for all moms who stop dads visitation
who knows

Tucker, GA

#66 Feb 25, 2013
payursupport wrote:
<quoted text>My question was specifically, if he HAS the money but spends on himself, and other women while the mom works to provide for the child on one income and sacrafices for the child....do you think that deadbeat dad should have equal rights to visit the child...
yes, although it is very wrong that they don't help support the child. You should not take away the option for that child to have a relationship with their father. There are too many children without an involved father. You should allow the relationship regardless of money, and pursue the child support in court as well.
Mary

United States

#67 Feb 25, 2013
lala wrote:
She never stated that there was a custody agreement, so based on the info she has given you can't say she's breaking the law. And even if there is one in place if she has reason to believe he is being abused she can stop visitation until they go to court. A child that responds that way to visiting a parent is usually mistreated in some way.<quoted text>
Or in fact the child could be possibly hearing to much of adult conversation about a certain adult in the other household it's made them scared to death . Parents that have custody of a child/ children shouldn't allow children around any negative conversations that is pertaining to anyone in the non- custodial parents household if so it could therefore alter the child or children's outlook on being in the non- custodial home .
Smarter

Birdseye, IN

#68 Feb 26, 2013
Totally agree Mary!
bravo

Sikeston, MO

#69 Feb 26, 2013
My opinion is that child support or not the father or mother should be able to see there child as long as the child isn't put in a dangerous situation. No parent should have to pay there other for visitation. Any one doing this should lose there children anyways because they are really just worried about the money more than the child seeing there mother or father. People has to understand that money doesn't fall from the tree for some like it does others. A child needs love more than money any day.
tweetie

Halifax, Canada

#70 Oct 27, 2013
bravo wrote:
My opinion is that child support or not the father or mother should be able to see there child as long as the child isn't put in a dangerous situation. No parent should have to pay there other for visitation. Any one doing this should lose there children anyways because they are really just worried about the money more than the child seeing there mother or father. People has to understand that money doesn't fall from the tree for some like it does others. A child needs love more than money any day.
So the child doesn't need clothes on their back and food in their stomach? How is not paying in the best interest of the children? The main caregiver (usually the mother) often goes without so they can provide for the child. Parents cant must turn their back on financial responsibility just because they can. All parents that dont contribute financially are dead beat parents great role models for their children?!? I dont think so. I've seen parents both male and female go through hell because the other parents refuse their financial responsibility... Worrying how they are going to feed the children... Pay for childcare so they can work... Worry about heating and other bills.. But all is ok as long as they get to see both parents and get love?!?! Being a parent isn't just about loving your child. Im not saying kids should be with held for non payment but there should be a legal repercussion and the primary care parent shouldn't have to keep paying to take them back to court for non payment... How's that fair on the child? Seeing their parent go through the stress? Children aren't stupid and they can tell when a parent is worried even if they aren't communicating verbally to them about it.
wow

Toledo, OH

#71 Oct 27, 2013
Parents who talk about the other parent infront of their kid could backfire in their face. If they love their so called mom or dad eventually they will form their own opinions and could even resent the other parent for talking so poorly about the other parent. Just a thought....
Hole up

Villa Rica, GA

#72 Oct 29, 2013
Fathers and mothers out, there is so selfish and will stop their kids from seeing their fathers and mothers. But some of them don't do that to each other. So mothers and so and rear yes that's right rear father out there will keep their kids from their parents for their back child support. That's wrong to.
ignorance by most

Chicago, IL

#73 Oct 29, 2013
Mothers CANNOT stop a father's visitaton. A father that doesn't pursue that visitation is worse than the mother. A mother TRYING to stop visitation, most of the time, is for a legitimate reason. Such as father on drugs, abusive or something along those lines. If the father isn't seeing his children, and he truly wants to, he would pursue it through court and not this website.
opinion

Owensboro, KY

#74 Oct 30, 2013
Well most women and men who have kids have em out of wedlock.Or if you are married these days the easier thing is to get a divorce. People don't want to fight for marriages anymore these days. Its easy to get a divorce. Thats not what it was intended for. I'm a young dude but I'm married. My wife and I have been together for long time and been through a lot. But it just tought me to fight. Yea I could walk out but why. Yea things happen n sometimes ppl don't know how to forgive anymore but you got to fight. There are deadbeat dads there are deadbeat moms out in world. Its just sad to see ppl fight over children and use them to get one another.. a lot of times men get the bad end of that.
crazy

Owensboro, KY

#75 Oct 30, 2013
You know I see so many women getting child support and going out here and probably using that check the bar. I never understood why there is child support. Because heck you know the mom is not using that money on the kids. Good women out there do. Bur not to many of them really use that money for the kids.
completebs

