Boyfriend is indicted in murder and a...

Boyfriend is indicted in murder and arson

There are 27 comments on the Honolulu Star-Bulletin story from Nov 9, 2006, titled Boyfriend is indicted in murder and arson. In it, Honolulu Star-Bulletin reports that:

Jeffrey Santos remains in a Big Island jail in lieu of two bonds worth $1 million By Rod Thompson rthompson@starbulletin.com HILO A Hawaii County grand jury indicted Jeffrey B. Santos Jr.

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liz

United States

#1 Jan 17, 2007
it is messed up what happen. i know daysha and jeffey, they were good parents. every time i go in safeway i picture daysha there and i feel weird her not being around. she was a very nice girl and respectful,and a good mother. he was quiet and always smiled. I would see him running after their little boy. when i see them in public they looked fine, u never know what goes on behind close doors. May god bless daysha her son and family. and may god have mercy on his sole.
saint florian

United States

#2 Jan 17, 2007
for six years this girl went thru hell at times.
she had the power to end it at any time but chose not to.

her family knew what was happening and they did nothing.
now they demonstrate about the violence....
too late she's dead.
Aunt to Jeffrey Santos

Pahoa, HI

#3 Jan 26, 2007
God Bless You Jeffrey! You're always in my heart and in my thoughts! Our family prays for you everyday! We LOVE YOU very much! Only God knows your heart and who you are! May the Guiding Angels Protect You Forever!!!!!
Cousin to Jeffrey Santos

United States

#4 Apr 30, 2007
I knew the things that Daysha did to Jeffrey as well. It may have not been physically but it was definitely mentally. Even with an active TRO, she continually made contact with him and said things to him that pissed him off like telling him that his son had a new father and that he wasnt going to see his son anymore. She broke the TRO lots of times so she could leave their son with him because she had no babysitter and she wanted to go out. She said one thing, did another. As much as we tried to keep him away from her she always found a way to use her son to get to him. I wish the newspapers would have reported THAT. It does NOT excuse him killing her, but at least you have some insight of what ACTUALLY happened. All we heard was the story of her family. Our family has yet to tell Jeffery's story. In the end, its a loss for both families and ultimately their son who basically lost both parents. Lesson to be learned, seek help from your friends and family when you feel like you're at your wits end. Everyone has a breaking point, some of us need more help than others in trying to control ourselves before reaching it.
God Bless BOTH the Aiona-Aka family as well as the Santos family.... and God Bless Jeffery Boy, we love you brah... always will. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always and your story will be told very soon.
conrad j boys cuz

Scottsdale, AZ

#13 Nov 9, 2007
To all the people who still bad mouth my cousin i hope you are all saints cause in my eyes we all make mistakes some worse than others and he knows what he did is wrong and he admitted to that so show him some respect for that you should stop thinking about how you feel and think about how he feels and he has to deal with that for the rest of his life so atleast give him some respect and im sorry i wasnt there for u boy i had no idea what was happening because when i would see you guys you always looked happy well godbless and love you Jeffery (boy) Santos
none ya

Honolulu, HI

#14 Feb 1, 2008
you guys are so stupid, jeffrey caused all of this, no one gave him the right to fucking kill her, jeffreys whole family is gay and sucks boto! no one else truly knows what happened in their life unless you were around 24/7 jeffrey, no one loves you they are all lying! and god is not watching over you he knows what kine person you are someone who doesnt need to be here on earth! do me a favor, please drop the soap!
sodi srespectful

Honolulu, HI

#15 Feb 1, 2008
ALL OF U SHET TAKAHS KN KEEP TAK-N ALL DA SHET U LYK!!!!!!!!but just no dat daysha was da best person in da world!!!!!!yu all neva no wat was goin on in deyah lyf......SO NO TAK SHET BOUT DA ONES YU DONT NO!!!K...n if yu lyk tak shet den @lease get ya fawken facts strait....n no mattah wat n-e wun says ...DAYSH WAS A GREAT MOTHER!!!!n all yu ppol dat tak shet bout daysha r great...GREAT MUTHAH FAWKAHS!!!!!!!oh n jeff...pleaze drop da soap...n den let sum wun drop you!!!!!!!!!!i love you daysha!!!!
Dayshas Friend

Haiku, HI

#16 Mar 23, 2008
To all of you that bad mouth her, no one even knew her. All the pain that she went thru. She was a great mother and although she had a TRO against him, she just wanted him to in her sons life. Don't condone what that asshole did to her. He should rot in that jail cell. His family is just as stupid and i hope you all get what you deserve you dumb bitches! SCREW THE SANTOS FAMILY!

