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20 something year old men dating 14-17 yr. old girls

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dont get it

Nicholasville, KY

#1 Apr 26, 2009
this happened to me. I really dont get this. you would think that a 26 year old would want to be with someone his age. What Could a grown ass man possibly have in common with a 17 year old little girl? what would they talk about? I just dont get it.I thought that when you break up with somebody you are suppost to do better for your self....not lower your standards. HELP!!!!!!!!!
Fred

Macon, GA

#3 Apr 27, 2009
I dated a 17 year old girl when I was 22, granted the age difference between us is not as much as 26 and 17, but she was eager to please if you know what I mean. Anytime, anyplace,and as much as and whatever I wanted to do, young people dont have emotional baggage or hang ups about sex, so theyre just more fun.
curious

Fairborn, OH

#4 Apr 27, 2009
me personally i date older women but they will break your heart im on the verge of suicide i gave everything for nothing and no one cares!!! im trying to drink away everything but whiskey lullabies!!!!LOL!!!!!!!!!
Fred

Macon, GA

#5 Apr 27, 2009
I seem to stick to women that are 6 to 7 years younger, has worked out well, now 36 married with children and happy as a clam, and yes she is younger.
curious

Fairborn, OH

#6 Apr 27, 2009
i need to start doing that then!!!! older women will make you think of suicide!!!!!!!!!!
cant say

Russellville, KY

#8 Apr 28, 2009
well i am 17 an my boyfirend is 26 an i love him but dont know wat to do i dont want to get him locked up but he say he dont care wat should i do
just commenting

Lexington, KY

#9 Apr 28, 2009
cant say wrote:
well i am 17 an my boyfirend is 26 an i love him but dont know wat to do i dont want to get him locked up but he say he dont care wat should i do
What should you do? Go back to school & learn to spell and punctuate instead of fooling with a 26 year old loser who doesn't care about himself or you. Have you ever been in a true long term relationship to even know what LOVE is? I seriuosly doubt it. At 17, you should have more sense and self respect than to be with a person that is facing jailtime. I am sure you are better than that.
just commenting

Lexington, KY

#10 Apr 28, 2009
curious wrote:
me personally i date older women but they will break your heart im on the verge of suicide i gave everything for nothing and no one cares!!! im trying to drink away everything but whiskey lullabies!!!!LOL!!!!!!!!!
Are you wanting sympathy or someone to stop you? Or, do you need someone to hold the bottle up for you? LOL
Well

Richmond, KY

#11 Apr 28, 2009
To be honest. Age is just a number.
But I believe anyone under the age of 20 should stay in around the same age of when it comes to dating. I am 21 and my last boyfriend was 21 years older than me. My boyfriend before that was 15 years older than me. What you are attracted to is your buisness. Whether it's older men or a younger woman. It's whatever completes you and makes you happy. As long as it's not "pervert" situation or whatever. But if your like 17 and with a 30+ year old than that's on the line of "pervert." It's hard to explain on how I am trying to make sense with the age difference thing. But it does make a big difference if you are under the age of at least 20 and are dating many years older. But other than that honestly age really is just a number & like I said, it's all about what completes you and HAPPINESS. Bottom Line.:)
bnm674

Mount Sterling, KY

#13 Apr 29, 2009
My bff is 27 & dating a man who is 39. At 1st it was weird for them, but then they got to know each other & it's all fine. I think it has to do with the maturity level that each is on. I do agree that mid-20's & under are really not experienced in life enough to be that mature about adult relationships with much older ppl.
someone

United States

#14 May 4, 2009
age is a number.
You need to get your goals in line first. take it from someone who is now 19 divorced and has a baby, no job, living with family, no school other than highschool and alone.
FL dude

United States

#15 May 5, 2009
I am 26.5 yo and she is 17.9 yo I just went out with her once so far , supposed to go out again this week. She seems mature, I am taking things extra slow with her
Nofrikinway

Berea, KY

#16 May 5, 2009
FL dude wrote:
I am 26.5 yo and she is 17.9 yo I just went out with her once so far , supposed to go out again this week. She seems mature, I am taking things extra slow with her
I know you.
What do you know

Holland, MI

#17 May 5, 2009
Nofrikinway wrote:
<quoted text>
I know you.
You are considered a pedophile. There's no way that you have anything in common with a 17yr.old, who is still a child, no matter what anyone thinks. You are a pervert. I was 14 with a 22 year old man and I look at it now and it's sick. He was immature and apparently couldn't get a woman his own age so you stalk young girls. The girl/boy is confused with raging hormones. You have a sickness yourself if you are messing with a young child/teenager (the same thing). You should be in jail.
sick

Clarksville, TN

#18 May 5, 2009
Fred wrote:
I dated a 17 year old girl when I was 22, granted the age difference between us is not as much as 26 and 17, but she was eager to please if you know what I mean. Anytime, anyplace,and as much as and whatever I wanted to do, young people dont have emotional baggage or hang ups about sex, so theyre just more fun.
You are a sick twisted little pervert!
SOMEONE THAT KNOWS

Anderson, SC

#19 May 5, 2009
WHAT DO YOU KNOW -Ky law doesn't agree with you. In the state of Ky consensual age is 16 yrs, no laws broken. You can't put somebody in jail because you don't agree with a different lifestyle. Being immature, pervert and a sickness would be 15yrs a under, according to the laws of Ky.
I would like to know why our men leaders voted 16 instead of 18.
umm

Nicholasville, KY

#20 May 5, 2009
i dated a 29 yr old when i was 17. and it wasnt just about sex, infact we didnt have sex til i was 18 and we where together for a long ass time, and he never once cheated on me, hell he didnt have the time to cheat on me! we where always together from the time we woke up til the time we went to bed! i loved him, but things just didnt work out, and we are still friends!
What do you know

Holland, MI

#21 May 5, 2009
SOMEONE THAT KNOWS wrote:
WHAT DO YOU KNOW -Ky law doesn't agree with you. In the state of Ky consensual age is 16 yrs, no laws broken. You can't put somebody in jail because you don't agree with a different lifestyle. Being immature, pervert and a sickness would be 15yrs a under, according to the laws of Ky.
I would like to know why our men leaders voted 16 instead of 18.
There again, Men probably made that law and if you agree with that then you are sick too. And to "UMM" yeah it didn't work out because you probably thought (being young and naive as you were) he loved you as well.. I'm sure you thought the sun set and rose in his butt , I too felt the same way about my 22yr. old lover. He also told me he loved me and got me pregnant and I didn't see him again. But you were not the adult-He was and he knows better. You may think it was all ok now but when you have children especially little girls. You will feel different about this. If my child gets involved with a grown man, just let me say he's picked the wrong one and has had a BAD DAY!!!
Fred

Macon, GA

#22 May 7, 2009
Hey sick, the girls parents approved, and would give me notes so she could be with me after curfew, back when Paris had one they enforced, but it is true that 16 is the age of consent in Ky, that is if the parents approve, if they contact the police you are arrested for parental interference instead of statutory rape. Believe me I shecked befor dating a 17 year old when I was 22, asked a cop myself.
Fred

Macon, GA

#23 May 7, 2009
sick wrote:
<quoted text>You are a sick twisted little pervert!
Hey she liked that about me, alot!

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