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karma

Owensboro, KY

#1 Feb 12, 2013
yea timmy smith is scum he is a drunk and druggie ive known him 25 years he is pure WHITE TRASH and has every std known to man if u do have a child by him i feel sorry for u he is a number 1 DEAD BEAT but he will NEVER be a dad
karma

Owensboro, KY

#2 Feb 12, 2013
if u know where timmy smith is let child support know cause he has a daughter that he owes over 133 thousand to he is behind he stop paying when she was 3 years old now shes 17 he is friggin a low life scum who needs to pay up!!!!!
lots

Owensboro, KY

#3 Feb 13, 2013
Tim Oliver is a piece of shut dead beat dad
oh no

United States

#4 Feb 13, 2013
Josh James
Haha

Owensboro, KY

#5 Feb 13, 2013
BC. They're everywhere
Sadday

Owensboro, KY

#6 Feb 13, 2013
This could go on for days and days.....put ur energy into child support office instead of topix!! Be the mom that calls everyday and makes your case priority!! They will eventually listen and should direct u to someone that can track him down. Ur daughter deserves that much....hope this helps
who knows

Owensboro, KY

#7 Feb 13, 2013
It would help if women actually got to know a person before having sex with them. Also, maybe look at their last and if they haven't supported any of their precious children, do you really think they will support yours? Our society has turned to crap. The guy is just as much at fault but women need to have more respect for themselves and their children when they mess around with all of theses worthless members of society.
who knows

Owensboro, KY

#8 Feb 13, 2013
Past*
Whatabout

United States

#9 Feb 13, 2013
Hey let's not forget these dads that leave their wives and kids for another woman and have NOTHING to do with that child. Yet the new wife wants to point her finger at other mean that left his wife and STILL HAS EVERYTHING to do with his kids. They don't have to not pay Child support. They can have NOTHING to do with his kid/kids and be dead beats.
Voice of Reason

Cookeville, TN

#10 Feb 13, 2013
Ever thought about the fact that maybe the "deadbeat" fathers are just trying to survive on the wages they make and get into a better position to support their children? There was probably never a moment where you realized 'hey, the amount I'm trying to get out of them is going to make it EXTREMELY hard for them to even support their self, or get a car, to better support their self, like get a better job. More or less, support their child/children.' I'm sorry, but here's a nice reality check, you're no better than they are because you're trying to suck them dry and make it extremely difficult for them to live, or get into a better place. All you have is yourself to blame. I assure you that you're also the type to make a mountain out of a mole hill because there have been a couple of past payments going unpaid. My advice, try to better yourself, instead of bitching and complaining. Or even better yet, get on birth control. Yes, the latter of the two is the best choice. THINK before getting knocked up, be responsible, because I assume you are all of the age to be an "adult".
Also, I am not in any association with Owensboro, the person mentioned, or even know any of you. I am the voice of reason dropping by the forum because I cannot stand when people like you do this dumb childish shit. I agree that the above poster on this thread is correct by stating 'try acting instead of reacting and bashing his name all over the internet'. It's the frackin internet for god sake. If you have time to waste by bashing someone bitterly because they didn't do what you wanted them to do, you have time to get a second job or something productive for the betterment of your child/children.
Have a lovely day, I hope this message sinks in and you learn something from it (I doubt you will).
black thought

United States

#11 Feb 13, 2013
Voice of Reason wrote:
Ever thought about the fact that maybe the "deadbeat" fathers are just trying to survive on the wages they make and get into a better position to support their children? There was probably never a moment where you realized 'hey, the amount I'm trying to get out of them is going to make it EXTREMELY hard for them to even support their self, or get a car, to better support their self, like get a better job. More or less, support their child/children.' I'm sorry, but here's a nice reality check, you're no better than they are because you're trying to suck them dry and make it extremely difficult for them to live, or get into a better place. All you have is yourself to blame. I assure you that you're also the type to make a mountain out of a mole hill because there have been a couple of past payments going unpaid. My advice, try to better yourself, instead of bitching and complaining. Or even better yet, get on birth control. Yes, the latter of the two is the best choice. THINK before getting knocked up, be responsible, because I assume you are all of the age to be an "adult".
Also, I am not in any association with Owensboro, the person mentioned, or even know any of you. I am the voice of reason dropping by the forum because I cannot stand when people like you do this dumb childish shit. I agree that the above poster on this thread is correct by stating 'try acting instead of reacting and bashing his name all over the internet'. It's the frackin internet for god sake. If you have time to waste by bashing someone bitterly because they didn't do what you wanted them to do, you have time to get a second job or something productive for the betterment of your child/children.
Have a lovely day, I hope this message sinks in and you learn something from it (I doubt you will).
Ahhh, the voice of reason has spoken. The voice who places the blame on the woman for not being on birth control but doesn't hold the father accountable. The same voice who believes a mother should better herself to support her children and let the father off the hook? Guess the voice doesn't believe the children have needs that outweigh that of a selfish man and needing a car. I'm a man who will do whatever I have to do to support my kids. If that means walk or ride the bus, I'll do that. Man up and quit relying on the mother to be that and the father too.
Voice of Reason

Cookeville, TN

#13 Feb 14, 2013
The father is accountable for not keeping his seed in check. I never said that it was only the woman's fault. The only point I made was that it's pointless to bash the father when both are accountable. I brought up the point that maybe, just maybe, the father is trying and can't seem to get ahead. Between bills, etc. and outrageous support, it's hard to get ahead, things get behind, next thing you know you've got a lovely warrant, so you run, things go unpaid. Very vicious cycle. It's not selfish to need a car, especially when you have to travel outside of your danky city to find better work, say, because you've got a colorful background. I congratulate you for maning up, have a cookie, it's your responsibility for procreating. I am a female, this is all coming from a feminin perspective. I'm not by any means blaming women, I'm blaming idiots who perpetuate their idiocy.
what

