desperate

United States

#1 Dec 7, 2008
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day. She says I can have sex with someone else but she would rather it be with another man because she wouldnt feel threatened. She knows I am bi-curious. I have not had sex with another person in about 8 years and im tired of masturbating. Should I turn bisexual or cheat on her with another woman?(I wouldnt know where to find a woman just for sex but she knows some gay men where she works that she wants to hook me up with.) I love my wife,but im only human.

“GAY RIGHTS!”

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Since: Nov 08

Poplar Bluff

#2 Dec 7, 2008
Well see if your wife's friend is hot... Never cheat. Never cause what goes around comes around and once a cheater always a cheater my friend.. you will grow a reputation ( Greg PYLE )... sorry guy that cheated on me...

Since: Oct 08

Here

#3 Dec 8, 2008
She needs to get her hormones checked. Just because she is in menopause does not mean the sexual urge is not there..Its her hormone levels that are not in check. Once she knows what hormone is lacking the sex should come back.
Deb

Monette, AR

#4 Dec 8, 2008
Ashley1234 wrote:
She needs to get her hormones checked. Just because she is in menopause does not mean the sexual urge is not there..Its her hormone levels that are not in check. Once she knows what hormone is lacking the sex should come back.
Ashley1234 join us on the "Public sexual display" thread.
UmmaGumma

Gregory, AR

#5 Dec 8, 2008
desperate wrote:
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day. She says I can have sex with someone else but she would rather it be with another man because she wouldnt feel threatened. She knows I am bi-curious. I have not had sex with another person in about 8 years and im tired of masturbating. Should I turn bisexual or cheat on her with another woman?(I wouldnt know where to find a woman just for sex but she knows some gay men where she works that she wants to hook me up with.) I love my wife,but im only human.
Your wife should ask her doctor about hormone therapy. I've had a complete hysterectomy, and because of low hormone levels, I have no sex drive either. Luckily, I'm single and happy. However, when I occassionally take my hormone replacement pills, my libido is back up to its normal level. Normal level for me is just a notch or two below nymphomania, LOL.
who

United States

#6 Dec 10, 2008
wont to bet
LOL

United States

#7 Dec 10, 2008
desperate wrote:
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day. She says I can have sex with someone else but she would rather it be with another man because she wouldnt feel threatened. She knows I am bi-curious. I have not had sex with another person in about 8 years and im tired of masturbating. Should I turn bisexual or cheat on her with another woman?(I wouldnt know where to find a woman just for sex but she knows some gay men where she works that she wants to hook me up with.) I love my wife,but im only human.
Thats to funny...and kinda sick...
Shes the one with the problem...DON"T blame the hormones thats a cop out. Your either straight or gay. HMM if she hooks you up, you may decided you like the other side of the fence better, then she will be all mad and jealous, make you out to be the bad guy and she gets off the hook out of the marriage. THEN everyone knows you and your secrets.
mel

San Antonio, TX

#8 Feb 13, 2009
desperate wrote:
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day. She says I can have sex with someone else but she would rather it be with another man because she wouldnt feel threatened. She knows I am bi-curious. I have not had sex with another person in about 8 years and im tired of masturbating. Should I turn bisexual or cheat on her with another woman?(I wouldnt know where to find a woman just for sex but she knows some gay men where she works that she wants to hook me up with.) I love my wife,but im only human.
i think you should cheat on her its not your fault she doesnt want to have sex anymore.
Yes

Jonesboro, AR

#9 Feb 13, 2009
I think ya'll need couples counseling. The menopause is just an excuse because every woman in the world goes through it and it doesn't stop their sex drive--or if it does, they do something about it. If she is not getting help for it, she just don't want you any more.
The other poster is right--if you have sex with someone else, she will make sure everybody knows it and you are the bad guy.
UmmaGumma

Paragould, AR

#10 Feb 14, 2009
Yes wrote:
I think ya'll need couples counseling. The menopause is just an excuse because every woman in the world goes through it and it doesn't stop their sex drive--or if it does, they do something about it. If she is not getting help for it, she just don't want you any more.
The other poster is right--if you have sex with someone else, she will make sure everybody knows it and you are the bad guy.
Menopause is not just an excuse. As a matter of fact, nature had not intended for women to live much longer after the cessation of menstruation. Because of advances in medicine and technology, women are now living much longer than nature had intended, and as a result, menopause and even hysterectomies are now an issue that women are left to deal with. If you do not believe me, do a little research and find out for yourself instead of posting opinions based solely on your lack of knowledge.
tex

