Take it from someone who knows all the above is sure signs he's got someone else.

Maybe hes with somebody who can spell!

The Wife wrote:

Take it from someone who knows all the above is sure signs he's got someone else.

all of the above goes for women too. Take it from someone who knows.

Men are not cheaters they have a seperate one for other women,therefore not cheating.Anyway its the most fought over and least missed thing there is,lots to go around!!!!!

Hammer Time wrote:

Men are not cheaters they have a seperate one for other women,therefore not cheating.Anyway its the most fought over and least missed thing there is,lots to go around!!!!!

would you explain didn't understand this one.

The Wife wrote:

<quoted text> would you explain didn't understand this one.

No I wont!!

My man is always tired but he works alot. Can a man actually just be to tired for sex if he works alot. He really doesnt have time to do anything wrong but I still wonder.

The Wife wrote:

Take it from someone who knows all the above is sure signs he's got someone else.

is there other ways to know that your man is cheating on you

francis wrote:

<quoted text>is there other ways to know that your man is cheating on you

blocked phone numbers, on computer alot, text messages, comes home late, doesn't want you to ask any questions where he's been so long gets defensive, smells like cheap perfume, takes a quick shower when he comes home (more than he ever did before) uses alot of after shave, buys new clothes, complains about everything at home, house dirty, supper not good or doesn't eat after you cook, too busy to get back out of the house, flirts with your best friend, no respect for you, does'nt care where you go or do as long as he doesn't have to go along, does'nt have time for the kids, always got something to do,the list could go on and on but most of all a woman calls your house and asks for him pretends to be a innocent call but you know better after she calls several times when she can't find him. Then tell her she can have him and do what I did and find a man that treats you like a queen. I got lucky my husband now is the best there is.Com e on ladies help me I know you can add more if you have had a husband that cheats.

You go girl.. so happy you have found a good guy.
The other side of the coin, The guy lies when he meets you and says he is divorced; then after the parasite attaches his self into your life, says he is getting a divorce from a mean "B",(poor thing has been abused and misunderstood) takes care of things to "help you out" then keeps the money, never there when needed, cheats on you too;
The people who cheat on their spouses cheat on everyone else too. Not worth fighting with or for, just leave him and move on....

The Wife wrote:

<quoted text>blocked phone numbers, on computer alot, text messages, comes home late, doesn't want you to ask any questions where he's been so long gets defensive, smells like cheap perfume, takes a quick shower when he comes home (more than he ever did before) uses alot of after shave, buys new clothes, complains about everything at home, house dirty, supper not good or doesn't eat after you cook, too busy to get back out of the house, flirts with your best friend, no respect for you, does'nt care where you go or do as long as he doesn't have to go along, does'nt have time for the kids, always got something to do,the list could go on and on but most of all a woman calls your house and asks for him pretends to be a innocent call but you know better after she calls several times when she can't find him. Then tell her she can have him and do what I did and find a man that treats you like a queen. I got lucky my husband now is the best there is.Com e on ladies help me I know you can add more if you have had a husband that cheats.

it should be like it was back in the good old days when woman was nothing, but a rib!lol

don't get me wrong i am not taking up for the men but women do the same thing. both are wrong for cheating on their spouses. both lie to cover their tracks. fact is if they are not puttin out at home they are getting it somewhere else. nobody is going to go without. its just sad that people are not committed to their marriage and their children anymore. i'm not married and don't know if i ever want to be. people are its all about me and selfish. they don't care who they hurt anymore.

right on nobody wants to work at saving marriage anymore. its to easy to just walk away and get divorced. i am married and happy but even if i wasn't i couldn't do that do my kids. they would come first and i would do everything in my power to stay a family.

