should u date ur ex wife

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good guy

Jonesboro, AR

#1 Sep 29, 2008
how careful should u be
Crazy

Paragould, AR

#2 Sep 29, 2008
Ppl go through rought times... The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Maybe you have to lose a person before you can start over fresh. I would be cautious, but open up your heart/mind to the possibilites. I wouldn't rush things, just enjoy the time you spend together and see where it goes.
Anon

United States

#3 Sep 29, 2008
Don't date her. It's a lost cause. Why did you break up? Was she cheating on you? No? Then by all means, date her. Just make sure to have sex with her by the end of the night and then blow her off.
NOt

Barnesville, OH

#4 Sep 29, 2008
good guy wrote:
how careful should u be
Dating your ex is a horrible idea. Seriously, you need to rethink this decision. The relationship apparently did not work the first time. Why would you think it would work the second??????????
guest

Paragould, AR

#5 Sep 29, 2008
I had a friend explain it to me like this... "Dating your ex is like taking the milk out of the fridge taking a drink... it's sour so you put it in the trash! Couple of days later you pull it out of the trash thinking it is going to taste better! and honey it is still sour and now it is just rotten!"
Hope

Paragould, AR

#6 Sep 29, 2008
Has no one any hope for exes dating? Does anyone have a story where reconciliation was a success?
good guy

Jonesboro, AR

#7 Sep 29, 2008
well i dont have any bad baggage with my ex at she is a very good person we just had a few minor things to work out i really think it can work crazy it sounds like u no what ur talking about
better think twice

United States

#8 Sep 29, 2008
good guy wrote:
well i dont have any bad baggage with my ex at she is a very good person we just had a few minor things to work out i really think it can work crazy it sounds like u no what ur talking about
listen to your heart. if YOU want to be with your exwife,then go for it. But if you are happier without her,just tell her. If she is a good person, then she will want you to be true to yourself...even if its not what she had hoped for.
Depends

Paragould, AR

#9 Sep 29, 2008
I think its ok to date your ex.
Crazy

Paragould, AR

#10 Sep 29, 2008
good guy wrote:
well i dont have any bad baggage with my ex at she is a very good person we just had a few minor things to work out i really think it can work crazy it sounds like u no what ur talking about
It helps when there is no bad baggage to work through. Everyone needs a MAJOR reality check every once in a while. Sounds like maybe that happened with you and your ex.:) I hope so anyway..... Maybe you need to call her and tell her you love her. That always helps.
good guy

Jonesboro, AR

#11 Sep 29, 2008
crazy i think we should meet what ya think
cool snacks

Paragould, AR

#12 Sep 29, 2008
wife and me broke up, realized there was nothing better out there than what we already had, missed each other like crazy. worked thinks out, now we are remarried and never been happier. sometimes you don't know what ya got till it's gone.
Crazy

Paragould, AR

#14 Sep 29, 2008
good guy wrote:
crazy i think we should meet what ya think
LOL. I think so too... What are you doing tonight?
hey

Lumberton, TX

#15 Sep 29, 2008
i think it is stupid. really if they cheated the first time do you actually think they are going to change. if they treated you like crap they are not going to change go on with your life and find somkeone better and that would treat you like your the best thing that happen. go on with your life!
Guest

United States

#16 Sep 29, 2008
My ex and myself were together ten years- And started dating after we were seperated. Come to find out he was also dating another girl and got her pregnant. So, it caused nothing but heartache in our situation because now THEY live in "our"/ his house with a child.
good guy

Jonesboro, AR

#17 Sep 29, 2008
my ex didnt cheat or treat me like crap we just didnt devote enough time to each other
Guest

United States

#18 Sep 29, 2008
good guy wrote:
my ex didnt cheat or treat me like crap we just didnt devote enough time to each other
Yeah, that is kind of the way he and I were. We were best friends since we were kids and now we don't even talk. It ruined our friendship as well. He wanted to stay out drinking all hours of the night. I got sick of it one day and left. But, we never cheated on one another (I didn't and don't think he did).
Maybe it will work for you. You never know until you try. I will promise you one thing, if you don't (and you are at least considering it)- You will always wonder "what if"...
hurt

Barnesville, OH

#19 Sep 29, 2008
you definitely shouldnt date your ex while married to your current wife.
good guy

Jonesboro, AR

#20 Sep 29, 2008
thanks for the advice there is more to lose by not trying than to try
LOL

United States

#21 Sep 29, 2008
Just a word of advice...probably not a good idea to pick people up *cough*crazy*cough* while contemplating dating your ex. If you really wanted to work it out with her, you wouldn't be asking people on topix to meet.

That aside, no one on here can tell you if it's a good or bad idea. We don't know the facts, the history, etc. Only you can say. But the person that said you will always wonder...they are probably right.

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