Cheat or Not Cheat
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Hmmm

Kennett, MO

#1 Apr 18, 2013
I have been in a relationship for a few years we split up a couple times and got back together he of course has been with numerous other women but I have stayed true. I am not getting the affection nor the attention I want. So do I cheat or not? He is indifferent to my needs and cares only for his own. I have never cheated but am considering it.
fyi

Paragould, AR

#2 Apr 18, 2013
Hmmm wrote:
I have been in a relationship for a few years we split up a couple times and got back together he of course has been with numerous other women but I have stayed true. I am not getting the affection nor the attention I want. So do I cheat or not? He is indifferent to my needs and cares only for his own. I have never cheated but am considering it.
Why cheat? If you're not happy... Leave! Is that in any way confusing?
guest 3

United States

#3 Apr 18, 2013
fyi wrote:
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Why cheat? If you're not happy... Leave! Is that in any way confusing?
you sure get around I didn't know dr. phil gave advice on topics
icuho

United States

#4 Apr 18, 2013
Hmmm wrote:
I have been in a relationship for a few years we split up a couple times and got back together he of course has been with numerous other women but I have stayed true. I am not getting the affection nor the attention I want. So do I cheat or not? He is indifferent to my needs and cares only for his own. I have never cheated but am considering it.
Who r u tring to fool...lmao...What other women??? U have slept with more guys behind his back than i can count on both hands....
Imsorry

United States

#5 Apr 18, 2013
If he has cheated on you and you know for sure he has,WHY are you not gone?Life is to short to be a door matt have respect for your self and leave find someone who will have respect for u as a woman to treat you rite
Hmmm

Kennett, MO

#6 Apr 18, 2013
icuho wrote:
<quoted text>Who r u tring to fool...lmao...What other women??? U have slept with more guys behind his back than i can count on both hands....
You don't even know who I am and I have never cheated on him or anyone else thank you very much.
Imsorry

United States

#7 Apr 18, 2013
I been cheated on and it hurts.You do not want to be with someone that you do not trust or always wonder whan he says he going to do something be back,what he is really doing.Your better than him do not stoop to his level and cheat,walk away and find someone that will treat u way u deserve to be
guest

United States

#8 Apr 18, 2013
Don't cheat ...
gotcha12

Paragould, AR

#9 Apr 18, 2013
paybacks isnt the answer, if you have proof that he has cheated on you, i would just leave and find you a true man that will love u and trust you and care bout you the way you are, and not what you have or can give.. hold ur head up high and do what is right and leave him if he really has cheated... God Bless you have a great day :)
Hmmmm II

United States

#10 Apr 18, 2013
Hmmm wrote:
I have been in a relationship for a few years we split up a couple times and got back together he of course has been with numerous other women but I have stayed true. I am not getting the affection nor the attention I want. So do I cheat or not? He is indifferent to my needs and cares only for his own. I have never cheated but am considering it.
What has been the reason for the on again off again relationship ?
Guest

Paragould, AR

#11 Apr 18, 2013
JMO if you have split a couple of times and are thinking of cheating. Seems something is missing in the relationship and either one or both is not happy. If you are thinking of cheating, its time to leave. Cheating is not away to go, it is morally incorrect. Don't keep hanging in to something that is not there. Leave and find you someone that you will not feel the urge to cheat on.that will give you what you are looking for
sotrue

Trumann, AR

#12 Apr 19, 2013
Just leave...it's not worth compromising you're morals and self respect. If you're unhappy and your needs are not being met most likely it will never change. Leave start over with someone who thinks enough of you to stand beside you 100 percent!

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#13 Apr 19, 2013
If he has cheated why not.

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#14 Apr 19, 2013
I might add that being cheated on is one of the top ten reason women cheat. Plus women never have the Big O with a cheater.

You might meet someone you like a lot better than him and if he is cheating it will be easy not to get caught. He will be too busy to pay attention to what you are doing.

It gets old not having your needs met. I don't know about you but the affection and being told I'm loved is more important than sex and sex loses it without it.
Hmmm

Kennett, MO

#15 Apr 19, 2013
Opala wrote:
I might add that being cheated on is one of the top ten reason women cheat. Plus women never have the Big O with a cheater.
You might meet someone you like a lot better than him and if he is cheating it will be easy not to get caught. He will be too busy to pay attention to what you are doing.
It gets old not having your needs met. I don't know about you but the affection and being told I'm loved is more important than sex and sex loses it without it.
Truth is I just want to feel loved. I have asked him to leave and he refuses too. I don't want to cheat but am tired of.living without love.
ooooooooweee

United States

#16 Apr 19, 2013
Hmmm wrote:
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Truth is I just want to feel loved. I have asked him to leave and he refuses too. I don't want to cheat but am tired of.living without love.
you dang right!!! Ho
Guest

United States

#17 Apr 19, 2013
Opala wrote:
I might add that being cheated on is one of the top ten reason women cheat. Plus women never have the Big O with a cheater.

You might meet someone you like a lot better than him and if he is cheating it will be easy not to get caught. He will be too busy to pay attention to what you are doing.

It gets old not having your needs met. I don't know about you but the affection and being told I'm loved is more important than sex and sex loses it without it.
Yeah an when women cheat. The Big O is just about guaranteed.
lookout

United States

#18 Apr 19, 2013
Guest wrote:
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Yeah an when women cheat. The Big O is just about guaranteed.
yeah and so is karma!
Guest

United States

#19 Apr 19, 2013
lookout wrote:
<quoted text>yeah and so is karma!
Yep karma is why a woman would cheat. What goes around comes around.
lookout

United States

#20 Apr 19, 2013
I want you to remember you said those words.....remember....when u look in the miror u c a thef ....one who takes and never takes on the blame....U just remember u said those words.

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