Frustrated/confused wife. Needing a m...

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

United States

#105 Dec 30, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
I just can't believe I never considered that as an option! Who would've thought selfishness could be the answer?.
I think a light bulb just came on over her head. Lol. So whatcha gonna do about it?

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#106 Dec 30, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
I just can't believe I never considered that as an option! Who would've thought selfishness could be the answer?.
LOL You saw how long it took me to get there? Once you said he was like that during the 'insane' period too, I kind of knew that was it. Again, this is just me, but in the beginning of a relationship and first start having sex, the guy SHOULD be on you like donkey kong. Anywhere, anytime, tired? hell no. Over and over. Usually that wears off some and I think that's 'normal' too. Usually guys are putting on their best fuk moves because they want to impress their potential mate and try to ensure that the sex will continue. Or I'm just completely wrong and have no idea what I'm doing.

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

United States

#107 Dec 30, 2012
big package wrote:
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LOL You saw how long it took me to get there? Once you said he was like that during the 'insane' period too, I kind of knew that was it. Again, this is just me, but in the beginning of a relationship and first start having sex, the guy SHOULD be on you like donkey kong. Anywhere, anytime, tired? hell no. Over and over. Usually that wears off some and I think that's 'normal' too. Usually guys are putting on their best fuk moves because they want to impress their potential mate and try to ensure that the sex will continue. Or I'm just completely wrong and have no idea what I'm doing.
It worked for me. The only difference is, ive gotten better with practice. It used to be I couldn't keep my hands off my wife....now she cant keep her hands off of me. Lol. You gotta keep your woman happy. I know mine is.

Level 1

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#108 Dec 30, 2012
And selfish

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#109 Dec 30, 2012
Green Eyed Lover wrote:
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It worked for me. The only difference is, ive gotten better with practice. It used to be I couldn't keep my hands off my wife....now she cant keep her hands off of me. Lol. You gotta keep your woman happy. I know mine is.
I didn't used to put too much stock in this quote, but I've learned just how wrong I was. I'll admit that freely.

"Happy Wife, Happy Life"

Congratulations with your situation. It's nice that she's appreciative.
MarriedFemale

United States

#110 Dec 30, 2012
Now I'm just kinda mad?! I used to feel bad for him like he had no way of controlling that, but either way it sounds like he does. If its a medical problem he could've sought medical help to benefit us, and if its a selfish problem...well...GRRRRR! No more Mrs. Nice Wife. It's on tonight and if I have to stop every 20 seconds and tell him to suck it up, we are going longer than a minute or I'm whipping out my little vibrating friend and telling him to finish me off, for the billion other times he should've! And yes, EVERY time we have sex he gets his, and the only time I get mine is when he's drunk and physically can't get his! ;-)

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

United States

#111 Dec 30, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
Now I'm just kinda mad?! I used to feel bad for him like he had no way of controlling that, but either way it sounds like he does. If its a medical problem he could've sought medical help to benefit us, and if its a selfish problem...well...GRRRRR! No more Mrs. Nice Wife. It's on tonight and if I have to stop every 20 seconds and tell him to suck it up, we are going longer than a minute or I'm whipping out my little vibrating friend and telling him to finish me off, for the billion other times he should've! And yes, EVERY time we have sex he gets his, and the only time I get mine is when he's drunk and physically can't get his! ;-)
Oh shit!!!! Lol. I just got a chubby. Well you go get yours. Maybe you should get him drunk, tie him up and ride him all night til he cries like a little b!tch. Hahaha. Then you can get yours as many times as you'd like.

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#112 Dec 30, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
Now I'm just kinda mad?! I used to feel bad for him like he had no way of controlling that, but either way it sounds like he does. If its a medical problem he could've sought medical help to benefit us, and if its a selfish problem...well...GRRRRR! No more Mrs. Nice Wife. It's on tonight and if I have to stop every 20 seconds and tell him to suck it up, we are going longer than a minute or I'm whipping out my little vibrating friend and telling him to finish me off, for the billion other times he should've! And yes, EVERY time we have sex he gets his, and the only time I get mine is when he's drunk and physically can't get his! ;-)
I think that's an excellent idea too. Let him know it's been unacceptable and you want yours. Sure couldn't hurt.. except maybe him.
surfer

Newburgh, IN

#113 Dec 30, 2012
Do you like oral sex or just like to be pounded hard?
MarriedFemale

United States

#114 Dec 30, 2012
Hahaha. Kinda personal.
Discreet

Owensboro, KY

#115 Dec 30, 2012
Reading this entire thread has been interesting. He sounds like a selfish, self-centered ass that doesn't deserve you. My wife and I have been married 20+ years(both late 40's). I still love the foreplay to make sure my wife gets off first. I love using my index and middle finger to get her dripping wet before I begin to pound her. She loves it. I love seeing her in sexy cloths(especially mini skirts). She is hot and turns plenty of heads when we go out. We have even gone to the top of the parking garage downtown and had sex overlooking the city. Variety is the spice of life. I hope you solve your problem.
Fun

Owensboro, KY

#116 Dec 31, 2012
Well first of all I would leave him for being so distant disrespectful rude and uncaring. the thought in my mind at the moment is him telling u.lingere is a waiste of money. Really his lack of performance is a waiste of ur time. Anyway, since ull probably stay, I would tease the heck out of him every time. I would make him get me off at least once before he got his. I would make him do foreplay with oral. Get me off that way then more foreplay and after he got it in every time I knew he was ready I would make him stopy and foreplay some more. I would not let him get off until i did again. I would torture the heck out of him for a long while. Who knows he might like it. I teased and tortured my like crazy and he loved it. Every time I did it it frove him nuts. If I was in the mood for great sex I just teased and tortured him. Worked every time.

