Kris Merritt- PERVERT ALERT! HELP!!!!!

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southern

United States

#1 Jun 12, 2012
My friend is dating an older man named Kris Merritt. My friend just turned 18 and Kris Merritt is almost 40 years old. Im worried about my friend because Kris has been married to the same woman for 20 years, has 2 teenagers with his wife, and my friend is only 3 years older than his oldest child is. I feel like he is taking advantage of my friend because she didnt have much of a father and shes needing a father figure in her life. Ive heard Kris is and has always been abusive and very controlling to his wife and also that he has cheated on his wife alot of times before, and I heard that he was even fired from a couple of jobs before because of sexual misconduct. I feel really sorry for his wife and children for having him as a husband and father. This scares me. Does anyone know him or have any opinions about him or advice that I can share with my friend so that she can see why Im so concerned about her and what shes getting herself into? My opinion is that hes an abusive controlling selfish old pervert whos taking advantage of my friend, but my friend just thinks Im jealous because she has an older man and because he tells her he loves her so much that he left his wife of 20 years and his own children to be with her. He has her brainwashed already!
Pimp Daddy Fantastique

Cantonment, FL

#2 Jun 12, 2012
Tel est l'amour, elle est une adulte maintenant, et vous ne pouvez rien dire ou faire ne l'arrętera si elle est en amour...
Merritt

United States

#3 Jun 13, 2012
Yes he was arrested for criminal mischief in 1999. House foreclosed on in 2011. Overall, no morals or scruple. I'd stay away
southern

Hollywood, FL

#4 Jun 13, 2012
Merritt wrote:
Yes he was arrested for criminal mischief in 1999. House foreclosed on in 2011. Overall, no morals or scruple. I'd stay away
i think your talking about one of his twin brothers that I found in the pervert list maybe? I dont think this Kris Merritt has a criminal record just a record of being a sorry husband to his wife

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#5 Jun 13, 2012
He sounds like a nasty wh*re. Hope your friend wisens up before she's tainted.
Merrit

United States

#6 Jun 13, 2012
Was his wife's name Ashley? If it is-it's the same dirtbag. Even if it's not, what does this guy think he's gonna get by seducing an 18 year old girl. When he tires of her and discards her, she's libel to go medeavil on his ass. He sounds like a guy that likes to play with fire. Most men who would dump their wife and family for some 18 year old hottie have insecurity issues. Sad for his family and for the 18 year old young woman. Karma is a bitch
southern

Quincy, FL

#7 Jun 14, 2012
I feel sorry for his kids and wife way more than I do my friend whom he's already living with. She's really blind to what she's doing. He tells her how great he is and how he was only with his wife because she was sick and talks a lot of trash about his wife and pretends like he is the only one who works and all when his wife has a daycare at their home because people tell me he won't allow her to work outside the home and he only buys her cars that barely run, knowing she does all of the driving the kids around on donuts for tires, no air conditioning, chunks of junk and he's always drives nice newer cars like he's the shit. My friend dont believe me when I try to tell her about him! She takes up for this pedafile. He so has her brainwashed!
Merrit

United States

#8 Jun 14, 2012
southern wrote:
I feel sorry for his kids and wife way more than I do my friend whom he's already living with. She's really blind to what she's doing. He tells her how great he is and how he was only with his wife because she was sick and talks a lot of trash about his wife and pretends like he is the only one who works and all when his wife has a daycare at their home because people tell me he won't allow her to work outside the home and he only buys her cars that barely run, knowing she does all of the driving the kids around on donuts for tires, no air conditioning, chunks of junk and he's always drives nice newer cars like he's the shit. My friend dont believe me when I try to tell her about him! She takes up for this pedafile. He so has her brainwashed!
Well tell her that he WILL get tired of her. No 40 year old man has any long term interest in an 18 year old girl other than sexual. He is a user of women and he will eventually lose his looks and he will end of as an old man with no woman and just memories of the women who he has hurt and used. I am a MAN-I know how MEN think. This guy sounds like the classid egotist. It makes him feel like king having a yong girl on his arm. It is a conquest to him. Your friend is going to learn a hard lesson. It's sad because she is just a kid, but she must learn that if her man would do this to his own family, how will he treat her.SAD!!
Flobot