“time to get rid of murderers”

Since: Dec 07

roswell

#17 Mar 23, 2008
i do feel for the family in this situation, but one thing i dont understand is why the hell she stuck arround for 6 years. when people say they were scared to leave, i just think it could not be worce than staying with the person abussing you. i think that is an excusse!
i do hope this guy gets the chair for what he did, i really do, but why did she sticj arround?

“time to get rid of murderers”

Since: Dec 07

roswell

#18 Mar 23, 2008
Aunt to Jeffrey Santos wrote:
God Bless You Jeffrey! You're always in my heart and in my thoughts! Our family prays for you everyday! We LOVE YOU very much! Only God knows your heart and who you are! May the Guiding Angels Protect You Forever!!!!!
i understand you are his family, but how can you love and miss someone who does not have a heart and did something this cruel???
this guy has no heart and he deserves the chair!!!
if one of my family members was in jail for killing someone or if i was to find out one of my family members touched his wife i would do everything to make sure they learn their lesson in jail, not tell them how much i miss them. this guy is worthless and i dont understand how you can waist your breath on him!

“time to get rid of murderers”

Since: Dec 07

roswell

#19 Mar 23, 2008
conrad j boys cuz wrote:
To all the people who still bad mouth my cousin i hope you are all saints cause in my eyes we all make mistakes some worse than others and he knows what he did is wrong and he admitted to that so show him some respect for that you should stop thinking about how you feel and think about how he feels and he has to deal with that for the rest of his life so atleast give him some respect and im sorry i wasnt there for u boy i had no idea what was happening because when i would see you guys you always looked happy well godbless and love you Jeffery (boy) Santos
well i have not killed anyone, so yes compared to your cousin, i am a saint!!! we all could if there was no loosers like this one!!!

“time to get rid of murderers”

Since: Dec 07

roswell

#20 Mar 23, 2008
sodi srespectful wrote:
ALL OF U SHET TAKAHS KN KEEP TAK-N ALL DA SHET U LYK!!!!!!!!but just no dat daysha was da best person in da world!!!!!!yu all neva no wat was goin on in deyah lyf......SO NO TAK SHET BOUT DA ONES YU DONT NO!!!K...n if yu lyk tak shet den @lease get ya fawken facts strait....n no mattah wat n-e wun says ...DAYSH WAS A GREAT MOTHER!!!!n all yu ppol dat tak shet bout daysha r great...GREAT MUTHAH FAWKAHS!!!!!!!oh n jeff...pleaze drop da soap...n den let sum wun drop you!!!!!!!!!!i love you daysha!!!!
it would be greatly appreciated if you could translate that into english?
somebody lookin in

Ewa Beach, HI

#21 Jun 21, 2008
there is no reason to kill anybody.. i believe u get what u deserve..the poor baby and his mama..
In lock up

Honolulu, HI

#22 Dec 15, 2008
You know! When your locked up in prison you tend to miss your family allot. Believe me when I say this because I know this first hand and when someone enters the system with any sort of violence against women or kids!..... Well you know what Iím trying to say.
Life is too short

Hilo, HI

#23 Dec 15, 2008
Life is too short to harm and be harmed. I wish the family and friends was more involved with helping them out. Counseling and some sort of third party intervention could of helped. Everyone remember and take heed.. Why stay with someone if youre not in love with them or they not in love with you. Splitting up is not the end of the world but a beginning to a new one. May God bless both sides of the family cause both sides lost. Daysha you are resting and no longer have to hurt girl, may you smile with the angels and be free from the pain you endured.
God Is Love
leilani

