Truth

Tampa, FL

#1 Oct 23, 2012
I just wanted to tell all the young and confused girls out there not to give up hope, that you will find a good man if you give it time. I have been through a lot and personally know how deeply you can love someone who is horrible for you or treats you very wrong. God bless you young girls. If you need to talk or have questions or whatever just reply and I'm sure we can help each other.
Kazi

Bellevue, WA

#2 Oct 23, 2012
My daughter just got out of a really bad relationship with a total loser. He made her believe that he was the only one that cared and tried to turn her family against her.But in the end we are still here for her...We are happy to say he's gone and will never come back in our lives...My daughter could use support from people like you thanks.....from a loving concerned father....
Truth

Tampa, FL

#3 Oct 23, 2012
The exact same thing happened to me. Made me think he was the only one I needed...

Well, he did that to her b/c he was scared to lose her (your daughter) and wanted to iscolate her from everything and everyone to keep her to his self. That is a huge sign of insecurity and lack of self esteem which is a very dangerous trait in a relationship. Some girls think that's the way the guy shows he cares but that's just a controlling trait of an abuser.I don't even have to know the situation to know this stuff.

She will be fine. She needs a lot of fun times with her friends right now and to stay busy to keep her mind of him and maybe some guy friends to tell her how dumb and stupid her ex really is!!But don't push her too hard in any direction b/c she will turn in the wrong direction. Just take it from someone who knows!

Lots of love!
Kazi

Bellevue, WA

#4 Oct 23, 2012
I hear exactly what you are saying.I got tired of hearing him accusing her of seeing other people when the whole time she was spending time with her family.I hate to admit i used to be like him when i was young and stupid.I feel really bad still for all the wrong i've done.I tried to even give him advice to follow but he chose not to....but he chose his own path.So now we are all so much happier without him in our lives...we must pick up the pieces and move on...I'm just glad she has the freedom to hang out with friends and family....Thanks for the support.
yea

Paris, KY

#5 Oct 23, 2012
you have to be happy by yourself before you will be happy with anyone else.i was a young girl thought i needed to have a guy in my life to be happy,and i was unhappy with him and i didnt care because he was there. then one day i was made to be alone, and i learned i could do it alone and was happy again without him, and now take no crap off anyone. not a good thing to have kids and a different man each week being around your child either.
to you

Paris, KY

#6 Oct 24, 2012
Unfortunately too many people depend on others to complete or make their happiness for them instead of finding it on their own! The person thinks they're just going to "die of loneliness" if somebody doesn't go out of their way to make them happy. So sick of immature people that only want to cry about all the failed relationships they've had which included putting scumbag men in front of their kids and expecting something wonderful to come out of it! Tighten up and go out and make your own happiness and see if that works better. You might be surprised!
Disgusted

Richmond, KY

#7 Nov 26, 2012
Women can be as slutty as men. my wife is f------ a guy young enough to be her son and still married to me.over 20 yrs of marriage gone down the tube. oh well life goes on.
knows

Lexington, KY

#8 Nov 26, 2012
My man almost 7yrs and we have 2 daughters. He's been sleeping with a girl down the road from my family. Claims that he isn't. But when he tells me that he's going to work and he goes down her house. I ride by catching them sittin outside. Then tonight he leave my family's house and goes down the road to her house - says he is going home - the he is there for over an hour and calls to say the car broke down. It did. Then when confronted he says that it started breaking down but he drove to her house. My family's house is closer then her house was. When they arrive to pick him up and he knew they were coming. They honk the horn. He doesn't come out. I call no one answers. So I call her moms cell phone. Her mom doesn't even know he is at the house. So she calls her daughter ( the girl ) to tell him the family is outside to pick him up. Really he denies it. But honestly it's common sense he is sleeping with her.
what

Bellevue, WA

#9 Nov 26, 2012
KNOWS...That is so sad to hear...Luv them babies, At least they have one good parent
Sandy

Duluth, GA

#10 Nov 27, 2012
knows wrote:
My man almost 7yrs and we have 2 daughters. He's been sleeping with a girl down the road from my family. Claims that he isn't. But when he tells me that he's going to work and he goes down her house. I ride by catching them sittin outside. Then tonight he leave my family's house and goes down the road to her house - says he is going home - the he is there for over an hour and calls to say the car broke down. It did. Then when confronted he says that it started breaking down but he drove to her house. My family's house is closer then her house was. When they arrive to pick him up and he knew they were coming. They honk the horn. He doesn't come out. I call no one answers. So I call her moms cell phone. Her mom doesn't even know he is at the house. So she calls her daughter ( the girl ) to tell him the family is outside to pick him up. Really he denies it. But honestly it's common sense he is sleeping with her.
Why bother calling her or her mother? Do you really want to be with someone that acts like that? Let him go on honey, he isn't worth the time.
No worth it

Richmond, KY

#11 Dec 2, 2012
No man us worth waiting for, especially if he is a cheater. Also a man should be stable.

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