Brian

Hopkinsville, KY

#21 Feb 13, 2013
pattty wrote:
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Sounds like you need some spice in your relationship, since you're saying you're tired of the "same old thing". Be mysterious and try new things with the person your with.
By "the same old thing," I meant the woman herself, not what I'm doing. Believe me, we've done every position, every room in the house, role playing, you name it.

After a while, you've just had a woman so many times that it becomes boring and you need a new one. Sad but true.

Do you know that jolt of excitement you get when you're out with a new girl for the first time? The rush of a first kiss? You can't get that back in monogamy. Ditch it everyone, for your own good.
haley

United States

#22 Feb 13, 2013
nothing turns a girl on more than the putrid stench of desperation

Level 2

Since: Jul 12

Cleveland, TN

#23 Feb 13, 2013
wonder wrote:
Ok, so I'm married. I'm a stay at home mom as well. There is nothing left in our marriage except for the comfort of stability. Is it wrong that if I'm looking for a man to inspire me to get a divorce that I'm looking for a man who is going to take good care of me? I don't think I should have to go back to work and feel like I'm struggling in order to be with someone.
If you want a divorce then get a divorce. You shouldn't stick around and wait for another man that has more money. That's kind of pathetic. If you just need someone to take care of you physically then I'm sure there's plenty of guys on here for that.
Women

United States

#24 Feb 14, 2013
They are very simple
Lend me ur ears
U don't know jack
Sh!t about them
And we shall
Never know
Hello Brian

Owensboro, KY

#25 Feb 14, 2013
Brian wrote:
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By "the same old thing," I meant the woman herself, not what I'm doing. Believe me, we've done every position, every room in the house, role playing, you name it.
After a while, you've just had a woman so many times that it becomes boring and you need a new one. Sad but true.
Do you know that jolt of excitement you get when you're out with a new girl for the first time? The rush of a first kiss? You can't get that back in monogamy. Ditch it everyone, for your own good.
Sounds like you're lacking something within yourself, considering that you can't commit to just one woman. Not trying to offend you, but it does seem as if you have some deep issues--maybe that concern your past.
Brian

Hopkinsville, KY

#26 Feb 15, 2013
Hello Brian wrote:
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Sounds like you're lacking something within yourself, considering that you can't commit to just one woman. Not trying to offend you, but it does seem as if you have some deep issues--maybe that concern your past.
I'm not lacking anything in myself only because I don't want to be restricted to just one woman for the rest of my life.

What you call monogamy I call slavery and ridiculousness.
Jimmy

Owensboro, KY

#27 Feb 15, 2013
mr tongue wrote:
Women are far from simple. More like impossible. You said as soon as you get them figured out? There is no figuring them out. I don't even think alot of them can figure themselves out so how do they expect us to?? With me it always seems the more I give the more they want and it is totally one sided. So tired of being taken for granted with women.
Dude, with a user name like yours, all you're doing is coming off as a desperate Internet creep to ladies. If you want to figure them out, start by coming off as a sex obsessed weirdo.
Brian

United States

#28 Feb 15, 2013
I have to look for women on topix because I'm poor and ugly :(
Really

Owensboro, KY

#29 Feb 15, 2013
Brian wrote:
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I'm not lacking anything in myself only because I don't want to be restricted to just one woman for the rest of my life.
What you call monogamy I call slavery and ridiculousness.
Go above and pick through your statement that you made. To me something just doesn't seem right. You say that even if you have a woman that pleasures you greatly and I'm guessing she could treat you like a king, then you're still going for the next woman because you want new. Really, you don't see something lacking with in you. You don't deserve any woman, if that's how it is.
aye

Owensboro, KY

#30 Feb 15, 2013
I am down to
lady

Owensboro, KY

#31 Feb 15, 2013
wonder wrote:
Ok, so I'm married. I'm a stay at home mom as well. There is nothing left in our marriage except for the comfort of stability. Is it wrong that if I'm looking for a man to inspire me to get a divorce that I'm looking for a man who is going to take good care of me? I don't think I should have to go back to work and feel like I'm struggling in order to be with someone.
So what you're saying is you just want a man to use for money.

You should be with a person for who they are, not for what's in their bank account. You will never be happy if you continue on that path.
Go out and get yourself a job so that you can be financially independent, and just see how much confidence that gives you.

As for the husband part, well maybe both of you should try a separtation to see if that may help, because sometimes being apart can help you realize how much that you want to be with someone.
Brian

Hopkinsville, KY

#32 Feb 15, 2013
Really wrote:
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Go above and pick through your statement that you made. To me something just doesn't seem right. You say that even if you have a woman that pleasures you greatly and I'm guessing she could treat you like a king, then you're still going for the next woman because you want new. Really, you don't see something lacking with in you. You don't deserve any woman, if that's how it is.
You women are all obsessed with making men your slaves.

You want us to beg for your attention, treat you all like queens, and do everything you say without question.

Why do you want to restrict a man to you for the rest of his life, make him work to support you while you sit on your butt and do nothing, and, instead of being thankful, run him down all the time?