Niceville, FL

#9 Jun 18, 2012
He sounds gross.
Northern Floridian

United States

#10 Jun 20, 2012
I know this guy if this is the same guy that use to live in Gulf Breeze. I can't believe he still has a wife. She must really be beat down by now if she's still married to him. She was the sweetest most gentle person anyone could will meet. She was one of those kind of people who were to sweet for there own good. I hope she takes him to the cleaners. I don't know if she realizes it or not but her and her children are way better off without him anyway, everyone use to talk about how they didn't understand why she stayed with him because he treated her like crap and she wouldn't even try to stand up for herself. Hopefully this time she will. The kids are probably about grown by now, it's about time she learns what a good man is all about because this woman deserves to be treated like a lady. If I was a man, she is the kind of woman I'd love to be with. There aren't many women out there like her now days and there are to many people like her husband. He's always been to stupid to realize what a good thing he had. And as far as the 18 year old little girl who's having her turn with that nasty bastard, I hope her parents kick his ass. She may be an 18 year old kid but shes legally old enough to have her ass kicked by an adult now too. They will both get what's coming to them one way or another. As for the wife, if she's reading this, it's time you stop making yourself look like a fool by letting him shit all over you all the time. Show him your not a rag doll anymore and have enough respect for yourself and your kids to do better than what he's had to offer you for 20 years!?!? At least one of you need to set a good example for those kids, and it don't look like he cares about anyone but himself so it's up to you to teach them that this is not appropriate for a man to treat any woman like trash, neither any woman to allow herself to be treated like trash. If you don't stand up for yourself now, your teaching your kids that it's ok to treat a woman like that and it's ok for a woman to take that kind of treatment. If you don't teach them that then you will have to watch your daughters be treated like you've been, or your sons wives will be crying on your shoulder one day begging you for help because of how your son is treating you. Stand up girl! And if Kris is reading this, you are one selfish old bastard.
the Oklahoman

Pensacola, FL

#11 Jun 24, 2012
It sounds to me like you are Kris's wife and playing "concerned" for your "friend". This little girl you're referring to really is my friend. I was pretty concerned myself, but she knows what she's getting into. And I agree with Northern Floridian, if life was that bad with Kris, why haven't you left yet? If he's such an abusive, terrible father, why do you want him back? What was your purpose in doing this other than slenderizing your husband and the father of your children? You're right, he probably will move on and just break my friend's heart but she is aware of that. You're marriage was failing way before she was in the picture. But you got what you wanted right? He came home to you to stop all the bs. What does it matter if neither of you are happy. As long as everything looks picture perfect from the outside, right?
fl gal77

Pensacola, FL

#12 Jun 25, 2012
look to all you little girl's that have nothing better to do with you life but sit around a talk shit.i had no part in any of this.to be honest if my children were to see this it would kill them. why can't all you little bitches just step back and let us hash out what we need to do for our family. no i'm not the perfect wife nor is he the perfect husband.if you were an adult which clearly your not you might understand it has more to do with just he and i.we have children who are caught in the middle of this whole thing.then your home wrecking friend had to step in and she's lucky i have not seen her face to face.tell your friend that she has fucked my kids heads up and as a mother it's gonna come back on her cause there is noone who will hurt my kids and get away with it.so let that be known.so keep on talking you shit and you'll know who i am believe that. i'm no young girl i'm a lady.
goober grape

United States

#13 Jun 25, 2012
Ya! Tell them whats up girl! Its not like the kids arent already going through the worst disaster of their lives right now! How much older is the new step mom than your kids? Has it ever crossed your mind if your ex husband possibly could have molested your kids? Im not at all trying to start more drama for you but have you ever asked them if their father has touched them inappropriatly? If your anything like me then you would rather know to get them counciling, than not know.
fl gal77

Pensacola, FL

#14 Jun 26, 2012
goober grape wrote:
Ya! Tell them whats up girl! Its not like the kids arent already going through the worst disaster of their lives right now! How much older is the new step mom than your kids? Has it ever crossed your mind if your ex husband possibly could have molested your kids? Im not at all trying to start more drama for you but have you ever asked them if their father has touched them inappropriatly? If your anything like me then you would rather know to get them counciling, than not know.
no as far as him ever doing anything with my childern there are no worries there.when young girls feel the need to put their two cents in though and to put it out there as if i would have even put my famlies business out there clearly doed not know me at all.my children are my world and regardless if there father and i do or do not work out our problems should of never been out in the open for the world to read.i have always been a privite person and little girls don't know the meaning of respect.
fl gal77