Honolulu, HI

#24 Dec 17, 2008
i just like to say how truly sorry i am for daysha and her family....i actually know what your going through except the fact that she isn't here today...=[ i know what it feels like to be abused and be neglected...i got beaten for no reason, i had to watch my younger siblings while my parents went out to do thier own things, and i had to make sure my brothers had food to eat and my baby sister had formula to drink...until today i am in a foster home till i turn the age of 18...i am here because i had lack of school, i had to always watch my siblings, i got beaten for ABSOLUTELY NO REASON... and on top of that i got sexually abused from my fathers cousin... i was too shame to speak in front of my parents, so i never talked to the judge ppl...but when he went outside of the court room i was able to speak.... when i got home from my court meeting i got beat till black and blue and purple was shown.... i couldnt make a sound or i would get beat again over and over...i even got beat jus for yelling at my brothers... which something older sister should do... i'm the oldest in my family and until today my brothers DONT RESPECT ME AT ALL... they think im just their sister and they dont have to listen to me....but my questions to the mother of daysha... If you knew she was being beat from her boyfriend, then why didnt you go to the house and take her son away from the horror? Why didnt you try and talk to your daughter? Why didnt you try and talk to the boyfriend? my question to the siblings of daysha, if you knew about the abuse which occured for the past 6 years, Why didnt you try and stop the boyfriend from doing what he was doing?
leilani

Honolulu, HI

#25 Dec 17, 2008
but some of my advices for the aiona-aka family "NEVER GIVE UP! STRIVE FOR THE BETTER! NEVER LOSE HOPE! GOD IS WATCHING OVER HER! GOD IS GOOD! GOD HEARD ALL HER WORRIES AND KNOWS EVERYTING DAT WAS GOING THROUGH! NO WORRY! TINK POSITIVE AS TO WISH IF SHE WAS STILL HERE!" dat's my advice....... wish you all the best of praise......i will pray for your family..
love peace and hope

Honolulu, HI

#26 Dec 18, 2008
She is at peace from this crazy world we live in ...All we need to do is love the love ones we have left.....theres hope for everyone in this world....
aloha....RIP
SHERRY

Honolulu, HI

#27 Dec 25, 2008
NO ABUSE IS ALRIGHT
ABUSE IS NOT LOVE & DONT EVER LET ANYONE HIT YOU & SAY THEIR SORRY CAUSE IT'S GOING TO HAPPEN AGAIN & AGAIN GET OUT WELL YOU CAN THINK SAFETY FIRST (YOUR LIFE)& (KIDS) IF YOU HAVE ANY.
HE SHOULD ROT IN JAIL FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU DONT HURT THE PERSON YOU SAY YOU LOVE & TAKE THEIR LIFE IT WAS POWER & CONTROL.
GOD BLESS THE DAYSHA AIONA-AKA FAMILY
I WAS ONCE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP & GOT OUT OF IT CAUSE I KNEW SOMEDAY IT WOULD BE THE END IF I DIDNT GET OUT. SO I FOUND A WAY OUT IT'S BETTER TO GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP NOW THEN NEVER. I'M NOW MARRIED WITH 6 KIDS YA IT'S HARD BUT BE STRONG IF OTHERS CAN SO CAN YOU. EVERYONE SHOULD USE DAYSHA LIFE AS AN PERFECT EXSAMPLE HOW HER LIFE WAS TAKEN FROM HER.
maui gurl

Aiea, HI

#28 Jun 15, 2009
EH JEFFREY'S COUSIN, WERE YOU WAS WEN DAYSHA WAS DOING ALL THIS MENTAL ABUSE TO THIS DEVIL COUSIN OF YOURS? IF YOU SO DAMM SMART. ASS!!! THEN WHY YOU NEVA CALL THE COPS ON HER, MENTAL ABUSE IS A FORM OF ABUSE. WHY YOU NEVA HELP HIM GET HELP. THAT SICK SHIT HAD HIS INNOCENT LITTLE BOY NEXT TO HIM WHEN HE COWARDLY KILLED THIS YOUNG LADY, PLEASE GO WRITE YOUR B.S. IN YOUR JOURNAL, READ IT AND THEN ANSWER YOUR SELF... HE LOVED HIS CHILD AND PUT HIS CHILD FIRST, TO KILL IN A NO MERCIFUL WAY, THE MOTHER WHO GAVE HIS SON THE FIRST BREATH OF LIFE? ASK YOUR SELF THAT.... NO PITTY TO THAT PIECE OF MAGGOT BECAUSE SHIT IS TO GOOD FOR HIM.....!!!!! AND DAMM GO WRITE YOUR SAD ASS STORY!!!!! TO YOUR FAMILY... AND YOU ALL GO AND HAVE A DISCUSSION YOU ALL WOULD PROBABLY END UP HAVING IT OUT.

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