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soon to be single

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#163 Dec 12, 2012
Shes not asking for herself its about a 9 year old kid..my god sbow some compassion.if you cant just shuf up you.heartless ass.
soon to be single

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#164 Dec 12, 2012
Your the biggest dickhead ive ever seen on here...just shut up and go back to your hole
soon to be single

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#165 Dec 12, 2012
help wrote:
<quoted text> I know this girl is awesome cause she always has idiots like you that can't handle some honesty and a blunt woman. Oh what a real man you must be. Is your d!ck rubber cause so far you're just another man that got molded wrong! Sounds a bit like you May also have a small one cause most "men" try to over compensate with a horrible attitude. It really is a horrible disease that spreads rapidly... You May wanna look into that.
hahahahahahaha !!!!!
girl

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#166 Dec 12, 2012
Get over your seft already.
The Laptop Lolita wrote:
You know truth hurts, I can almost see why the father has chose to move on & banish you from their lives. Can you be anymore negative & plain cruel if you tried? Really? And no dear, that isn't how it ALWAYS works. I just counted on my fingers how many women & men I know who are in the same situation & ARE partaking in their stepchildrens lives though divorced from the other parent. Every family dynamic is different & lumping them all together calling YOUR outcome factual is ignorant. It sounds like you just gave up with not having time & using "conflict" as an excuse. It's not that uncomfortable to be around the "new" one. I've been doing it for years. They keep changing, while I'm still around. Got a sweet deal out of my break up.... kids who actually have more to do with me than their biological father & they're grown now. You've done nothing but bust this girls balls from post to post & for what? You want some cold hard truth? It d@mn near takes a village to raise a child, the more the better. There's no such thing as too many people loving & caring for a kid. That's the truth. One has to be "grown up" enough to put petty differences aside & realize you're on the same side when it comes to kids. Apparently that didn't happen with you. Sounds like you just couldn't let the pain of the relationship go & deal with it while still parenting. That's you, not her or the rest of the world.
Christmas Spirit

Paragould, AR

#167 Dec 12, 2012
darlene wrote:
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I understand you are trying to be "real" but that came out as very nasty. My family accepted him as theirs from day 1, happily. Why is it so hard to believe that he could be loved by someone not biologically related to him? My ex is very strange about money matters. Actually money and our difference in opinion on its importance was a main source of tension. But he would never deny me my son! Even if he wanted to, Evan will be 9 next month, old enough to say "I want to see my mom". We couldn't make our marriage work although we tried hard for 8 years, but we wouldn't EVER make our child pay for our mistakes. I hope he does indeed have a girlfriend next year at this time, as he is deserving of love (though not with me). That would not change the fact that a mother is a mother, rights or no rights, blood or no blood, money or no money. To suggest I am less his mother bc I did not give birth to him is hurtful.
I don't think *Really* was implying your family wouldn't love your kid because you didn't give birth to him but was asking you if they were close enough to him to want to help. Maybe you are feeling defensive and it seemed nasty when you read it. I'm sure what *Really* said might have hurt you but most divorces are hurtful and kids are usually in the middle being used.*Really* wasn't saying you are *less of a mother*, but if the father decides to cut you out of the picture there isn't much you could do. Even if your son wants to see you unless he can do it without his dad's consent. I hope your X will always encourage your relationship with your son. From mother to mother good luck I hope things get better for you.
Im Old Greg

Paragould, AR

#168 Dec 13, 2012
The Laptop Lolita wrote:
You know truth hurts, I can almost see why the father has chose to move on & banish you from their lives. Can you be anymore negative & plain cruel if you tried? Really? And no dear, that isn't how it ALWAYS works. I just counted on my fingers how many women & men I know who are in the same situation & ARE partaking in their stepchildrens lives though divorced from the other parent. Every family dynamic is different & lumping them all together calling YOUR outcome factual is ignorant. It sounds like you just gave up with not having time & using "conflict" as an excuse. It's not that uncomfortable to be around the "new" one. I've been doing it for years. They keep changing, while I'm still around. Got a sweet deal out of my break up.... kids who actually have more to do with me than their biological father & they're grown now. You've done nothing but bust this girls balls from post to post & for what? You want some cold hard truth? It d@mn near takes a village to raise a child, the more the better. There's no such thing as too many people loving & caring for a kid. That's the truth. One has to be "grown up" enough to put petty differences aside & realize you're on the same side when it comes to kids. Apparently that didn't happen with you. Sounds like you just couldn't let the pain of the relationship go & deal with it while still parenting. That's you, not her or the rest of the world.
I'm Old Greg...and you are full of sh!t!

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#169 Dec 13, 2012
darlene wrote:
I am newly divorced and as you can imagine money is very tight. I want to be able to give my stepson a few gifts for Christmas but there isn't anything left over after after I pay my bills. I am
Not on welfare and I never have been. I've never asked for help before but I need it now. I know that some churches and organizations help out with children's Christmas gifts however with mine being a stepson (I've raised since he was a year old, he's 9 now) I don't know if I qualify. Please if you have any information on this let me know. I would not be asking if I didn't need to!
Try donating plasma or blood. You'll earn about $30-40, if not more, for an hour and a half of your time, which could save some ones life. You can donate twice a week and should have enough time to earn $100 at minimum for Christmas. No offense, even if I had extra cash, I wouldn't give you or anybody on this site my money, since 99% of people that make requests like yours are thieving scammers. Not saying you are, Im really not, but you are a stranger on the internet asking for money.*shrugs*
Good luck.
guest

Paragould, AR

#170 Dec 14, 2012
I have a question I was thinking of that not for the money I have always just gave blood but one question I have been told by my dr I have high sugar so could that stop for the donation
guest

Paragould, AR

#171 Dec 14, 2012
guest wrote:
I have a question I was thinking of that not for the money I have always just gave blood but one question I have been told by my dr I have high sugar so could that stop for the donation
yes
morgana

Paragould, AR

#172 Dec 14, 2012
GUEST wrote:
<quoted text>Why don't you butt out -itch.You need to mind your own busines laplicker.
wow so harsh. And you spoke of church. Hum seems to me ya might want to get in touch with your higher power.

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