Pensacola, FL

#15 Jun 26, 2012
the Oklahoman wrote:
It sounds to me like you are Kris's wife and playing "concerned" for your "friend". This little girl you're referring to really is my friend. I was pretty concerned myself, but she knows what she's getting into. And I agree with Northern Floridian, if life was that bad with Kris, why haven't you left yet? If he's such an abusive, terrible father, why do you want him back? What was your purpose in doing this other than slenderizing your husband and the father of your children? You're right, he probably will move on and just break my friend's heart but she is aware of that. You're marriage was failing way before she was in the picture. But you got what you wanted right? He came home to you to stop all the bs. What does it matter if neither of you are happy. As long as everything looks picture perfect from the outside, right?
i so wish you would bring this face to face instead of all this bs for the world to see.grow up!

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#16 Jun 26, 2012
fl gal77 wrote:
look to all you little girl's that have nothing better to do with you life but sit around a talk shit.i had no part in any of this.to be honest if my children were to see this it would kill them. why can't all you little bitches just step back and let us hash out what we need to do for our family. no i'm not the perfect wife nor is he the perfect husband.if you were an adult which clearly your not you might understand it has more to do with just he and i.we have children who are caught in the middle of this whole thing.then your home wrecking friend had to step in and she's lucky i have not seen her face to face.tell your friend that she has fucked my kids heads up and as a mother it's gonna come back on her cause there is noone who will hurt my kids and get away with it.so let that be known.so keep on talking you shit and you'll know who i am believe that. i'm no young girl i'm a lady.
I'm sorry you and your children are being put thru this. It's a horrible situation and I completely understand why you want to put your foot through that chick's a@@. She deserves it. But you know who deserves it more? Your husband. HE put you and your innocent children thru this. Not the little slut. HE wrecked your home. If it wasn't with her, it would have been someone else. HE hurt your kids. HE hurt you. HE betrayed you and the children. HE lied. HE crapped over your entire relationship. HE risked losing you and the children. HE is the home wrecker. This makes him the bigger slut. I hope everything works out for you, I really do. I hope you and your children find peace, and I'm sorry your situation was put in a public forum. No one should have to deal with what you're dealing with and then have it put out on here, so I truly feel for you. Best of luck in the future and remember to love yourself.
not afraid

United States

#17 Jun 26, 2012
I have to say that Fezziik couldnt have said it any better or clearer. Thats all excellent advice coming from a very clear headed person. My advice to you whoever the wife of this......man is,( I said man for your childrens sakes) my advise is....take fezziiks advice. And also. I hope this will help, the more people comment on this, the higher to the top of the list it gets to be viewed first by millions and millions of people. If you truely want all this to disappear, dont respond to any more comments, people will get tired of waiting on some good action going on so theyll move on and find action elsewhere. If you dont leave it alone, youll end up being the most commented blog and thats like being on the front page of the newspaper for everyone in the world to see first when they click on your state. Take fezziiks advice, listen to her words, print them if you have to so you will have a reminder of what will give you more strength than you ever knew you had in you. Then leave this site alone, dont look at it, and especially dont rrespond to it. Good luck. Hope I never see you again! Mean it in a good way
fl gal77

Pensacola, FL

#18 Jun 26, 2012
not afraid wrote:
I have to say that Fezziik couldnt have said it any better or clearer. Thats all excellent advice coming from a very clear headed person. My advice to you whoever the wife of this......man is,( I said man for your childrens sakes) my advise is....take fezziiks advice. And also. I hope this will help, the more people comment on this, the higher to the top of the list it gets to be viewed first by millions and millions of people. If you truely want all this to disappear, dont respond to any more comments, people will get tired of waiting on some good action going on so theyll move on and find action elsewhere. If you dont leave it alone, youll end up being the most commented blog and thats like being on the front page of the newspaper for everyone in the world to see first when they click on your state. Take fezziiks advice, listen to her words, print them if you have to so you will have a reminder of what will give you more strength than you ever knew you had in you. Then leave this site alone, dont look at it, and especially dont rrespond to it. Good luck. Hope I never see you again! Mean it in a good way
i thank you very much and your correct i should never have allowed myself to stoop down to their leval at all.i just care so much for my children is all and for someone to have placed that i posted this for the world to view so upset me.my kids are my world and i only wanted everyone who may of thought i had anything to do with this was so clearly wrong.
Papa Smurf

