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call me crazy

Boise, ID

#1 Feb 5, 2013
If you really really care about someone and they tell you they love you, but they're with someone else... Should you trust them?
Missy

Bowling Green, KY

#2 Feb 5, 2013
If they love u they would be with u.
chickadee

United States

#3 Feb 5, 2013
Nope! They tell you what you want to hear. The reality is, you're nothing more than a bootie call. Sorry!
call me crazy

Boise, ID

#4 Feb 5, 2013
chickadee wrote:
Nope! They tell you what you want to hear. The reality is, you're nothing more than a bootie call. Sorry!
We don't have sex...
Glenna

United States

#5 Feb 5, 2013
You answered your own question with your name
Hellnaw
#6 Feb 5, 2013
They are using you hunny and you probably deserve so much better. If he is with someone else and says he loves you but tells her he loves her to then his heart cant be in two places. Is he still having sex with the other person, does he still tell the other person he loves them too. I would just leave him alone. Its obvious your too good for him,
Huh
#7 Feb 5, 2013
Where is he at now with you or her. Does he go back in forth between the two of you? Sounds like he's confused. My questiion is do you know about one another. And if so why do you both allow that. Does he have a family with the other person? And is this something he's done previously? I mean once a cheater always a cheater. Do you financially provide anything for this person. Sounds like a dog to me and you should both drop em. But goodluck,
call me crazy

Boise, ID

#8 Feb 5, 2013
I think you're all right. The other person doesn't know about me. I don't financially support him at all. I think he just likes keeping me on the back burner just incase. He knows how I feel and if he lets go, I will move on. He is a cheater... I think I've answered my own questions here. Thanks so much
question

United States

#9 Feb 5, 2013
call me crazy wrote:
I think you're all right. The other person doesn't know about me. I don't financially support him at all. I think he just likes keeping me on the back burner just incase. He knows how I feel and if he lets go, I will move on. He is a cheater... I think I've answered my own questions here. Thanks so much
I don't know the situation, but if he told U he loved U when he was already with someone else then U should have ended it then. R they married/ kids? R they unhappy in their current relationship ? Does he really know how U feel ? Cheating is wrong, but U may not know all the facts. If U r having trouble letting go the talk with him about & let him know how U feel if he knows & wants 2 be with U then he would & if not move on. Sometimes being honest will set U & him free, but also bring U much closer as well, but don't let him play with ur feelings or U not play with his. Good Luck !
Huh
#10 Feb 5, 2013
He could be telling you and her the same thing. I mean look at the facts if he cheated on her with you then who will he cheat on you with. I think you should just move on. You shouldnt have to even second guess whether he wants you or her cause it shouldnt be you or her. Kick him to the curb cause YOU deserve to be the one and only. Not the backburner chick. Plus if he's with someone already thats just gonna make you look like a homewrecker especially if you knew his and the other persons situation. Goodluck finding the right one cause he sure in the hell dont sound like he is. You deserve nothing but the best so dont settle for less!
Huh
#11 Feb 5, 2013
Hunny you shouldnt hsve to seconf guess whether he want you or her cause it shouldnt be you or her.You also should let her know. She may think things are fine. And if he cheated on her with you, who will he cheat on you with. In relationships before that did he cheat on other girls as well. You deserve the best dont settle for less. I would just leave him be honestly cause in the end you will be the one hurting.
former crazy

United States

#12 Feb 5, 2013
These discussions always make one person or the other be the victim. The truth is they are both guilty. Regardless of how bad the husbands home life is or if he just wants to cheat, he should end it with his wife first before complicating his wife's life ans the other woman's life.
The other woman knows that he is married so why would she expect anything other than an affair? That is asking to be hurt. They were both looking for something or they wouldn't have found each other. Two broken people won't make one whole unit. One of the lessons some people never learn is this- if its not yours, leave it alone. If you grab something that you know is hot, why get upset when it burns you?
I'm not judging you. I've been right where you are.Decide on the type of life you want and don't settle for less, but you might have to learn to say no to yourself and other people.
call me crazy

Boise, ID

#13 Feb 5, 2013
That's what I'm most afraid of!! Is getting treated how she is getting treated!! I've thought about telling her but I don't think that would stop him from doing it again. Some women insist on learning the hard way. I don't wanna be that person. Since he has been with her, I've tried to avoid him because I refuse to be a relationship wrecker.
Wayne

Versailles, KY

#14 Feb 5, 2013
Josh?
call me crazy

Tucker, GA

#15 Feb 5, 2013
Wayne wrote:
Josh?
No. That's not his name
dont assume

United States

#16 Feb 6, 2013
call me crazy wrote:
<quoted text>No. That's not his name
Then what is his name, initials, something! Or what about yours? You might be assuming also!
dont assume

United States

#17 Feb 6, 2013
call me crazy wrote:
I think you're all right. The other person doesn't know about me. I don't financially support him at all. I think he just likes keeping me on the back burner just incase. He knows how I feel and if he lets go, I will move on. He is a cheater... I think I've answered my own questions here. Thanks so much
Are you two even together? I mean if you two aren't together then how is he cheating? As for your feelings have you talked to him? I mean you might be assuming things. YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM!
call me crazy

Grayslake, IL

#18 Feb 7, 2013
dont assume wrote:
<quoted text>Are you two even together? I mean if you two aren't together then how is he cheating? As for your feelings have you talked to him? I mean you might be assuming things. YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM!
No we aren't together, but he had cheated and wants to! I'm not assuming anything. He just wants some bootie on the side (which he won't get) and have his little relationship too.. I was giving him the benefit of my belief until I really thought about it. I'm in love with him but it will never happen. I know that now
call me crazy

Grayslake, IL

#19 Feb 7, 2013
I finally realized that he "thinks" he has something over me.. He likes that I still love him, so he keeps me hanging on. The thing is, his true colors are showing and I don't find myself wanting him anymore
Wtfe

Berea, KY

#20 Feb 7, 2013
Not leavin u ass hangin! Ain't wit no one so run u mouth sum more

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