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Truth Hurts

Duluth, GA

#1 Jan 23, 2013
If he wants u to be his and only his he will marry u. He will want to as soon as he has the chance. If he doesn't care to marry u especially after many years its plain to see that he doesn't really care if u walk or not. Women in this situation know this deep down. What's the hold up? Ur lame excuses no one is buying. Oh and no one here wants him btw. It's just sad how pitiful ur making some women look.

Since: Nov 12

United States

#2 Jan 23, 2013
Instead of posting this generically why don't you really say who this is meant for?????
Truth Hurts

Princeton, KY

#3 Jan 23, 2013
Because I don't feel like and it's true for the majority.
truth is

Chicago, IL

#4 Jan 23, 2013
I was married for 4 years and when shit got rough it was over he was done. As was I. If you truly love them don't give up. Take time and realize. What you have before it gone.
Truth Hurts

Princeton, KY

#5 Jan 23, 2013
truth is wrote:
I was married for 4 years and when shit got rough it was over he was done. As was I. If you truly love them don't give up. Take time and realize. What you have before it gone.
I totally agree that both people have to work at it at times. But what does it say when two people have been together for many years and its clear that the female would marry in a split second yet they still just live together? Women that aren't married have to face the fact that they aren't anyone wife! When the guy could walk at any point and owe her nothing then u aren't married! Oh and Ky isn't a state that has common law marriage! So u can't claim to be a wife that way either! having a a kid with them doesn't make u a wife either. If u do that is. If that's the case then at least in one case he has another wife as well lol. Remember he has a kid with another woman to!

Since: Nov 12

United States

#6 Jan 23, 2013
If the couple are in a monogomous relationship living life as a married couple,faithful and happy then I don't see where it is any of your business to worry about it. The only thing that would change with them being married is her name(if she chooses) and a piece of paper. Marriage is not viewed the same today as it used to be and frankly i believe if it aint broke don't try to fix it.
Truth Hurts

Princeton, KY

#7 Jan 23, 2013
It's still viewed the same in the bible. U aren't married are u? Lol
happily ever after

Metropolis, IL

#8 Jan 23, 2013
2 points to make. 1st --marriage according to you and the government?? Or marriage according to the union of two souls finally coming together to complete one whole. Regardless of what anyone else thinks about their arrangement.
2nd--biblically all sin is equal... As in casting your judgement on what others do is just as bad in the eyes of our creator as living together and not being married the way u say it should happen.

Pop.sizzle.fizzzzz
Truth Hurts

Madisonville, KY

#9 Jan 23, 2013
Good grief lol when did I say it was worse than any other sin? And the person I'm talking about wants desperately to be married, the governments way lol. But she isn't so of her own idea of marriage she can't really call herself a wife. She isn't one. By her own definition of one! My point is quit being pathetically desperate. Drop the guy who clearly doesn't care about u enough to make the commitment and find one that u love and will. Simple for those who have any kind of brain at all!
Truth Hurts

Madisonville, KY

#10 Jan 23, 2013
And she casts PLENTY of judgements of others!
Truth Hurts

Madisonville, KY

#11 Jan 23, 2013
Two souls coming together? He's cheated for years. Give me a break.
happily ever after

Metropolis, IL

#12 Jan 23, 2013
Truth Hurts wrote:
Two souls coming together? He's cheated for years. Give me a break.
Again with the judgement and pouting out others faults... I am head over heels in love but I'm not convinced I ever want to be married again bc I don't want to put my child in the line of fire for another nasty break up or divorce. I guess I'll just be on someone's shit list bc I don't live up to their standards... Bc clearly there is only one way to do things correctly and we should all come to you to make sure we r living up to your standards...
Truth Hurts

United States

#13 Jan 24, 2013
happily ever after wrote:
<quoted text>Again with the judgement and pouting out others faults... I am head over heels in love but I'm not convinced I ever want to be married again bc I don't want to put my child in the line of fire for another nasty break up or divorce. I guess I'll just be on someone's shit list bc I don't live up to their standards... Bc clearly there is only one way to do things correctly and we should all come to you to make sure we r living up to your standards...
Yeah yeah yeah. I don't know who u are and don't care. I'm judgmental. Ur bitter about something obviously. Sin is sin. Wether I judge or u live adulterously. It's still sin. And yes according to the bible there is one way of marriage. We're not going to after and I couldn't care less. I'm laughing at u for getting so mad. Calm down.
Truth Hurts

United States

#14 Jan 24, 2013
P.S. I'm sure he is just fine with the no marriage clause in it relationship lol
happily ever after

Metropolis, IL

#15 Jan 24, 2013
We discussed it a came to the decision we r getting married in Jamaica in the spring.
um about that.

Metropolis, IL

#16 Jan 24, 2013
Truth Hurts wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah yeah yeah. I don't know who u are and don't care. I'm judgmental. Ur bitter about something obviously. Sin is sin. Wether I judge or u live adulterously. It's still sin. And yes according to the bible there is one way of marriage. We're not going to after and I couldn't care less. I'm laughing at u for getting so mad. Calm down.
LMAO. Calm down? I'm enjoying this thread that you started...and telling someone else to chill. Go on girl. Sounds like you were hyper about the subject to start with and put yourself out there in Topix about someone else's biz anyway.
um about that.

Metropolis, IL

#17 Jan 24, 2013
happily ever after wrote:
We discussed it a came to the decision we r getting married in Jamaica in the spring.
Hahah. Well played.
inner thoughts

Los Angeles, CA

#18 Jan 24, 2013
theyre probly jealous cause they cant get them. scorned wanna be lover!
hmmm

Paducah, KY

#19 Jan 24, 2013
Marriage is only a piece of paper written by man, the ONLY reason it is SOOO important to women is because it gives them the right to take you to the cleaners anytime they want. If you love someone and they love you isnt it enough to just be with them,mans laws that go with being married is what makes getting married so unappealing for some people, its a shame that a man has to risk his livelyhood and future just to have that piece of paper. To me marriage is a sham and something I will NEVER do again !!!
happily ever after

United States

#20 Jan 24, 2013
hmmm wrote:
Marriage is only a piece of paper written by man, the ONLY reason it is SOOO important to women is because it gives them the right to take you to the cleaners anytime they want. If you love someone and they love you isnt it enough to just be with them,mans laws that go with being married is what makes getting married so unappealing for some people, its a shame that a man has to risk his livelyhood and future just to have that piece of paper. To me marriage is a sham and something I will NEVER do again !!!
Excellent point

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