for all moms who stop dads visitation

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Level 2

Since: Jun 11

utica

#43 Aug 28, 2011
jake wrote:
As the judge was reaming my baby 's mother yesterday in court I learned you can only stop visitation legally, even if its not set up by court if the parent is intoxicated while trying to pick up your child or if they dont have a proper child seat. And even if your first time to go to court you can put it in your motion for her to pay for court cost and your lawyer. I had to front the money in the beggining but now shes ordered to pay it all back!!! and i get to see my son. You women have no right to take our children away from us. Her lame excuse to the judge was that i dont follow her rules. He told her that her rules meant nothing in my home or when he was in my care. If your a dad whos never been in trouble with social services you will win. I've heard of many men winning even with legal aid helping them. Dont let the mother of your children find a new daddy for your kids. I think it must be an owensboro trend for women to act like they do it all by thereselfs but needless to say even in the last year when I didnt get to see my children she was living on my child support. also learned visitation and child support have nothing to do with one another. 4 all you guys whoo need a little encouragement
u r an awesome father n i hate the type of bitches u speak of. i have 3 beautiful girls whos father i have never told that he cant see them
MomOf1

Cincinnati, OH

#45 Aug 28, 2011
My son is 7yrs old & he tells me he doesn't wanna go wit his dad, he even cries & begs me not to make him go. When my son does this I don't make him go b/c he has to b doin this for a reason. I would hate to not listen to what he tells me & him b gettin hurt there.

Level 6

Since: Oct 10

Owensboro, KY

#46 Aug 28, 2011
MomOf1 wrote:
My son is 7yrs old & he tells me he doesn't wanna go wit his dad, he even cries & begs me not to make him go. When my son does this I don't make him go b/c he has to b doin this for a reason. I would hate to not listen to what he tells me & him b gettin hurt there.
You're admitting to break the law right here. You cannot, for any reason unless ordered by the court, keep the father from seeing your son.
MomOf1

Cincinnati, OH

#47 Aug 28, 2011
Well I guess they can come get me b/c there is no way I'ma make my son go when he's that upset! Maybe my sons father should b a better dad & maybe he'd wanna go!!!
Scott

Owensboro, KY

#48 Aug 29, 2011
far from low life.lol U say my term faggots is excepted by god?? Check ur bible 1st corinthians 6:10. Tell me how God accepts them, yes it was kiinda off subject but not really bc some women keep thier kids away from their dads and that causes nothing but women around the kids and no male role model in their life. But u say keep the money rollin in dont ya? your not good enough to see my kid but your money is good enough to raise them. Thats a big bunch of crap right there
lala

Owensboro, KY

#49 Sep 9, 2011
She never stated that there was a custody agreement, so based on the info she has given you can't say she's breaking the law. And even if there is one in place if she has reason to believe he is being abused she can stop visitation until they go to court. A child that responds that way to visiting a parent is usually mistreated in some way.
Linus Lieberman wrote:
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You're admitting to break the law right here. You cannot, for any reason unless ordered by the court, keep the father from seeing your son.
mhm

Utica, KY

#50 Sep 9, 2011
echo_loud wrote:
bottom line is that any parent good, bad, or otherwise has the right to their spawn unless proven unfit by an appointed offical. thats the law. whether he/she pays support or not.
So your saying that if the child's parent (mother or father) is a drug addict you've watched them do drugs you should leave them with that parent anyways? Any parent who has a brain in their skull would NEVER leave their child with a drug addict period.
Notgud

Owensboro, KY

#51 Sep 10, 2011
I'll break any law when it comes to my kids and when my daughter has a dang panic attack at just the sight if her dad; she DOES NOT have to go. When a child doesn't wanna go it is for a valid reason and why would a parent force their child to see them if the child doesn't want to..that's selfish and mentally damaging to the child.
bearbear

Owensboro, KY

#52 Sep 11, 2011
jake wrote:
As the judge was reaming my baby 's mother yesterday in court I learned you can only stop visitation legally, even if its not set up by court if the parent is intoxicated while trying to pick up your child or if they dont have a proper child seat. And even if your first time to go to court you can put it in your motion for her to pay for court cost and your lawyer. I had to front the money in the beggining but now shes ordered to pay it all back!!! and i get to see my son. You women have no right to take our children away from us. Her lame excuse to the judge was that i dont follow her rules. He told her that her rules meant nothing in my home or when he was in my care. If your a dad whos never been in trouble with social services you will win. I've heard of many men winning even with legal aid helping them. Dont let the mother of your children find a new daddy for your kids. I think it must be an owensboro trend for women to act like they do it all by thereselfs but needless to say even in the last year when I didnt get to see my children she was living on my child support. also learned visitation and child support have nothing to do with one another. 4 all you guys whoo need a little encouragement
I WISH my twins daddy would step up. He has a girlfriend that he can not decie if he has tie for her and them. I do not want child support. I make enough to support my babies. I just want him to be DADDY. They are almost a year(9/24/10) and he has hit and miss asked about them. "Tried" to see them. In the end, his girlfriend has been his priority and he has never met our beautiful babies. They have significant health problems and he should meet them while he can but he wont. He is happier pretending like they arent here. I wish he was a real man like some me, but for a low life Wal Mrt lifer it wont happen.
lawyer mom