Owensboro, KY

#76 Oct 30, 2013
crazy wrote:
You know I see so many women getting child support and going out here and probably using that check the bar. I never understood why there is child support. Because heck you know the mom is not using that money on the kids. Good women out there do. Bur not to many of them really use that money for the kids.
it doesn't matter what the money is used for, so long as the kids have everything they need. the child support i receive goes in my bank account where it's used for whatever we need...rent, food, utilities, insurance, groceries, meals out, clothes, cigarettes, whatever. once the money is in my possession, it's mine. my kid has clothes, food, a place to live, is spoiled beyond belief, healthy, so not a single person can tell me how to spend my money.
Hmmm

Owensboro, KY

#78 Nov 2, 2013
payursupport wrote:
<quoted text>
My question was specifically, if he HAS the money but spends on himself, and other women while the mom works to provide for the child on one income and sacrafices for the child....do you think that deadbeat dad should have equal rights to visit the child...
. Maybe if he seen the child he would buy him/her stuff
hey

Owensboro, KY

#80 Nov 11, 2013
How is child support determined? Does it go off how much your child is away from you? Like say i have my son more than his mother .. Does that have any weight on child support amounts?
Yep

Sacramento, KY

#81 Nov 12, 2013
hey wrote:
How is child support determined? Does it go off how much your child is away from you? Like say i have my son more than his mother .. Does that have any weight on child support amounts?
Child support is based on income, BUT time spent with each parent can be factored into the equation.
not me

Owensboro, KY

#82 Nov 12, 2013
My ex finally got his visitation last year and what do you know been 3 months since he picked him up. That's why I didn't want him to come back around again his Xbox and pot are more important than his son. When he did pick him up it was only 4 hrs every 2 weeks that's all he wanted. The sad part was when he had him he would play his Xbox and ignore him. I'm sure with Christmas coming up he will only want him because he likes his family to think he is being a good dad.
question

United States

#83 Nov 12, 2013
Yep wrote:
<quoted text>Child support is based on income, BUT time spent with each parent can be factored into the equation.
how is residence determined in court? Thanks
ScrewHim

Owensboro, KY

#84 Nov 12, 2013
I don't let my son's dad see him at all. He keeps taking me to court and they say I do have to let him see him but I still don't. I just don't answer his calls and tell my son that he isn't even his real daddy. He's a cheater, a liar and woman beater. He also wouldn't take me on vacation, or buy me new shoes. He ain't gonna see his son as long as I live. He should have taken better care of me and now he can feel my wrath. Now when he happens to track me down somewhere, my son says, "you ain't my daddy."
Good for him

United States

#85 Nov 12, 2013
ScrewHim wrote:
I don't let my son's dad see him at all. He keeps taking me to court and they say I do have to let him see him but I still don't. I just don't answer his calls and tell my son that he isn't even his real daddy. He's a cheater, a liar and woman beater. He also wouldn't take me on vacation, or buy me new shoes. He ain't gonna see his son as long as I live. He should have taken better care of me and now he can feel my wrath. Now when he happens to track me down somewhere, my son says, "you ain't my daddy."
Wouldn't take you on vacation or buy you shoes? What a bitch you are. Best thing he probably ever did was get rid of a bitch like you
messedup

Madisonville, KY

#86 Nov 15, 2013
You know I had a troubled life in the past went to jail at 22 and my son was 8 months was there everyday for the child...two weeks after I went to jail she had told me she was getting married.... my word to her was k have a nice life then Jan '08 she filed a dvo on me which being in states custody they didn't bring me back to fight it so when I got out at 25 and tried seeing him she kept telling me to just sign my rights over..... which then she was telling everyone in owensboro I was a dead beat but when she got served to go back to court she tried to file another dvo which didn't happen this time huh think again white trash women think they can keep my kid from me
Jr Daugherty

Madisonville, KY

#87 Nov 15, 2013
jake wrote:
As the judge was reaming my baby 's mother yesterday in court I learned you can only stop visitation legally, even if its not set up by court if the parent is intoxicated while trying to pick up your child or if they dont have a proper child seat. And even if your first time to go to court you can put it in your motion for her to pay for court cost and your lawyer. I had to front the money in the beggining but now shes ordered to pay it all back!!! and i get to see my son. You women have no right to take our children away from us. Her lame excuse to the judge was that i dont follow her rules. He told her that her rules meant nothing in my home or when he was in my care. If your a dad whos never been in trouble with social services you will win. I've heard of many men winning even with legal aid helping them. Dont let the mother of your children find a new daddy for your kids. I think it must be an owensboro trend for women to act like they do it all by thereselfs but needless to say even in the last year when I didnt get to see my children she was living on my child support. also learned visitation and child support have nothing to do with one another. 4 all you guys whoo need a little encouragement
I'm going through the exact same thing. Haven't seen my son in 8 wks 2day. Till then I was seeing him 6/7 days a wk. just seems like Daviess Co throws up roadblock after roadblock for decent, single fathers. What lawyer did u use? And can a father not file his own motion for visitation in Daviess Co? And if so, how does one go about that?

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