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#21 May 29, 2012
I know men don't always see that they are wrong but women do the same thing. I will not give you advice one way or the other. You are just giving one side of the story. When people only get one side of the story it's usually going to make the other person out to be all at fault and there is no fault accepted by the one telling the story. It's the same way it works in our justice system

Since: Jan 11

Paducah, KY

#22 May 29, 2012
Women will listen to her and tell her to dump him,
they all have an ex that was just like him and their ex never changed so neither will he.

I have been on topix a very long time,when people start posting about relationship problems here,Bet for failure every time.
Nightingale

Paducah, KY

#23 May 30, 2012
NotSoHappy wrote:
I don't know what to think of the behavior. Obviously there's more I'm not going to get into on here. I just know one minute I have the sweetest guy, and with one wrong question he get's hateful. Never physical or name calling, but his whole demeanor just changes and he comes across as very angry. Is the silent treatment part of passive aggressive behavior? I wouldn't make such a big deal of this, but it's happened so much here lately. Maybe the "honeymoon" is over???
yes, what you describe is a form of verbal abuse. So is name-calling, belittling, the cold shoulder, jokes at your expense, putting you down privately or in front of family or friends, making fun of you especially in areas that he might know you're sensitive about, making you feel stupid when you try to talk with him, etc. abuse comes in many forms and usually doesn't get better with time, only worse. however, if it's just that he's snappy at you and it's a recent thing you might want to try to talk with him and find out if he's under undue stress at work or some other situation that is stressing him out. his mood changes and snappiness could also be a sign of drug use. lots to consider. try to talk with him, but if you can't get anywhere that way, you might want to consider cutting your losses and free yourself to find someone who will treat you the way you want and deserve. life is too short!
mom

Addison, IL

#24 May 30, 2012
Convicted Felon wrote:
Women will listen to her and tell her to dump him,
they all have an ex that was just like him and their ex never changed so neither will he.

I have been on topix a very long time,when people start posting about relationship problems here,Bet for failure every time.
If you notice I stated men and women both are capable of causing these problems in a relationship. Had the original poster been a man asking advice about his girlfriend acting this way my advice would have been exactly the same.
mom

Addison, IL

#25 May 30, 2012
Convicted Felon wrote:
Women will listen to her and tell her to dump him,
they all have an ex that was just like him and their ex never changed so neither will he.

I have been on topix a very long time,when people start posting about relationship problems here,Bet for failure every time.
when I typed under the name Kayla

Since: Jan 11

Paducah, KY

#26 May 30, 2012
mom wrote:
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If you notice I stated men and women both are capable of causing these problems in a relationship. Had the original poster been a man asking advice about his girlfriend acting this way my advice would have been exactly the same.
I wasnt talking to you kala.I was impressed with your response.
I went from professonal to hooker to get your attention.
I was speaking in general.
Im a pretty good judge or where a post is going.
This one will be on fire soon.
When the details and names come into play, it will even get more popular.
Once the problems you have in your relationship reach topix boards-
The relationship is over.
Kayla

Addison, IL

#27 May 30, 2012
Convicted Felon wrote:
<quoted text>I wasnt talking to you kala.I was impressed with your response.
I went from professonal to hooker to get your attention.
I was speaking in general.
Im a pretty good judge or where a post is going.
This one will be on fire soon.
When the details and names come into play, it will even get more popular.
Once the problems you have in your relationship reach topix boards-
The relationship is over.
Yeah you pretty much know the answer already if you're asking what others think you should do.

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