Owensboro, KY

#14 Feb 14, 2013
So the mother should have to sink herself further in debt trying to support the children on her own because the father can't get his act together? Maybe they should have been more careful but that doesn't change the fact there are children now who need to be taken care of and the father should have to help as well. If the mother was going thru hard time she would be expected to still put her money towards the children so the father should as well, no matter his hardships because more than likely, if he has a "colorful background" then his hardships are his own fault.
black thought

United States

#15 Feb 14, 2013
Voice of Reason wrote:
The father is accountable for not keeping his seed in check. I never said that it was only the woman's fault. The only point I made was that it's pointless to bash the father when both are accountable. I brought up the point that maybe, just maybe, the father is trying and can't seem to get ahead. Between bills, etc. and outrageous support, it's hard to get ahead, things get behind, next thing you know you've got a lovely warrant, so you run, things go unpaid. Very vicious cycle. It's not selfish to need a car, especially when you have to travel outside of your danky city to find better work, say, because you've got a colorful background. I congratulate you for maning up, have a cookie, it's your responsibility for procreating. I am a female, this is all coming from a feminin perspective. I'm not by any means blaming women, I'm blaming idiots who perpetuate their idiocy.
Bills are not more important than the welfare of his children. Live on the damn street if you have to, but take care of your kids FIRST.
2 B Determined

Owensboro, KY

#16 Feb 14, 2013
Timmy Smith? Is this the same as TR Smith?
Voice of Reason

United States

#17 Feb 14, 2013
You're saying exactly what I said 'what' and that is that both are to blame. And through personal experience, no, it is very common for the 'colorful background' to be something that is not the fathers fault. Hell, I'm still enduring this situation and I've seen first hand where the baby momma don't get her way and throws the man in jail. The fact that the law favors women is sickening ... Justice is supposed to be blind.
As for you 'black thought' you're an idiot. If a man is on the street you best believe money ain't going to the children. Survival is our instinct, those kids will just have to go into custody of the state if the mother can't handle her own shit. Help is one thing, but the amount of child support baby mommas try and get out of men, who are most likely rebuilding because they left behind the house, vehicle etc. For the mother and children, well its rediculous bc 90% of baby mommas keep going to court to up payments. It's absolutely disgraceful and you lack pride within yourself.
Voice of Reason

United States

#18 Feb 14, 2013
Also, I'll reiterate that I have experience in this, and I'm not lumping everyone into these categories, but, I do know 90% of the time what I have stated is true. Like I said, kudos to being a good parent if you are, but not everyone is and its sad that this is what is repopulating the earth.
I know

Owensboro, KY

#19 Feb 15, 2013
who knows wrote:
It would help if women actually got to know a person before having sex with them. Also, maybe look at their last and if they haven't supported any of their precious children, do you really think they will support yours? Our society has turned to crap. The guy is just as much at fault but women need to have more respect for themselves and their children when they mess around with all of theses worthless members of society.
Right, because all of these women who get abandoned by dead beat fathers are just out there sleeping around with everyone they find. There are many women who married a man, who had no previous children, who found themselves cheated on or beaten and now those poor women are at the mercy of the sexist court system. Why don't YOU put YOUR energy into pushing for better courts that have a more intelligent grasp on domestic situations?
bitter not reasonable

Owensboro, KY

#20 Feb 15, 2013
Voice of Reason wrote:
You're saying exactly what I said 'what' and that is that both are to blame. And through personal experience, no, it is very common for the 'colorful background' to be something that is not the fathers fault. Hell, I'm still enduring this situation and I've seen first hand where the baby momma don't get her way and throws the man in jail. The fact that the law favors women is sickening ... Justice is supposed to be blind.
As for you 'black thought' you're an idiot. If a man is on the street you best believe money ain't going to the children. Survival is our instinct, those kids will just have to go into custody of the state if the mother can't handle her own shit. Help is one thing, but the amount of child support baby mommas try and get out of men, who are most likely rebuilding because they left behind the house, vehicle etc. For the mother and children, well its rediculous bc 90% of baby mommas keep going to court to up payments. It's absolutely disgraceful and you lack pride within yourself.
Some one sure sounds bitter! You've exaggerated greatly in your post, but I wouldn't expect any better, that's just a man's way. Women are screwed in court when dealing with domestic violence and child support. They barely get enough to get by. But, since you're some bitter little boy, you'll continue crying the blues.
Voice of Reason

United States

#21 Feb 15, 2013
Uhm, yes 'I know', I am fighting the sexism in the court system. I have a vagina 'bitter not responsible' and if it weren't for the fact of anonymity I would post who I am. I am a 21 yr old women who is fighting beside her partner for his rights to the children bc we are unfortunatly fighting a psychotic mother who uses the poor children as pawns in chess. She has made every step in his and my relationship extremely difficult and the court system has not done anything for us, but he has been thrown in jail twice in front of the children while he has had them for the weekend. We don't even live in the same state as she does. Yet she refuses to meet us half way. We are doing everything Nd are not getting ANY help from our legal system. Don't tell me I don't know or do not have any experience AND DO NOT TELL ME JUST BC I HOLD A VIEW WHERE I DON'T AGREE WITH MY GENDER THAT THAT MAKES ME A BITTER MAN.

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