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White Plains, KY

#1 Feb 13, 2013
How do you deal with someone you love who is both bipolar and an alcoholic? I'm running out if patients and I don't wanna walk away from him like most of his friends and family.
Donald

Tucker, GA

#3 Feb 13, 2013
Has he been diagnosed as bipolar? How old his?
Renee

United States

#4 Feb 14, 2013
Are you married to him? I was married to one like that once. It's damn near impossible.
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Earlington, KY

#5 Feb 14, 2013
No I'm not married to him and I'm not sure if he is diagnosed or not. Early
30's. I'm starting to believe its impossible too. I don't want to be one of them people who walks away when it gets hard but he's keeping me torn up and making sleep hard to get. No we don't live together or have children together. I care about him but I also care about myself.
curious

Brighton, MO

#6 Feb 14, 2013
Are his initials K.L.?
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Earlington, KY

#7 Feb 14, 2013
No
Hmmm

Paducah, KY

#8 Feb 14, 2013
Are his initials BJ?
mz.hbic

Louisville, KY

#9 Feb 26, 2013
Nope
been there done that

Paducah, KY

#10 Feb 26, 2013
I live with some-one who is both also and going through the same [email protected] except we do live together and my advice is get out now before it is too late
mz.hbic

Louisville, KY

#11 Feb 26, 2013
Does it really not get any better?
truth

Romeoville, IL

#12 Feb 26, 2013
with a lot of work mostly on you. you can slow down the progression of violent behaviour but sadly will never be the same person you met in the beginning.
mz.hbic

Owensboro, KY

#13 Feb 26, 2013
That really sucks cause deep down I think he is a good guy. But I can't keep in this way.
been there done that

Paducah, KY

#14 Feb 26, 2013
mine has only gotten worse and now I can't really hang out with anyone who I was friends with before I met him don't see my family much and any friends I do make he finds something to not like or doesn't trust them don't want them in our house so on and so forth I have stayed because I do love the bipolar asshole but every woman has her limits
i hate people

Murfreesboro, TN

#15 Feb 26, 2013
he has to want help other wise your wasting your time,,,,, if and when he wakes up and see's everyone that meant anything in his life are gone then he may seek help but until he does its pointless
haha

Owensboro, KY

#16 Feb 26, 2013
He's already lost most of his friends and his mother won't help. She just makes excuses for him. He doesn't like me having friends at all an even gets pissed if I have something I have to do with one of my kids. It's always someone else's fault. Not only is he drinking all day everyday, he is also taking alot more of his nerve meds then he should. I can't babysit him round the clock and the more time that goes by, he starting to get an aggressive personality. I swore I wouldn't walk away from him but I'm afraid if I don't, somebody is gonna end up hurt. And I don't want it to me.
some guy

Tucker, GA

#17 Feb 27, 2013
Will he not go to counseling? There are low price/free programs out there. Some people feel that counseling is for the weak though. They usually need it the most.
some guy

Tucker, GA

#18 Feb 27, 2013
My wife has similar issues. She just recently admitted it to herself and is working to fix things. I hope your guy can too.
just curious

Hopkinsville, KY

#19 Feb 27, 2013
is it B.A.L.?
been there done that

Paducah, KY

#20 Feb 27, 2013
if his behavior is getting aggressive I would say get out now. it's not worth getting yourself hurt or worse what if he hurts one of your kids. please think about it. is he worth risking your kids?
hmmmm

United States

#21 Feb 27, 2013
Must be some reason you stay then!!! Always two sides to every song & dance.

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