The Wife wrote:

<quoted text>blocked phone numbers, on computer alot, text messages, comes home late, doesn't want you to ask any questions where he's been so long gets defensive, smells like cheap perfume, takes a quick shower when he comes home (more than he ever did before) uses alot of after shave, buys new clothes, complains about everything at home, house dirty, supper not good or doesn't eat after you cook, too busy to get back out of the house, flirts with your best friend, no respect for you, does'nt care where you go or do as long as he doesn't have to go along, does'nt have time for the kids, always got something to do,the list could go on and on but most of all a woman calls your house and asks for him pretends to be a innocent call but you know better after she calls several times when she can't find him. Then tell her she can have him and do what I did and find a man that treats you like a queen. I got lucky my husband now is the best there is.Com e on ladies help me I know you can add more if you have had a husband that cheats.

you did pretty well I could add more but don't want to give away my secrets.

You're right, I can't understand why so many of either sex who are good people get involved with and Stay with users and people who are so self involved they don't care who they hurt, and yet there are those of use who are decent that are aloneand want a best friend, companion, etc... Oh well it is the ones who have the jerks that loose, and I guess in time good things can happen.

well wrote:

don't get me wrong i am not taking up for the men but women do the same thing. both are wrong for cheating on their spouses. both lie to cover their tracks. fact is if they are not puttin out at home they are getting it somewhere else. nobody is going to go without. its just sad that people are not committed to their marriage and their children anymore. i'm not married and don't know if i ever want to be. people are its all about me and selfish. they don't care who they hurt anymore.

Guys sucks . yes I have had a husban cheaton me after 25 years . check your cell phone bills . they where several calls recieved and called. also he was doing honey do jobs at her house that he lied to me about . but she can have him the wh*re. she cant stayed married either .

Movin on wrote:

You go girl.. so happy you have found a good guy.
The other side of the coin, The guy lies when he meets you and says he is divorced; then after the parasite attaches his self into your life, says he is getting a divorce from a mean "B",(poor thing has been abused and misunderstood) takes care of things to "help you out" then keeps the money, never there when needed, cheats on you too;
The people who cheat on their spouses cheat on everyone else too. Not worth fighting with or for, just leave him and move on....
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Men who cheat once will cheat again, its in their blood. My old saying once a cheater always a cheater. If he cheats with you he will cheat on you.

(Daffy) you Quack me up!!Obama fkn you

The Wife wrote:

<quoted text>blocked phone numbers, on computer alot, text messages, comes home late, doesn't want you to ask any questions where he's been so long gets defensive, smells like cheap perfume, takes a quick shower when he comes home (more than he ever did before) uses alot of after shave, buys new clothes, complains about everything at home, house dirty, supper not good or doesn't eat after you cook, too busy to get back out of the house, flirts with your best friend, no respect for you, does'nt care where you go or do as long as he doesn't have to go along, does'nt have time for the kids, always got something to do,the list could go on and on but most of all a woman calls your house and asks for him pretends to be a innocent call but you know better after she calls several times when she can't find him. Then tell her she can have him and do what I did and find a man that treats you like a queen. I got lucky my husband now is the best there is.Com e on ladies help me I know you can add more if you have had a husband that cheats.

I will add..........you walk in on him and another woman in your bed. Yes, it happened to me. She came out the loser in the end because she ended up marrying him. She actually did me a big favor!!! At the time it didn't feel that way though. I thought I was going to lose my mind. I had more clues that I should have paid attention to.....bought new clothes, bought new bikini briefs, started going to a tanning bed, started taking night classes (Yeah, right), bought a new sports car we could not afford, decided my name was "stupid b----", Oh, wait a minute, he always called me that. My daughter, who was 3 yrs old, kept talking about some woman who I did not know (Yes, he brought the other woman to my house while my daughter was there and I was working my butt off in a stupid factory. However, as I said, she did me a huge favor. It was a very abusive relationship and I should have left him for that instead of staying around long enough for him to cheat on me. I later found out this lady, and I use that term lightly, was only one in a long list of others he had cheated on me with. If you find out for sure your husband is cheating...... get rid of him. If he does it once he will do it again.

The Husband wrote:

<quoted text> all of the above goes for women too. Take it from someone who knows.

i def agree