why are men asses?
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Hurt

United States

#1 Feb 2, 2011
Is anything ever good enough to really please a man?
yes

Brentwood, TN

#2 Feb 2, 2011
Not all men are asses. There are some good guys out there. Im not sure what is going on in your situation, but maybe you guys need to sit down and have a talk. If that doesnt work then maybe its time to move on.
Hurtful

Nashville, TN

#3 Feb 2, 2011
Most guys are asses and will run over you if you let them.
Hurt

United States

#4 Feb 2, 2011
I just wonder sometimes why I devote so much time and energy to not be enough...
simplypolite

Brentwood, TN

#5 Feb 2, 2011
Guys act like that because we let them do it. Because when we're young we get told by our moms that when guys are mean to us it's because they like us. So they act like jerks because they get away with it.

One day you'll find a guy that really cares about you, and he won't act like that. In the meantime don't let people walk all over you. Tell your man to stop acting like a jerk and if he won't lose him, you're worth more than that.
Hurt

United States

#6 Feb 2, 2011
simplypolite wrote:
Guys act like that because we let them do it. Because when we're young we get told by our moms that when guys are mean to us it's because they like us. So they act like jerks because they get away with it.

One day you'll find a guy that really cares about you, and he won't act like that. In the meantime don't let people walk all over you. Tell your man to stop acting like a jerk and if he won't lose him, you're worth more than that.
Very true. I however am married to this man
Laura

Swanzey, NH

#7 May 7, 2012
I hate freggen men. married 2x and I filed for divorce 2x...never again. they are total asses and act like kids. who needs them? or more ....who the H wants them!
LAURAS SISTER

Swanzey, NH

#8 May 7, 2012
MEN ARE USERS, ABUSERS AND LAZY PIGS WHO WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE KIDS. NO THANK YOU. I WAS ENGAGED BUT AFTER WATCHING MY BROTHER IN LAWS, I BROKE IT OFF AND GLAD I DID CAUSE MY X MARRIED ANOTHER GIRL AND THEY SEPARATED AFTER TWO YEARS AND SHES LEFT WITH TWO KIDS TO RAISE ALONE AND HER DAUGHTER LOOKS JUST EXACTLY LIKE HIM.UGH WHAT A REMINDER. I MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR I HEARD HE CHEATED ON HER WITH OVER 3 WOMEN AND ALSO ANU HAD SEX WITH THEIR 14 YR OLD NEIGHBOR WHO RAN AWAY WITH HIM AND NOW HE ABUSES HER YET SHE STAYS; GLAD I SAID NO, NOT I DO.
Happy

Boynton Beach, FL

#9 May 8, 2012
Hurt wrote:
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Very true. I however am married to this man
Just cause your married to a man doesn't mean that you have to stay and put up with being unhappy or being treated badly!! I was married and my husband talked to me like a dog and cheated, so I finally got my belly full and I left!! I've dated a few assholes but I've also met some really good guys and have settled down with one!! It's so nice to be happy and treated with respect!! I'm not saying you should get a divorce right away, I spent 6 years in my marriage miserable and went to counseling and really tried but I got so depressed I knew I had to leave to find my own self worth again!! You need to do what makes you happy, don't do for others all the time, cause I promise you nobody is gonna try and make u happy but yourself!! Good luck!!
anonymous

Sesser, IL

#10 May 8, 2012
To Hurt. Are you married?

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#11 May 8, 2012
Hurtful wrote:
Most guys are asses and will run over you if you let them.
That's the key phrase here -- IF YOU LET THEM. You have to show a man AND a woman, that you're not going to let them get by with inconsiderate treatment of you. Once they know the rules, they will either act better or hit the road. If they hit the road -- good riddance. If they cannot respect you and be considerate, do you really need them?

Some men have to be taught to treat women better, and unless you open your mouth when they screw up, they think everything is okay. Men are different from women, period. They think differently. Some have gotten by with so much in previous relationships, they have to be shown that you're not like the rest. Believe me, he'll respect you more if you call him on his unacceptable behavior.
Yed

Paducah, KY

#12 May 9, 2012
HelenKenyon wrote:
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That's the key phrase here -- IF YOU LET THEM. You have to show a man AND a woman, that you're not going to let them get by with inconsiderate treatment of you. Once they know the rules, they will either act better or hit the road. If they hit the road -- good riddance. If they cannot respect you and be considerate, do you really need them?
Some men have to be taught to treat women better, and unless you open your mouth when they screw up, they think everything is okay. Men are different from women, period. They think differently. Some have gotten by with so much in previous relationships, they have to be shown that you're not like the rest. Believe me, he'll respect you more if you call him on his unacceptable behavior.
Yea, that is why you are divorced.

Best to take advise from some one that is a success at something than a failure at it.
Yed is correct

United States

#14 May 9, 2012
I agree with her totally! As soon as you give a man a taste of their own medicine, things will change drastically with him. If not move on...life is too short to be miserable!!
CT9A

Calhoun, KY

#15 May 9, 2012
I believe that many problems between men and women stem from trying to maintain monogamous relationships when as a species we aren't wired that way. It is quite difficult to deny our nature, but society has socialized us to believe that it is how things must be.

Do not misunderstand me though monogamy does have many advantages and is my personal preference but it is more difficult. Most people try to avoid things that are difficult.

Since: Oct 11

United States

#16 May 14, 2012
Men r a$$es bc they got a penis !!! Plain in simply
pop pop

United States

#17 May 14, 2012
THATS what Im TALKING about! The men you speak of have never matured past pulling hair and calling names! There are some of us out here that can see past our own noses.
pop pop

United States

#18 May 14, 2012
And by "noses", I mean penises, or is it penii? Lol

Since: Oct 11

United States

#19 May 14, 2012
O they have past all that... It's men who think they better then anywomen ... I have learned this state is full of them.. Men would rather chose GIRLS FROM THE PONY or street sluts bc they THINK they cool.. Then the men who want a relationship .. Either go bacc to their old fling or just jump on criagslist to see wat hoes r on there.. So we ( us women) r gettin tired of treating men like kings were we r treated like trash
Yed

Paducah, KY

#20 May 14, 2012
Yed is correct wrote:
I agree with her totally! As soon as you give a man a taste of their own medicine, things will change drastically with him. If not move on...life is too short to be miserable!!
Yunno how many divorced women I hear sing that song?. About one a week. As soon as you give a challange, he will take you up on it. But you go ahead. Lots of divorce lawyers in town looking for work.

Agree

Paducah, KY

#21 May 14, 2012
LOL!! Good point Yed

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