Level 1

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#117 Dec 31, 2012
Fun wrote:
Well first of all I would leave him for being so distant disrespectful rude and uncaring. the thought in my mind at the moment is him telling u.lingere is a waiste of money. Really his lack of performance is a waiste of ur time. Anyway, since ull probably stay, I would tease the heck out of him every time. I would make him get me off at least once before he got his. I would make him do foreplay with oral. Get me off that way then more foreplay and after he got it in every time I knew he was ready I would make him stopy and foreplay some more. I would not let him get off until i did again. I would torture the heck out of him for a long while. Who knows he might like it. I teased and tortured my like crazy and he loved it. Every time I did it it frove him nuts. If I was in the mood for great sex I just teased and tortured him. Worked every time.
That sounds like a lot of fun. I love foreplay and especially oral. The more I get a woman off makes me want to go at it longer too.

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

United States

#118 Dec 31, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
Now I'm just kinda mad?! I used to feel bad for him like he had no way of controlling that, but either way it sounds like he does. If its a medical problem he could've sought medical help to benefit us, and if its a selfish problem...well...GRRRRR! No more Mrs. Nice Wife. It's on tonight and if I have to stop every 20 seconds and tell him to suck it up, we are going longer than a minute or I'm whipping out my little vibrating friend and telling him to finish me off, for the billion other times he should've! And yes, EVERY time we have sex he gets his, and the only time I get mine is when he's drunk and physically can't get his! ;-)
So did you get the job done?
MarriedFemale

United States

#119 Dec 31, 2012
Green Eyed Lover wrote:
<quoted text>So did you get the job done?
Nope. Despite all of my efforts and stopping, it was still over in under a minute and he was done. Joy.

Liberal Wisenheimer
Level 6

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#120 Dec 31, 2012
Discreet wrote:
Reading this entire thread has been interesting. He sounds like a selfish, self-centered ass that doesn't deserve you. My wife and I have been married 20+ years(both late 40's). I still love the foreplay to make sure my wife gets off first. I love using my index and middle finger to get her dripping wet before I begin to pound her. She loves it. I love seeing her in sexy cloths(especially mini skirts). She is hot and turns plenty of heads when we go out. We have even gone to the top of the parking garage downtown and had sex overlooking the city. Variety is the spice of life. I hope you solve your problem.
Good for you,,,the two of you sound like fun and happy people.

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

United States

#121 Dec 31, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
<quoted text>
Nope. Despite all of my efforts and stopping, it was still over in under a minute and he was done. Joy.
Damn that sucks. You have an email?

Level 2

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#122 Dec 31, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
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Nope. Despite all of my efforts and stopping, it was still over in under a minute and he was done. Joy.
Get ahold of some viagra... Crush it and slip it into his food.. Lol! But really, You have a much deeper seeded problem on your hands. He's being selfish for a reason, probably because you have let him develop this habit over time. He doesn't need to give you yours because you won't do anything about it. You need to stop letting him get his.. get him some desensitizer gel or a cock ring or something.. Or stop giving it to him for a while, until he's willing to do something about it..

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

United States

#123 Dec 31, 2012
Amandas Man wrote:
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Get ahold of some viagra... Crush it and slip it into his food.. Lol! But really, You have a much deeper seeded problem on your hands. He's being selfish for a reason, probably because you have let him develop this habit over time. He doesn't need to give you yours because you won't do anything about it. You need to stop letting him get his.. get him some desensitizer gel or a cock ring or something.. Or stop giving it to him for a while, until he's willing to do something about it..
Lmao. That is an AWESOME idea!!!!! I would love to hear how that works out. Seriously , its win win. Either he keeps it up and satisfies you or he quits after a min and has a huge rrection for the next 3 hours and 59 min. Either way you'll enjoy it. Haha

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#124 Dec 31, 2012
Amandas Man wrote:
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Get ahold of some viagra... Crush it and slip it into his food.. Lol! But really, You have a much deeper seeded problem on your hands. He's being selfish for a reason, probably because you have let him develop this habit over time. He doesn't need to give you yours because you won't do anything about it. You need to stop letting him get his.. get him some desensitizer gel or a cock ring or something.. Or stop giving it to him for a while, until he's willing to do something about it..
I think that's an amazing idea too. And it should be incredibly fun no matter what happens. Combine the Viagra AND the gel. That should do the trick.

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