teachers having SEX
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teacher

Paris, TX

#1 Mar 3, 2011
in light of all the attention of recent behaviors of teachers having sex with students, i wonder if it is somehow ok if the teacher later marries the student and raises a family. Where does the moral gavel fall? I know we all can recall indecretions between teachers and students so is it ok if they "outgrow" this behavior?. Or do you believe once a child molester always a child molester?.

“Illegitimi non carborundum”

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#2 Mar 3, 2011
It is never okay for a teacher to have sex with a student - period.

Mary Kay Letourneau married Vili Fualaau after she got out of prison as a result of her pleading guilty to child rape stemming from her relationship with him. They are still together, raising their kids; she's 48 and he's 27. She's also a grandmother from her son whom she had during her first marriage. Her son is a year younger than Vili. I think this is a rare case, I think the majority of child molesters do not marry the child they molested.
what I think

United States

#3 Mar 3, 2011
teacher wrote:
in light of all the attention of recent behaviors of teachers having sex with students, i wonder if it is somehow ok if the teacher later marries the student and raises a family. Where does the moral gavel fall? I know we all can recall indecretions between teachers and students so is it ok if they "outgrow" this behavior?. Or do you believe once a child molester always a child molester?.
I dont think they outgrow it. If they did it once they will do it again. Chisum has its share that have been swept under the rug for over 20 years and guess what they are still there working with young teenage girls. One of thems wife that was a very young teen when they hooked up works there too. They both need to be fired.

“Illegitimi non carborundum”

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#5 Mar 3, 2011
I don't think a child molester "outgrows" their urges.
Teachers Kid

Paris, TX

#6 Mar 3, 2011
I know it really isn't the intended subject, but based solely on the title of the thread, I am personally very thankful that some teachers have in fact had sex. Otherwise I wouldn't be here...

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#7 Mar 4, 2011
teacher wrote:
North Lamar in the past and prarieland currently has employees that have confirmly had sex with underage very young teenage students and later married. they have continued to work and be in contact with children so i am curious if the public accepts the crime as long as the child molester "outgrows" the behavior or marries the victim.
I knew the topic was bait for this conversation. I knew exactly who you had in mind when you asked your question.
So, since you are stirring the pot...why don't you give your response? What do you think? I'm pretty sure I already know your answer.
Personally, I don't ever think it's right for a teacher to sleep with a student. I don't care if the student is 19 and the teacher is 23. Teachers are put in a position of authority, and they are abusing that authority when they bring their personal lives to work, or when they try to bring their work into their personal lives.
Do I think they are all sex offenders and will they be repeat offenders? Not all of them. Do I think they should be able to continue to teach? No. I think they should know as soon as they go into the teaching profession that if they decide to have a sexual relationship with a student (no matter the circumstances), they have also decided to seek employment in another profession.
I don't think the person you are referring to in your original post is necessarily a sex offender (Even though, they actually were, but I do not think it warrants being registered as a sex offender for life.), but I do think he should not be permitted to teach or be a principal. He gave up that right when he couldn't remain professional and moral.
well now

Paris, TX

#8 Mar 4, 2011
One thing about it sex education is for free at Chisum. Teachers and teachers,teachers and students,and students and students... WOW let the good times roll. LMAO Bunch of pervs!!!
spider monkey

United States

#9 Mar 4, 2011
In court they tell you to listen to all the evidence before making your final judgement. If they have been teaching for 5 years and this is the first time they have had sex with a student they might have stayed with the student. You say one a sex offender all ways a sex offender. Maybe so but at the sametime everyone can change.

“Illegitimi non carborundum”

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#10 Mar 4, 2011
Do the instruction you hear as a juror tell you to play the what if game?
spider monkey

United States

#11 Mar 4, 2011
what if game? Never heard of that one.
Heck yes

Fort Worth, TX

#12 Mar 4, 2011
Where was all these horney female teachers in my day? I believe the male teachers probably manipulated the heck out of the girls for some play, but I doubt very seriously the female teachers had to work at it. If the term sex was even part of a discussion with the female teachers all the guy's caught attention. Couple of teachers in my day that wouldn't have had to ask I would have been glad to get extra curricular with them. We wouldn't have called it molesting either we would have considerd it another notch in our belt. Is it different for guy's versus girls sure it is.
waldo

Paris, TX

#13 Mar 4, 2011


got it bad, so baaad, I'm hot for teacher.
cash

Clarksville, TX

#14 Mar 4, 2011
heard at least one made a lot of friends in prison already
guest

Paris, TN

#15 Mar 4, 2011
There is a very low recidivism rate among paedophiles. A teacher who has sex with a student is a paedophile and should be fired.
nope

Paris, TX

#16 Mar 5, 2011
guest wrote:
There is a very low recidivism rate among paedophiles. A teacher who has sex with a student is a paedophile and should be fired.
Don't know where you get that. I believe it's pretty high

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#17 Mar 5, 2011
I think all of this would be solved if teachers would just quit having sex. I think the nuns might just have something...
Educate Yourself

Plano, TX

#18 Mar 5, 2011
Not A Humorous Subject

Plano, TX

#19 Mar 5, 2011
evbodgotopin wrote:
I think all of this would be solved if teachers would just quit having sex. I think the nuns might just have something...
Surely you jest?

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#20 Mar 5, 2011
Latest news...Paris Topix folks have lost their senses of humor. You're right..maybe it is more fun to just put down others and argue constantly..interjecting a little humor just gets us off task. My bad.

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#21 Mar 5, 2011
Not A Humorous Subject wrote:
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Surely you jest?
It was funny sarcasm..I thought.... won't happen again..umm..yea, it probably will. I can't help myself.(go ahead..throw me some spam and nuts..I don't care.)

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