Confused

Orland Park, IL

#1 Feb 26, 2011
Recently I was accused of being jealous of someone that I believe I really cared about. We have been fighting for sometime and I never really did understand what it was about to begin with. So now this jealous term comes up and I have been pondering this for some time. I knew I had done something to hurt them unintentionally, but honestly it was their own fault for not being honest with me about some stuff to begin with. So when they accused me of being jealous a lightbulb came on, this was all because of jealousy on their part. I am not a jealous person and I really do not understand the concept. I know the definition but I just have not experienced that emotion since I was a hormonal teen. I noticed that I seem to lack quite a few emotions that are negative. I do not think this is a bad thing but I do still have one negative emotion and that is anger. And this person is on a very short list of people who I have allowed to get me angry on more then one occasion. Jealousy is defined as a fear of loss of something of value. I was sad by the loss and angry by what they kept doing to me, but I have not felt jealousy at all. So does this mean that I never really cared about this person? And if I did not care about them why do I continue to get angry when they do stuff to attack my reputation and life style? Should I not just be able to turn the other cheek and walk away?
Smart One

Orland Park, IL

#2 Feb 27, 2011
Ya know it sounds like you are justified in being angry. Your saying this person is messin with ya and your angry about it. Well he'll ya, ya should be angry. Jealous it sounds like maybe that so called friend is a jealous spiteful bit&$. Ya can only turn the other cheek so many times. If they keep f-ing with ya maybe you should just give them a nice old fashioned ass whoopin'. As you age you'll see there are alot of mean spirited people on this earth.
For real

Downers Grove, IL

#3 Feb 28, 2011
If your looking for jealous spiteful bit*hes you came to the right website....
mickey miquel

Lombard, IL

#4 Feb 28, 2011
come here sweet cheeks i make it all better for you.
I got just what you need to fill the empty space inside you. I'll go real slow and gentle i promise.
Mickey Mouse

Glen Ellyn, IL

#6 Mar 2, 2011
Mickey, aw boy you are a sick puppy. And dont worry confused that [email protected] will get hers, they always do!

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