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What is wrong with some of these women that go after these married men. Can they not find one that is not married? And how stupid do you feel when his wife forgives him and then you are branded as a tr@@p. Idoesnt that make your family proud. Think twice before you try to break up a family because it could be you that ends up in the cold.
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I think women who "go after" married men, basically would "go after" single men too.. that's just it, they don't get boundaries. Furthermore, if the "married man" is so weak minded to care more about a fling than watching his children grow up, then the wife and kids would be better off without his worthless self.
The way I see it, if some nasty old slut can take him, he was never really mine in the first place.
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They go after married men becuse they hve no self worth. They place value on being able to attract another woman's man, it makes them feel attractive and wanted. Which is completely obnoxious...plus to add to their stupidity, they think he will be committed. Becuse he is married it shows that he is capable of commitment....supposedly. Yeah ok. A woman that dates a married man thinks nothing of herself, has no confidence, and believes a shared man is all she deserves.
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I heard this some time back. "Women date men for Romance" and "Men date Women for sex" Men who cheat do so because it's simple something new, even if they run home denying everything. It's not especially all the women's fault who have sex (it's not a date) with married men. Men are driven by testosterone and are not monogamous as females. A great deal of married men even have 5 minute encounters with anyone of either sex just because its something new and different from what is at home. You will never hear about scandals in the girl scouts, or Catholic women because it simple doesn't happen. Being male I can say that most men are whores for anything different. They do not see Sex and Love as having anything to do with the other. This is not new and has been going on for centuries. Maybe it's evolutionary the male wants to spread his DNA as far as he can regardless of who he hurts, gives diseases to and emotional destroys. Even male animals tend to want a heard of females, and the Mormon's actually once believed in multiple wifes. A man who at least tells his wife he is in an affair is being honest, which gives her options to keep him or find another one, but most don't and even some wives simple ignore it or enable it by swinging because their husbands believe it's the thing to do. Children at home always make it harder to leave a spouse who wants to play the field. It's not always the other woman, it's a man who shows no honesty with his wife. Most of the other women often don't even know the man is married, and the ones who do seriously must know the same man would do them the same way or they just want to take what is not theirs to take as mentioned above. If you suspect this in your relationship then move on because you want to protect your health and mental welfare even though it may be the hardest thing you've ever done.
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Sep 20, 2012
 

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Some people have no common decency. I find most of them are proud of thier exploits claiming if the wife would take care of her man it wouldn't happen. What the sluts don't realize is that they aren't special, that 'man' would have cheated with anything that would have him because that's just the kind of low life that cheats. If the slut had to deal with the stress of marriage which includes, bills or kids or in laws or anything else that is a stressed in day to day married life she would be in the same boat as the wife.

It is really amusing to overhear or see on fb where these same sluts are wondering why they can't find a decent man. Here's a hint. Decent men don't want what's been passed all round town.
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Decent men, don't pass themselves all around town either. Nor do they lie and say that their ex has been passed all around town so that nobody else would want them.

Once in a while you get what you deserve. Great people do not grow on trees. Finding them is like finding a treasure you weren't looking for.

I'm thankful I met a great person to spend time with, who enjoys my company.
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celly wrote:
Some people have no common decency. I find most of them are proud of thier exploits claiming if the wife would take care of her man it wouldn't happen. What the sluts don't realize is that they aren't special, that 'man' would have cheated with anything that would have him because that's just the kind of low life that cheats. If the slut had to deal with the stress of marriage which includes, bills or kids or in laws or anything else that is a stressed in day to day married life she would be in the same boat as the wife.
It is really amusing to overhear or see on fb where these same sluts are wondering why they can't find a decent man. Here's a hint. Decent men don't want what's been passed all round town.
They will get exactly what they dish out one day. They better hope that someone does not do to them what they have done. Or to their daughter. Because it is not fun to be the wife sitting at home trusting her husband. Sad thing is most of the time either he will deny it or fess up and say she was just a piece and didnt mean a thing to him.
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They will get exactly what they dish out one day. They better hope that someone does not do to them what they have done. Or to their daughter. Because it is not fun to be the wife sitting at home trusting her husband. Sad thing is most of the time either he will deny it or fess up and say she was just a piece and didnt mean a thing to him.
Those types don't care if that sort of thing is done to their daughter.

