Frustrated/confused wife. Needing a m...
MarriedFemale

United States

#65 Dec 28, 2012
I really do appreciate all of the advice. Counseling is something I can definitely look into. I will undoubtedly be going alone because my husband does not believe in talking to anybody about our problems, not even professionals.
And don't worry, I am a woman who would never consider cheating on my husband, regardless of our situation or of he is cheating on me. I have morals that I will not lower.
MarriedFemale

United States

#66 Dec 28, 2012
And by the way, to the man who asked for my pictures, not in your wildest dreams! Lol
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Tucker, GA

#67 Dec 28, 2012
Outdoorsman get a grip
Hey there
#68 Dec 28, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
And by the way, to the man who asked for my pictures, not in your wildest dreams! Lol
Call me. Maybe?

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#69 Dec 28, 2012
Hey there wrote:
<quoted text> Call me. Maybe?
Carly Rae... is that you baby? LOL

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#70 Dec 28, 2012
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Outdoorsman get a grip
It's important to ALWAYS maintain a very firm grip on your axe handle. I'm sure he already knows that.
crazy

United States

#71 Dec 28, 2012
urage wrote:
im 26 and male and ive lost my sex drive. me and my wife used to have sex several times a day. Now we have a family and im turning down sex frequently. my wife is beautiful and i have no grudges to hold. not every guy stays a horndog like the media would make you believe or that women want us to be (50 shades of gray exposed you all). I still like it dont get me wrong but 1 time a week is enough for me. and no im not gay im just honest. it doesnt make me less of a man to admit that sex isnt the beall like your led to believe
HE MIGHT NOT BE CHEATING DONT LISTEN TO THESE IDIOTS
You may be right but the woman wants sex. If he's not gonna give it to her then maybe she needs to find it somewhere else. Sex is an important part of any relationship. If they were both ok with not having it then it would be ok but obviously she's not.

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#72 Dec 28, 2012
crazy wrote:
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You may be right but the woman wants sex. If he's not gonna give it to her then maybe she needs to find it somewhere else. Sex is an important part of any relationship. If they were both ok with not having it then it would be ok but obviously she's not.
I know right? Another lucid person with an actual answer. Yeah, if they both didn't care, not a problem. SHE wants it and he's not delivering. That IS a problem. I think it SHOULD be an important part of a healthy relationship but wtf do I know? I'm not with the guys telling her to just go get it somewhere else. That is probably only going to cause way more problems.
curious

Tucker, GA

#73 Dec 28, 2012
He is probably cheating hun. Sorry.
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the 411

Owensboro, KY

#74 Dec 28, 2012
Im not so sure its cheating. It could be a combo of the over stimulation of video games, a possible STD/ physical problem, OR diet. I think what happens in this day and age is that men AND women work so hard and sleep so little that their mind doesnt produce enough of the natural chemical that produces the desire and natural interest in sex. Especially when the little free time men have is spent playing lots of video games. Working so much and playing so many games leaves little time to eat proberly and thus the body does not function properly. All your charms and attempts to turn him on are for not. expressed desire to leave him may give him moment of pause, but thenhe would unpause and keep playing Black Ops II. Goolge your issues and make an imformed decision.
in the same boat.

Tucker, GA

#75 Dec 28, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
Ok, so before I get the "you must be ugly and fat" comments I want to say I am neither by societies standards.->my issue is my husband. We've been married 4 years and our sex life has never been worse. We are both in our mid twenties and reasonably healthy individuals but my husband doesn't seem interested in sex at all! I've tried everything from walking around naked, sending him very naughty pics of myself, and even just coming right out and saying "hey, let's have sex...I need it now!", but nothing works. He always has an excuse not to have sex; "I'm tired, I'm gonna play some video games, I don't feel good, etc". And when we do finally have sex it lasts LITERALLY one minute, LITERALLY. What is going on?
Im i the same boat as u are if you would like to talk further u can email me at [email protected] that way there are no negative comments from the trolls on here
goseeyour

Princeton, KY

#76 Dec 28, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
Ok, so before I get the "you must be ugly and fat" comments I want to say I am neither by societies standards.->my issue is my husband. We've been married 4 years and our sex life has never been worse. We are both in our mid twenties and reasonably healthy individuals but my husband doesn't seem interested in sex at all! I've tried everything from walking around naked, sending him very naughty pics of myself, and even just coming right out and saying "hey, let's have sex...I need it now!", but nothing works. He always has an excuse not to have sex; "I'm tired, I'm gonna play some video games, I don't feel good, etc". And when we do finally have sex it lasts LITERALLY one minute, LITERALLY. What is going on?
Md. He could have low testosterone.
MarriedFemale

United States

#77 Dec 29, 2012
goseeyour wrote:
<quoted text>Md. He could have low testosterone.
I've felt for a while that he could have this, but I can't get him to go to the doctor to get checked or medicated. I'm kind of lost on what to do there.

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#78 Dec 29, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
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I've felt for a while that he could have this, but I can't get him to go to the doctor to get checked or medicated. I'm kind of lost on what to do there.
Same answer to lot's of different problems. You can't make him do anything. He has to take part in the solution. You can continue to try speaking to him about it. I'd keep trying nice and helpful, but at some point you have to decide if it's worth it.
Loverboy

Madisonville, KY

#79 Dec 29, 2012
Shave yourself. Buy some sexy lingerie. Get a new hairstyle and color along with a tan. And perform a new sexual act, such as anal, bondage or whatever sounds hot to you. If that doesn't work he may not be worth you'd effort
brando24

New Albany, IN

#80 Dec 29, 2012
Communication is a huge factor. It takes two people to do anything. My wife and I waited to late. You can't go back sometimes.
crazy

United States

#81 Dec 29, 2012
big package wrote:
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I know right? Another lucid person with an actual answer. Yeah, if they both didn't care, not a problem. SHE wants it and he's not delivering. That IS a problem. I think it SHOULD be an important part of a healthy relationship but wtf do I know? I'm not with the guys telling her to just go get it somewhere else. That is probably only going to cause way more problems.
Im glad not everyone on this site is an idiot. And all you people blaming it on stress, or family, ot whatever....its still no excuse. I have been married for 10 years, work full time, go to school online, have 6 kids and I still find time to sleep with my wife at least 3-4 times a week. And I don't mean for 1 minute. I mean all out, breaking a sweat, taking care of business. Lol. Yes he might be depressed, he might have low t, and those are legitimate reasons. But to turn down sex because he would rather play video games?!?! Thats messed up.
MarriedFemale

United States

#82 Dec 29, 2012
I'm glad I'm not just crazy and these are legitimate concerns! He makes me feel like all men do what he is doing and I'm just being overly needy.

“I'm almost awesome”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

jersey city

#83 Dec 29, 2012
MarriedFemale wrote:
I'm glad I'm not just crazy and these are legitimate concerns! He makes me feel like all men do what he is doing and I'm just being overly needy.
All men do NOT do what he's doing. Once in a while? Maybe. Not me in particular, but I do understand. All the time or almost all the time? I agree with crazy. That is totally unacceptable. Either way or the male or female to blow it off. If he's physically incapable (doesn't sound like it) that's one thing. It's your decision, but don't accept it as 'normal' because it's not.
surfer

Newburgh, IN

#84 Dec 29, 2012
Does he watch porno on the internet?

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