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That's because of the rabid rejection of any connection between marriage and procreation by SSM zealots. It's hard to let it go by when someone insists they are not at all related. Most of the government perks for marriage are based on raising children.
I say it is dumb and wrong to deny the connection. Much better to say, yes they are related but irrelevant. And that ssm couples often have children too.
There is no "rabid rejection" by SSM proponants. It is "rabid self-delusion" by SSM opponents that marriage ONLY has to do with raising children and that children are ONLY raised by hetero couples.
You need to take this argument up with them.