If it happened to their daughter, they would just say she was the one that deserved it for whatever stupid reason they could come up with and side with the &*^^% chaser, and turn on the daughter.

They don't care about their kids anymore than they care about the spouse they could hurt with their std's.

It's not just men either. Some women are the same way, and they couldn't care less who gets hurt unless it affects them too in some way.
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My husband did this to me. He told me the truth which was hard to swallow especially with it being a woman with a child of her own. Said she was sorry too. I know she is sorry she didn't have to tell me that! The problem is that we as the ones that are cheated on often blame ourselves. We have nothing to be ashamed of. I say shout all of it from the rooftops. If these men and women had to walk around and people know what type of people they are then they would not leave their homes.
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It may not always be like this; but, allowing yourself to get wide as a barn, not taking care of his needs and being a general B*tch is a sure way to get him to look elsewhere.
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Mr. Hand can take care of himself.
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Dixie Dude wrote:
It may not always be like this; but, allowing yourself to get wide as a barn, not taking care of his needs and being a general B*tch is a sure way to get him to look elsewhere.
And the husband being an inconsiderate dick is a sure way to make the wife all these things lol

Like I said, the stress of married life.
Or it could be

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Dixie Dude wrote:
It may not always be like this; but, allowing yourself to get wide as a barn, not taking care of his needs and being a general B*tch is a sure way to get him to look elsewhere.
Could be that the slut showed him attention because his wife was getting attention paid to her. Why do they always think that the wife got ugly and was a bitch. I know of at least 4 women in Paris that this has happened to and they are all gorgeous. And I know them all and they are super nice. You can asked their husbands or exes and they will tell you this. It was not their fault that their husband chose to lie and betray their trust and marriage vows much less what the men did to their whole families. So if you are an ex or one of the women that has broke up a marriage, the wife was probably not to blame..you were.
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Dixie Dude wrote:
It may not always be like this; but, allowing yourself to get wide as a barn, not taking care of his needs and being a general B*tch is a sure way to get him to look elsewhere.
Oh, sure, it's easy to blame the wife for HIS cheating! Ha! That's the oldest excuse in the world. Couldn't you come up with anything else?
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How about this for a reason to cheat. My husband's d##K is too little, he's a minute man, he is too hairy in places I don't like, too flabby, too old, not good looking, grumpy,boring,and doesn't make enough money. Are those good enough reasons for me to look for someone else?
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The only reason I can think of to cheat is to get even with a cheater...to keep the marriage and not feel like i had to torture this personfor the rest of their life. I had thought about gluing is thing to the sheets, and all of the other sorts of things you think about after you find out about an affair.

Then I thought...I don't want to do that. It's not what I am about.

I just want a divorce.(You would think if they are cheating, they would want a divorce too.) But apparently that is why they lie about affairs, because they don't want a divorce. They just want to screw around.

They want to play, but they don't want the consequences, so they lie, and when they get caught, they turn it around on their spouse and say they are cheating, so they won't get the reputation of being a cheater.

By and large, they just don't want to face the consequences of their actions, and it's not a man thing. I've seen women who do it too.
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How about this for a reason to cheat. My husband's d##K is too little, he's a minute man, he is too hairy in places I don't like, too flabby, too old, not good looking, grumpy,boring,and doesn't make enough money. Are those good enough reasons for me to look for someone else?
If you are that disgusted by him, get out. Don't destroy other people's lives. Quit thinking of yourself.
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If you are that disgusted by him, get out. Don't destroy other people's lives. Quit thinking of yourself.
Who said I was disgusted and wanted out? I just want to know if I have an excuse to cheat if I want to. Seems like almost any excuse will do nowadays.

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