North Ridgeville, OH

#53 Sep 11, 2011
Linus Lieberman wrote:
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You're admitting to break the law right here. You cannot, for any reason unless ordered by the court, keep the father from seeing your son.
that is not entirely true. she can not keep the child from going if he wants but she also does not have to force him if he doesnt want to go . if the child plainly states he does not want to go she is not keeping them from him and is not breaking the law! check your facts. just because the judge said one thing dealing with one individual case it doesnt mean it applies to all cases and not forcing a child to go is not the same thing as not letting him go.
because

Owensboro, KY

#54 Sep 12, 2011
HateKY wrote:
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Aren't they suppose to go to jail for that? Seriously... Why aren't they in jail??
most of the moms feel terrible for throwing the deadbeat in jail. Plus the deadbeat will continue to mess with the children.."your mommy put daddy in jail", the guys that don't pay and have the means are selfish and dont really care about the kids. they use them as pawns, and even bait to attracked women...."look at what a good dad i am" etc.....the moms should throw their butt in jail....because the stat of kentucky DOES agree with that!
because

Owensboro, KY

#55 Sep 12, 2011
Linus Lieberman wrote:
<quoted text>
You're admitting to break the law right here. You cannot, for any reason unless ordered by the court, keep the father from seeing your son.
WRONG!! Child has the choice to go or not.....
word

Owensboro, KY

#56 Sep 12, 2011
baby momma wrote:
<quoted text>I will check into that! Thanks!
I went through them for a divorce it was free n it's a real lawyer. It took time but I think they awesome..
word

Owensboro, KY

#57 Sep 12, 2011
lawyer mom wrote:
<quoted text>that is not entirely true. she can not keep the child from going if he wants but she also does not have to force him if he doesnt want to go . if the child plainly states he does not want to go she is not keeping them from him and is not breaking the law! check your facts. just because the judge said one thing dealing with one individual case it doesnt mean it applies to all cases and not forcing a child to go is not the same thing as not letting him go.
True... I have a court order with my daughters dad n there r days she says she wants to stay home.. I do not force her to go.. If it is his day I just tell him she don't wanna go.. She has rights..
witness to it all

Richmond, KY

#58 Nov 7, 2012
autumn rea and misty carden...stopped allowin their kids tosee their father because they got ane man....pieceof shit moms if u ask me
Worthless

United States

#59 Nov 8, 2012
Some parents just do not deserve it sorry. People make mistakes but come on people. If you haven't grown up by now, you won't. These man/ woman are known as pathetic and sad excuses for adults. Most children with a parent or parents like that are better off.
screwed over

Hopkinsville, KY

#61 Nov 8, 2012
And the past I'm talking about happened after I got pregnant. Not when we were together.
Carole

UK

#62 Nov 9, 2012
The children have a right to a relationship with both parents. As long as the absent parent is not a danger to the child then the child should have contact, the rights and wrongs of child support are not relevant to the childs right to a relationship with the absent parent. It's not for the parent with residency to judge whether a child is better off without the absent parent, as long as they are not a danger to the child contact should be encouraged, not denied.
hello

United States

#63 Feb 24, 2013
what bout women who stop letting the dad see the kid because the kid dont want to go or screams amd cries when its the dads weekend? the child is 8 years old. its been almost a yr since my fiance has seen his kid cause her mom makes excuses even bringing one of my children into it. my fiance pays his child support and is a very good man and dad. his kids mom wants to control everything. I cant wait til they goto court and the judge asks her y n she says her kid didnt want to. way I see it is when they r 18 not 8 then the kid can decide
Smarter

Birdseye, IN

#65 Feb 25, 2013
It's different when the daughter don't want to go cause she don't want to hurt her moms feelings if she likes the new wife. Mom talks bad about the dad and wife so daughter don't want to come. When she IS with dad and wife she's fine but can't act the same way when her mom is around. It's sooo sad.

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