United States

#19 Jun 27, 2012
I am a man in my later 40's. This sounds like the story of my life 8 years ago. I was with my wife for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. She was an awesome wife, she did everything I told her to do. I was a terrible husband who took advantage of her. We had 2 children also. I hired a young secretary that was fresh out of high school, I thought I'd give her a chance since I knew she was young. She ended up talking to me about her life, growing up without her father and her mother was a junkie who didn't care about her. She told me that my wife and kids were really lucky to have a man like me, and she lifted me up and made me feel really special and I found myself falling for her. She seemed more mature than most 18 year olds. she made me feel so strong, special and manly, and like a good person.Since I had treated my wife so terrible for so many years there was a lot of guilt, I never abused my wife physically, nor my children, but I did abuse them verbally, mentally, financially, and I went through stages of sexual abuse to my wife, not like I raped her or anything, I just had a lot of sexual fantasies and since she was my wife I expected her to fill my selfish needs, she was afraid not to do whatever I asked her to, because she loved me so much and wanted a real family so badly, she did everything I wanted her too. she needed me to come home because it was like dropping a 5 year old off on the side of the road and telling her to find her way in life. I had my wife and kids waiting on me to come home, and I had this young vibrant teenager screwing my brains out and telling me how great I was. I kept my wife tied to me by making her feel sorry for me, it was just more of the kind of mental abuse I used on her. My wife never tried to get any child support from me because she was so hurt by my actions that she wanted me to believe she was woman enough to make it without me, but her actions showed that I still had her where I wanted her. I didn't have to pay her any support, her family took care of her. So I let them all pay my bills but I occasionally bought her and the kids something nice, took them places and did things with them just to make sure she was still my little puppet that she always was. She tried to act like she didn't want me back, but she dressed up in ways that turned me on and she knew what she was doing and so did I. I had my cake, and I ate it too. I had to feel the power and control since I couldnt control myself. I had my wife and my girlfriend eating out of the palm my hand like little dogs. They both
allowed me to come and go as I pleased whenever I wanted to. I had her head so screwed uploose she looked like a total dumbass, and that was also part of my plan I guess, as for my girlfriend, I always told her I had to go see my kids and she fell for it. I didn't tell her that I had long heart to heart talks with her, and that we spent time together, I just made her think that she was all I needed. Wise up and realize this man knows exactly what he is doing. It took losing my wife and my children in a car accident for me to realize what a monster I was. My girlfriend got tired of my drinking after I lost my wife and kids so she left me for a 26 year old whom she should have been with all along.My advice to the wife is to move on.Stop falling for his pompous behavior. That kind of man has no heart. Get help or whatever it takes to get up again. Life is to short to let it pass you by. If you let your husband come back your still his puppet. He only does this if you allow him too. Even if he says he'll get some help it's all part of his plan to make you think something's wrong with him. respect yourself and stop allowing yourself to be the victim.get a lawyer, make him pay for it. Take your kids to church. You haven't even experienced real love yet. Life doesn't get any better unless you make it better and demand respect for yourself and your children.
Michael

AOL

#20 Jun 27, 2012
So many people are so unhappy with their own lives that they have to find fault with other peoples lives. Be very careful what you tell people, cause it could be used against you later. Only tell people what you want them to know and anything that cannot be used against you in any way no matter what. When friends or family get mad at you for any reason they change. They can turn into your worst enemy. I have nothing to hide in my life, but I tell nothing to anyone about me. I trust no one! Yes I am a loner and ok with that. I do not tolerate drama in my life at all. I never let the little things in life bother me. I respect people, but choose not to have a close relationship with anyone. I will only help the elderly and/or children if anyone is commiting a crime against them, all others are on their own. If I see a woman getting beat up by a man or another woman, I will never get physically involved, same for a man getting beat up. I will call the police, but that is as far as I will go with it. Using common sense in life will keep you alive. So many lack that. So many are using their mouth to eat with and using their ass to talk with. What makes a man or woman think it is ok to have sex with children? It use to not be like this. What happened threw out the years. They know right from wrong, keep control of the wrong thoughts and never act on them thoughts. If you can not control your thoughts or actions then you have no right being in the human population.

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