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Confused

Owensboro, KY

#1 Nov 24, 2012
So, my husband and I have been doing really well. We've been married 3 yrs, have a 1yr old son, and two great careers. I think everything is going great until his single friend comes around. When my husband goes out with his friend he lies about where they go, he picks HUGE fights out of nothing so that he doesn't have to talk to me all night and when he comes home he's extremely hateful! I don't know what's going on? He's do sweet one second and then after being with his friend he says the most horrible things. Advice? Insight? Male opinions? I'm lost!!
Why

Owensboro, KY

#2 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
So, my husband and I have been doing really well. We've been married 3 yrs, have a 1yr old son, and two great careers. I think everything is going great until his single friend comes around. When my husband goes out with his friend he lies about where they go, he picks HUGE fights out of nothing so that he doesn't have to talk to me all night and when he comes home he's extremely hateful! I don't know what's going on? He's do sweet one second and then after being with his friend he says the most horrible things. Advice? Insight? Male opinions? I'm lost!!
many possibilities his friend is single so he couldbe cheating and feel guilty he could be doing drugs since his mood changes when gets back from with his friend he could be feeling tied down and resentful that he cant do what his single friend does which is y hes grouchy toward u he could be tired not able to keep up with his single freind cranky oi r many reasons I cant think of best thing is to talk to him when hes not grouchy and on a day hes doesnt gave plans with his freind and ask him y hes dufferent tell him what youve noticed and find out y
aacoolp

Owensboro, KY

#3 Nov 25, 2012
Simple. Keep him away from the single friend. Lol
Skipper

Owensboro, KY

#4 Nov 25, 2012
Do you think that he and his friend have a sexual relationship? Its more common than you think.
someguy

United States

#5 Nov 25, 2012
just ask him what's up. Don't accuse him of anything because that will put him on the defensive. how old is he?
A Girl

Duluth, GA

#6 Nov 25, 2012
Just from my personal experience, he might feel a little guilty for going out without you, he might think that you'd have a problem with where they went, he might be an asshole when he gets home because he is afraid you're going to interrogate him or that you think he's doing wrong so he's automatically defensive. When he gets home, try welcoming him with a smile and a kiss, ask if he had fun, when he says yes, tell him you're glad he had a good time and that he deserves to go out and have fun every now and then. And then have sex if he wants to. Put him at ease a little bit, and let him know that you are ok with him going out and having a good time. Do that the next few times he goes out, and see if things change. If he's still acting weird after a few times of that, something's probably up. Then you need to start checking his pockets, his underwear, his cell phone, his email, get GPS tracking on his phone, follow them in a borrowed car one night, whatever, to make sure that he is actually doing wrong before you confront him. Also, if he drinks beer or wine normally but doesn't usually drink hard stuff, he may be drinking hard liquor when he goes with this friend and that could explain the attitude. Hard liquor can make some people mean when beer and wine don't. Just don't jump to the conclusion that he's doing wrong because he may not be.
Confused

United States

#7 Nov 25, 2012
Skipper wrote:
Do you think that he and his friend have a sexual relationship? Its more common than you think.
Honestly I've wondered about his friend a few times. Everything about him screams gay, but he has a gf.
Confused

United States

#8 Nov 25, 2012
someguy wrote:
just ask him what's up. Don't accuse him of anything because that will put him on the defensive. how old is he?
I have asked him and he says that he feels like he doesn't get enough guy time and that I give him the 20 questions when he goes out. He's free to go whenever he wants and all I ask is that he lets me know where he's going. He spends 3 days a week out with friends or his brother or playing video games.
Confused

United States

#9 Nov 25, 2012
someguy wrote:
just ask him what's up. Don't accuse him of anything because that will put him on the defensive. how old is he?
And he's 27
Just a guy

Owensboro, KY

#10 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
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And he's 27
Newly weds? When a man has had to answer to no one for close to 10 yrs it can be hard to adjust
Skipper

Owensboro, KY

#11 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
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Honestly I've wondered about his friend a few times. Everything about him screams gay, but he has a gf.
Trust your instincts.
Confused

Owensboro, KY

#12 Nov 25, 2012
Just a guy wrote:
<quoted text>Newly weds? When a man has had to answer to no one for close to 10 yrs it can be hard to adjust
Not really newly weds, we've been married 3 years with no issue until the last 6-7 months.
Confused

Owensboro, KY

#13 Nov 25, 2012
Skipper wrote:
<quoted text>Trust your instincts.
Booo! I don't like what my instincts say.:(
Skipper

Owensboro, KY

#14 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
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Booo! I don't like what my instincts say.:(
Does he have an increased interest in oral sex?
Why

Owensboro, KY

#16 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
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Booo! I don't like what my instincts say.:(
90% of the time instincts r right if I were u I would use a condom with him protect yourself like the other person said check him out but dont let him know youre doing it they are smarter than we think when it comes to cheating but they will eventually mess up u said u are both successfull so if u can afford it hire a private investigator if u or a friend spy on him he might recognize u good luck if hes cheating u deserve better and it doesnt matter if the gay guy has a.girlfriend he could be bi
Confused

United States

#17 Nov 25, 2012
Skipper wrote:
<quoted text>Does he have an increased interest in oral sex?
Actually yes. Here lately he's asked for it a lot more.
Confused

United States

#18 Nov 25, 2012
Why wrote:
<quoted text>90% of the time instincts r right if I were u I would use a condom with him protect yourself like the other person said check him out but dont let him know youre doing it they are smarter than we think when it comes to cheating but they will eventually mess up u said u are both successfull so if u can afford it hire a private investigator if u or a friend spy on him he might recognize u good luck if hes cheating u deserve better and it doesnt matter if the gay guy has a.girlfriend he could be bi
This is great advice!! Thank you! I will look into a PI as soon as I get a chance.
Skipper

Owensboro, KY

#19 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
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Actually yes. Here lately he's asked for it a lot more.
His friend may be turning him on to it. Men are typically better at it.
Confused

United States

#20 Nov 25, 2012
Skipper wrote:
<quoted text>His friend may be turning him on to it. Men are typically better at it.
Now I'm paranoid that he's having an affair and it's with a man! Lol. Dear God I hope not!
Skipper

Owensboro, KY

#21 Nov 25, 2012
Confused wrote:
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Now I'm paranoid that he's having an affair and it's with a man! Lol. Dear God I hope not!
Probably nothing to it, just sharpen up your oral sex skills and you should be fine.

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