Fairmont, WV

#11 Feb 14, 2009
desperate wrote:
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day. She says I can have sex with someone else but she would rather it be with another man because she wouldnt feel threatened. She knows I am bi-curious. I have not had sex with another person in about 8 years and im tired of masturbating. Should I turn bisexual or cheat on her with another woman?(I wouldnt know where to find a woman just for sex but she knows some gay men where she works that she wants to hook me up with.) I love my wife,but im only human.
if you want to have sex with another man, you are not human, you are a perverted idiot
little gay boi

United States

#13 Feb 15, 2009
desperate wrote:
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day.
go to your doctor, or your wife's doctor, and explain to him/her, in your own words, your definition of "mentapause". It almost sounds like something you'd do while brushing your teeth, the pause, maybe, between brushing and rinsing? no wait, that would be mintapause. I'm really CURIOUS!
Curious

Jonesboro, AR

#14 Nov 13, 2013
Where did Greg Pyle work and isn't he gay? I heard he lives in Jonesboro and has a new boyfriend living with him and his parents.......anyone know anything about this guy?
soilfarm

Spring Branch, TX

#15 Nov 13, 2013
Curious wrote:
Where did Greg Pyle work and isn't he gay? I heard he lives in Jonesboro and has a new boyfriend living with him and his parents.......anyone know anything about this guy?
From 2008 rere

Level 6

Since: Mar 13

Location hidden

#16 Nov 14, 2013
Hate to tell you this but once you hit menopause your ovaries stop functioning and producing the hormones that give you the urge to have sex and the result is you lose that urge to have sex.

You can take hormone replacement but there are some serious side effects with it. Like heart attack, stroke, cancer, blood clots.

If your with someone that has always been faithful caring and kind you should do your best for them. If they haven't been faithful though and you can't have a orgasm or get even a I love you out of them sex can turn into a job. Just saying.
Paragould guest

United States

#17 Nov 14, 2013
Opala wrote:
Hate to tell you this but once you hit menopause your ovaries stop functioning and producing the hormones that give you the urge to have sex and the result is you lose that urge to have sex.
You can take hormone replacement but there are some serious side effects with it. Like heart attack, stroke, cancer, blood clots.
If your with someone that has always been faithful caring and kind you should do your best for them. If they haven't been faithful though and you can't have a orgasm or get even a I love you out of them sex can turn into a job. Just saying.
just to let you know it's not only a problem for the man it is a problem for the woman as well but you have to talk about it and deal with it
guest

Lockhart, TX

#18 Nov 14, 2013
desperate wrote:
What should I do? My wife wont have sex anymore because of mentapause,but I still get hard every day. She says I can have sex with someone else but she would rather it be with another man because she wouldnt feel threatened. She knows I am bi-curious. I have not had sex with another person in about 8 years and im tired of masturbating. Should I turn bisexual or cheat on her with another woman?(I wouldnt know where to find a woman just for sex but she knows some gay men where she works that she wants to hook me up with.) I love my wife,but im only human.
she's probably screwing some other dude. Find someone else.
who cares

Paragould, AR

#19 Nov 15, 2013
tell her to get a hormone shot, they make Viagra for women and a cream to use. I get hormone shots monthly and my sex drive is high and I am a parapalegic and thank the Lord that part didn't get paralyzed. I actually enjoy sex now and don't see it slowing down anytime soon.. she needs to get a hormone shot and Viagra or Cialis,talk to her doctor. I am not a counseler, but I will firmly back the hormone shot 100%. good luck to the both of ya.

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soilfarm

Spring Branch, TX

#20 Nov 15, 2013
who cares wrote:
tell her to get a hormone shot, they make Viagra for women and a cream to use. I get hormone shots monthly and my sex drive is high and I am a parapalegic and thank the Lord that part didn't get paralyzed. I actually enjoy sex now and don't see it slowing down anytime soon.. she needs to get a hormone shot and Viagra or Cialis,talk to her doctor. I am not a counseler, but I will firmly back the hormone shot 100%. good luck to the both of ya.

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Considering it was from 08 I doubt he cares

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