Kidnap suspect is found dead

Tied up and desperate, David Ridenour managed to dial 911 from his cell phone. Moments before - about 1 a.m. Wednesday - Ridenour witnessed the kidnapping of a co-worker by her ex-boyfriend, he told police.

[the people have spoken]

sad story he must have planned on biting it but why traumatizae this girl sad sad sad

[Bobbi Stardust]

Something must have went terribly wrong with this man. He sounds as though he was a very stable, fairly successful person at one time. At least he didn't harm the lady physically although I'm sure that she was terrified.

[Thinking out Loud 2]

This may sound a bit heartless.

The moment he chose to kidnap the lady he became a thug...a piece of trash. In my opinion he saved us the cost of a trial and the cost of housing him in prison for years. I know he seemed a good person until now, but he made the choice to cross the line.

Perhaps we should give all thugs the option of self removal. Would save a lot of money.

[Howard Beale Jr]

Bobbi Stardust wrote:

Something must have went terribly wrong with this man. He sounds as though he was a very stable, fairly successful person at one time. At least he didn't harm the lady physically although I'm sure that she was terrified.

OCD? Seems we hear a lot of stories along these lines anymore. Someone can't let go & move on.

[Appraisit]

Bobbi Stardust wrote:

Something must have went terribly wrong with this man. He sounds as though he was a very stable, fairly successful person at one time. At least he didn't harm the lady physically although I'm sure that she was terrified.

Perhaps he had a midlife crisis, reading the story I beleive the young lady was 24 ? and he was 52 and had a wife and 2 kids ? he and the young lady had dated a few times and when she rebuffed his continued advances and now had a pissed off wife....who knows exactly what goes on during these periods of midlife crisis/menopause mindsets/periods....transition from young to middle aged to mature sometimes can be more than some folks can handle .....particurly in this day and age of the marketing of sex !

Not that I'm speaking from experience.....

[MARCO FATTS]

might of had too much "barberton chicken"....what do you think about that Bobbi......?

[justsomeguy]

The chick kidnapped had issues of her own. She moved out here with my best friend of 25 yrs. That guy that killed himself DROVE to colorado, moved her out of my best friends house while he was at work. Wife found out... oops.. then supposely got in trouble at work, blah blah..went nuts. they both were, I hear. Wow.. sad, but what a story.

[the people have spoken]

yeah when us guys at the point just before midlife start messing withyoung chickie girls it is ALLWAYS trouble!!!!!!!!!! but aint no splitail worth dieing over.except of course my soul mate my wife ;)tj

[Un-Tye-Me]

MARCO FATTS wrote:

might of had too much "barberton chicken"....what do you think about that Bobbi......?

I keep tellin people to go to Church's Chicken.

[San Jose Transplant]

Thinking out Loud 2 wrote:

This may sound a bit heartless.
The moment he chose to kidnap the lady he became a thug...a piece of trash. In my opinion he saved us the cost of a trial and the cost of housing him in prison for years. I know he seemed a good person until now, but he made the choice to cross the line.
Perhaps we should give all thugs the option of self removal. Would save a lot of money.

While I have issues with suicide, I must totally agree with your post. Good job...sjt

[Black and Proud]

This is sad I feel bad for his wife,Kids and Grandkids, and the young lady,glad he didn't take anyone else out.

[sassy]

the people have spoken wrote:

yeah when us guys at the point just before midlife start messing withyoung chickie girls it is ALLWAYS trouble!!!!!!!!!! but aint no splitail worth dieing over.except of course my soul mate my wife ;)tj

How sweet of you to say that about your wife! If most men felt that way there would be less divorces and kids without one of the parents. I hope she rubs your back real good after a nice comment like that!

[Howard Beale Jr]

Un-Tye-Me wrote:

<quoted text> I keep tellin people to go to Church's Chicken.

I hear Marco gets his chicken on the down-lo.

The chickies don't interest ol' HB anymore. Can't stand their music and body piercings. Interferes with the pacemaker. Happy to stay home & shave Dame Van Beale's neck when necessary.

Chickies turn grown men into five-o'clock-news drama queens.

[Starry]

I blame the old perv.

[the people have spoken]

starry you don't pull you punches lol

[blueeyes_dreams2 000]

justsomeguy wrote:

The chick kidnapped had issues of her own. She moved out here with my best friend of 25 yrs. That guy that killed himself DROVE to colorado, moved her out of my best friends house while he was at work. Wife found out... oops.. then supposely got in trouble at work, blah blah..went nuts. they both were, I hear. Wow.. sad, but what a story.

before you pass judement look into your friend doug pass he not a great guy if you new him him for 25 year then you know for a fact what a looser he was also

[blueeyes_dreams2 000]

this is a tragic story no matter how you look at it so justsomeguy i knew all the above doug/ donnie /and the girl and for someone to write bullshit like you just did shall we write about what your loser friend doug did he not some perfect soul but that another story this is a sad tragic story that no one should deal with even your looser friend doug

[SOMEONETHATKNOWS]

well your friend would of hurt her if she had stayed..you don't know the real story --only the story your friend has told you..he was a control freak...and i pray that you or someone you know don't have to go threw the hell she did--

[blueeyes_dreams2 000]

SOMEONETHATKNOWS wrote:

well your friend would of hurt her if she had stayed..you don't know the real story --only the story your friend has told you..he was a control freak...and i pray that you or someone you know don't have to go threw the hell she did--

its amazing are we talking about real men here or woman pretending to be men and your right if the real story to be told about this doug

[Starry]

blueeyes_dreams2000 wrote:

<quoted text>its amazing are we talking about real men here or woman pretending to be men and your right if the real story to be told about this doug

So, are you saying he didn't kidnap her? Is the story published in the paper wrong?