Just found out the guy ive been talki...

Just found out the guy ive been talking to has a pregnant gf.

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CallingHimOut

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#1 Mar 10, 2013
I just found out the guy I've been talking to has a pregnant gf! I was really starting to fall for him and we've even made out a few times. I know I should drop him, but I also feel like I want to keep talking to him. She might not actually be pregnant from what I hear. I'm confused. I feel like a home wrecker now even though they don't live together. Should I call him out?
Anonymous

Owensboro, KY

#2 Mar 10, 2013
CallingHimOut wrote:
I just found out the guy I've been talking to has a pregnant gf! I was really starting to fall for him and we've even made out a few times. I know I should drop him, but I also feel like I want to keep talking to him. She might not actually be pregnant from what I hear. I'm confused. I feel like a home wrecker now even though they don't live together. Should I call him out?
umm hell yeah u should
Of course

Owensboro, KY

#3 Mar 10, 2013
You can't say you're calling him out and not do it. It's just karma for him... Go ahead he's the one that dealt the cards and you can do whatever you want with your hand
Wondering
#4 Mar 11, 2013
How did you find out?..& mabe if you put her name then someone will inform you if she's even prego
lol

Princeton, KY

#5 Mar 11, 2013
CallingHimOut wrote:
I just found out the guy I've been talking to has a pregnant gf! I was really starting to fall for him and we've even made out a few times. I know I should drop him, but I also feel like I want to keep talking to him. She might not actually be pregnant from what I hear. I'm confused. I feel like a home wrecker now even though they don't live together. Should I call him out?
You said you "know you should drop him". If you don't ... You're asking for what you get. Post back in 6 months and let us know how it's working out for you.
alivia

Princeton, KY

#6 Mar 11, 2013
It wouldnt be very smart to keep talking to a guy that started his relationship with you by lying. Have some self respect and call him out then tell him to get lost. Dont fall for the excuses that I am willing to bet he comes up with. So not worth it.
honestly

Owensboro, KY

#7 Mar 11, 2013
I wouldn't call her out, she is the victim in this situation. Here she is pregnant and thinking everything is fine, and that they are going to have a baby and possibly live together. And for you to say you want to keep talking to him...yeah, it kinda makes you sound like a desperate person. And it makes you just as bad, if not worse. If you've only made out a few times...thats good, because i'm sure he is going to her everynight to get what he wants. It depends too on how long you have been talking to this guy. What does he do, does he respond to your texts at or calls at anytime, does he ever talk about her or the baby? What did he first tell you when you all got together? How old is this guy anyways? Sounds like a young, confused immature guy who is not ready to be a father. If you know the girl, you should definitely let her know so she still has options while shes pregnant. She would appreciate it and not blame you for anything. Goodluck! Did you meet this guy at a bar?
justified

Owensboro, KY

#8 Mar 11, 2013
Wondering wrote:
How did you find out?..& mabe if you put her name then someone will inform you if she's even prego
Why call her out? She probably has no clue he is doing this to her. And if she isn't very far along...then how would everyone know shes pregnant???

Maddhatter1889
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Since: Nov 11

Berlin

#9 Mar 11, 2013
Surprise!
thereason

Owensboro, KY

#10 Mar 11, 2013
this is the reason the men in this town continue to be players. call him out! we are all dying to know anyway. if he got a girl pregnant and is still messing with other women and his pregnant girlfriend he needs to be called out.
please

Owensboro, KY

#11 Mar 11, 2013
CallingHimOut wrote:
I just found out the guy I've been talking to has a pregnant gf! I was really starting to fall for him and we've even made out a few times. I know I should drop him, but I also feel like I want to keep talking to him. She might not actually be pregnant from what I hear. I'm confused. I feel like a home wrecker now even though they don't live together. Should I call him out?
Give one of his intials.
CallingHimOut

Tucker, GA

#12 Mar 11, 2013
I'm not sure I want to put his name out there quite yet. I want to feel it out some more. From what I understand this girl has some bad issues and he may be trying to get away from her but is hung up because of the pregnancy. If that's the case then I will totally give him time and be here when he is done with her. I just don't want to be a rebound and I definitely don't want to be a last ditch effort.
CallingHimOut

Owensboro, KY

#13 Mar 11, 2013
please wrote:
<quoted text>Give one of his intials.
MAC
dont believe him

Owensboro, KY

#14 Mar 11, 2013
CallingHimOut wrote:
I'm not sure I want to put his name out there quite yet. I want to feel it out some more. From what I understand this girl has some bad issues and he may be trying to get away from her but is hung up because of the pregnancy. If that's the case then I will totally give him time and be here when he is done with her. I just don't want to be a rebound and I definitely don't want to be a last ditch effort.
He is probably feeding you a bunch of bull about her that's not true. I've dealt with men who will go to one woman and tell lies, then come back and say lies about the other woman.
All your doing is getting yourself involved in a bunch of drama. He'll probably cheat on you,too.
CallingHimOut

Tucker, GA

#15 Mar 11, 2013
The MAC comment was not me. Someone cloned my name.
wondering

Owensboro, KY

#16 Mar 11, 2013
does his initials have an "S"? DOes he have any kids already? Is he older or younger?
burned alive

Owensboro, KY

#17 Mar 11, 2013
I have about 3 friends this has happened to...let me tell you, you will end up getting yourself in trouble. The guy ends up shutting out the fling and sticking with his wife and child
CallingHimOut

Tucker, GA

#18 Mar 11, 2013
And I don't give men the opportunity to cheat. I figure he will be fun while it lasts but I refuse to be on the losing end of his game or to be anything like I said earlier. I'm not looking to be super serious. My life is good on my own. I have my own home, a good job, and great friends. I'm not trying to have someone move in on me. But this gf of his or whatever she is is extremely unstable from what I hear. So him trying to move in on me is another thing I'm worried about. I don't want a bum on my couch ever. His job isn't exactly a reputable career and a man that can't take care of himself isn't on my list of wants when it comes to a lengthy serious relationship. I want a bed buddy right now if you know what I mean. Someone who I can be friends with but also get steamy with. Not looking to settle down. So anyways, cheating isn't an issue with me when I have nothing to lose in the first place. I just want to figure myself out a little and I think I'm pretty much talking myself through it on here lol... I really don't want to put his name on here but I might so that I can find out more about the situation with him and this pregnant girl.
lolz

Morganfield, KY

#19 Mar 11, 2013
His name John?
wondering

Owensboro, KY

#20 Mar 11, 2013
There are so many guys out there that make their woman look like a psycho just to look innocent. All you have to do is dig a little deeper into his past and what all he has done and you will see more than likely, he is the crazy one...most of them are. Went through the same thing years ago. This guy seemed so perfect and we spent a lot of time together, come to find out he was married with 2 children...the wife had no idea. I called her and told her what was going on. He told his wife I was a client of his that needed legal/court assistance and he was representing me. She bought the whole thing until I called her. Of course, he called me and cussed me out and told me I was crazy and psycho...then out of nowhere calls me drunk 2 months later. Really now?

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