You might as well go ahead and put shackles on us.

And you say that we will only be happy in marriage, that there must be something wrong with us if we don't want to become someone's slave.

There's nothing wrong to me just because I don't conform to your system. I've seen past your lies. Monogamy is a ploy so that you can do nothing while having your own personal slave. I value my freedom and human dignity too much for that.
Really

Owensboro, KY

#33 Feb 15, 2013
Brian wrote:
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You women are all obsessed with making men your slaves.
You want us to beg for your attention, treat you all like queens, and do everything you say without question.
Why do you want to restrict a man to you for the rest of his life, make him work to support you while you sit on your butt and do nothing, and, instead of being thankful, run him down all the time?
You might as well go ahead and put shackles on us.
And you say that we will only be happy in marriage, that there must be something wrong with us if we don't want to become someone's slave.
There's nothing wrong to me just because I don't conform to your system. I've seen past your lies. Monogamy is a ploy so that you can do nothing while having your own personal slave. I value my freedom and human dignity too much for that.
Wow, Brian sounds like you have had some issues with your relationships. I must tell you, that you are only speaking of a few women. You must of been burned badly by a woman. Not all of us are what you claim. I will give my all to my man, but he also needs to give is all to me as well. I see a relationship as a partnership. I say he can have all the freedom he wants, but he must not cheat on me because I do not cheat on him.
Also some of us women have jobs and careers now, so we don't need your money.
hey

Duluth, GA

#34 Feb 15, 2013
Hey aye was up

Level 1

Since: Nov 12

Duluth, GA

#35 Feb 16, 2013
Jimmy wrote:
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Dude, with a user name like yours, all you're doing is coming off as a desperate Internet creep to ladies. If you want to figure them out, start by coming off as a sex obsessed weirdo.
Hahahaha you got it figured out don't you? So just because of my user name that makes me a desperate internet creep? You're right I should have used something like Mr perfect and tell a bunch of lies about who I am. No better yet why not call myself Jimmy? Lmao you're funny dude. So let us all know since you have women all figured out.
free advice

United States

#36 Feb 16, 2013
mr tongue wrote:
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Hahahaha you got it figured out don't you? So just because of my user name that makes me a desperate internet creep? You're right I should have used something like Mr perfect and tell a bunch of lies about who I am. No better yet why not call myself Jimmy? Lmao you're funny dude. So let us all know since you have women all figured out.
Let me see if I can explain. I'll try to use small words for you. Your chosen name isn't going to attract any women. It's creepy. I know, I know, you have a harem of fat hairy women in your trailer. Spare me the details of your awesome life.

And for what it's worth, Jimmy doesn't appear to be trolling topix for women. So.......

Level 1

Since: Nov 12

Duluth, GA

#37 Feb 16, 2013
free advice wrote:
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Let me see if I can explain. I'll try to use small words for you. Your chosen name isn't going to attract any women. It's creepy. I know, I know, you have a harem of fat hairy women in your trailer. Spare me the details of your awesome life.
And for what it's worth, Jimmy doesn't appear to be trolling topix for women. So.......
Lmao thanks for your input however you don't seem to know much either. I didn't know this was a dating site where people try to attract women. I get on here mainly for humor but thank you for taking time out of your awesome life to tell me how awesome mine is. The fact is you clicked on the same thread I did so what's that say about you? Oh and one more thing sorry if you might have confused me for someone else with your shallow mind but I actually own and live in a house as well as own a few vehicles. As far as the women I choose to date or be involved with I don't see why that would bother or affect you in any way but I will say they aren't fat or hairy. With the exception of the hair being on their head.
free advice

United States

#38 Feb 16, 2013
mr tongue wrote:
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Lmao thanks for your input however you don't seem to know much either. I didn't know this was a dating site where people try to attract women. I get on here mainly for humor but thank you for taking time out of your awesome life to tell me how awesome mine is. The fact is you clicked on the same thread I did so what's that say about you? Oh and one more thing sorry if you might have confused me for someone else with your shallow mind but I actually own and live in a house as well as own a few vehicles. As far as the women I choose to date or be involved with I don't see why that would bother or affect you in any way but I will say they aren't fat or hairy. With the exception of the hair being on their head.
Like I said, I don't care about your little trailer life. Somehow I knew you would want to tell me anyway, you desperate creepy bastard. Lmao

Level 1

Since: Nov 12

United States

#39 Feb 16, 2013
free advice wrote:
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Like I said, I don't care about your little trailer life. Somehow I knew you would want to tell me anyway, you desperate creepy bastard. Lmao
Oh you care or it woulddnt bother you. Sorry but no I'm not in your trailer park. Again I own a home
Curious

United States

#40 Mar 23, 2013
I didn't say it was totally easy. Girls honestly have in their heads that a guy should be like the ones in the movies. Honestly, you can just do your best. Take her out on a simple date, buy her flowers once in a while, ask her how she is, if she needs help just help her instead of waiting for her to complain or ask. Give random compliments. Be funny, be charming, be a gentlemen, and be yourself. We know guys aren't perfect but if you try and be yourself you should be fine.

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