confused

Tucker, GA

#1 Feb 18, 2013
I told him I couldn't be with him, that we were done for good, but I still love him. I did it so he could be happy. I couldn't get over all of the trust issues and I knew in the end it would ruin us, but I can't seem to get over him. I just want him happy and I know that he's better off without me, but it just hurts so bad...
.........

United States

#2 Feb 18, 2013
He would be happier with you
JLT

Springfield, MO

#3 Feb 19, 2013
Word
Furtiott

Madisonville, KY

#4 Feb 19, 2013
confused wrote:
I told him I couldn't be with him, that we were done for good, but I still love him. I did it so he could be happy. I couldn't get over all of the trust issues and I knew in the end it would ruin us, but I can't seem to get over him. I just want him happy and I know that he's better off without me, but it just hurts so bad...
trust is hard to get and when it's broken over and over for the same issues you can only blame yourself . How do you think he's feeling now ? If he loves you then no I doubt he's happy but again the question is are you happy ? If the love wasn't real you wouldn't hurt . Just a thought !
Furtiott

Madisonville, KY

#5 Feb 19, 2013
( He's unhappy )
Baxter

Madisonville, KY

#6 Feb 19, 2013
Sounds like there was a lot of betrayal with the one you claimed you loved so dearly and you keep letting it happen by your own choice over and over again . Guessing you made that choice also for your happiness so hope you are happy ..
old timer

Madisonville, KY

#7 Feb 19, 2013
Well how's that working out fer ya ?
confused

Tucker, GA

#8 Feb 19, 2013
[QUOTE who="......... "]He would be happier with you[/QUOTE]

I wish that were true. He can't seem to leave other girls alone and I gave too many chances. Its just hard to let go of someone who has been in your life for so long, but it was time.

“Still counting”

Since: Jan 13

Owensboro

#9 Feb 20, 2013
There is no greater love than to sacrifice your own happiness so that they can be happy. Sometimes people are just meant to say goodbye. Take all you experienced both good and bad and learn from it. Then take what you've learned and apply it in your next relationship. If it's supposed to happen it will. Sometimes its not about what you want its what you'really supposed to have that you get. And not to sound cliche but every storm runs outta rain. Good luck.
LOST

Tucker, GA

#10 Feb 20, 2013
this thread isn't about LOST.
Screw topix!
--------Dlc

Tucker, GA

#11 Feb 21, 2013
He loves her sexy eyes
JLT

Rochester, MN

#12 Feb 21, 2013
Lost me

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Since: Jul 11

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#13 Feb 21, 2013
confused wrote:
<quoted text>
I wish that were true. He can't seem to leave other girls alone and I gave too many chances. Its just hard to let go of someone who has been in your life for so long, but it was time.
So quit whining. It was your decision. Move on.
Andy

Madisonville, KY

#14 Feb 21, 2013
Lisa_is_allinkedup wrote:
There is no greater love than to sacrifice your own happiness so that they can be happy. Sometimes people are just meant to say goodbye. Take all you experienced both good and bad and learn from it. Then take what you've learned and apply it in your next relationship. If it's supposed to happen it will. Sometimes its not about what you want its what you'really supposed to have that you get. And not to sound cliche but every storm runs outta rain. Good luck.
Damn man that's some pretty nasty advice for someone that seems to still have lots of love for the person . Let them know ! Take chances , only live once . Everybody needs happiness in their life's sometimes you gotta stand outside the crowd and look in and you'll see everything so much clearer . GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK !

“Still counting”

Since: Jan 13

Owensboro

#15 Feb 22, 2013
Andy wrote:
<quoted text> Damn man that's some pretty nasty advice for someone that seems to still have lots of love for the person . Let them know ! Take chances , only live once . Everybody needs happiness in their life's sometimes you gotta stand outside the crowd and look in and you'll see everything so much clearer . GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK !
I don't see that I said anything nasty. I coukda said get over it, quit whining, your loss...the list is endless. I stand behind every word I said. And especially the part about if its supposed to happen it will. We can alter our paths a million times but sometimes all the roads we take lead to the same place.
nipeerC

United States

#16 Feb 22, 2013
Lisa_is_allinkedup wrote:
There is no greater love than to sacrifice your own happiness so that they can be happy. Sometimes people are just meant to say goodbye. Take all you experienced both good and bad and learn from it. Then take what you've learned and apply it in your next relationship. If it's supposed to happen it will. Sometimes its not about what you want its what you'really supposed to have that you get. And not to sound cliche but every storm runs outta rain. Good luck.
Love it!!! Great advise! Don't listen to these guys, I get what you mean and it's very true.

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