myself. Already enjoy bondage, spankings and toys .... would love to try being a submissive

Since: Jan 13

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#9 May 5, 2013
Anonymous wrote:
I am interested in learning more about this lifestyle myself. Already enjoy bondage, spankings and toys .... would love to try being a submissive
Try contacting one of the organized BDSM groups in your area.
You can contact one of their members for more information about where and when they meet.

Best of luck finding what you are looking for.
Isaac Bickerstaff

Oran, MO

#10 May 8, 2013
So all one would have to do is click on the email icon next to your name and a person could ask a member about meetings or events in the area?

Since: Jan 13

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#11 May 8, 2013
Might be a place to start.
new to town

United States

#13 Jun 2, 2013
So what is this? Maybe I would like to join in?
divorce sux

United States

#14 Jun 3, 2013
new to town wrote:
So what is this? Maybe I would like to join in?
Go to ur own town you are still married

Since: Jan 13

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#15 Jun 5, 2013
divorce sux wrote:
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Go to ur own town you are still married
BDSM works best for married couples.
Typically it is the wife that introduces the husband to it.

“"The Vindictive Vampire"”

Since: Jan 10

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#16 Jun 6, 2013
Other way around in my case snapper!

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